#vishakha

✨Welcome back to the third installment of the future Spouse series, based on suggestion by an anon, say thank you anon! Cuz i wasn't gonna do this.✨

This is based on my knowledge and understanding.

This is purely based on Vedic astrology.

Not my art/gif.

Obviously DONT COPY, PLAGIARISE, REWORD, AND PASS OF AS YOUR KNOWLEDGE.

How to get the charts, Darakaraka and nakshatras:

Go to Farfaraway.com get your birth chart.

Look at the lowest degree planet, that's you Darakaraka.

Now click on left "> " and that will give you your table with nakshatras.

What are we looking for:

Venus nakshatra

Jupiter nakshatra

Darakaraka nakshatra

7th lord nakshtara.

We already have a nakshatra explanation/description in the link below, so read that along with the details below.

℘➹ Chitra: Attracts attention from many, is precise, seems out of reach, has interest is monuments, interiors and buildings, museum dates. Self made, has seen some Unconventionally hard times which made them who they are. Marriage will add a glow to you, you will attract more attention after marriage, will attract abundance and will channel more creativity,notices little details about you. Wants to build a strong foundation or a legacy or something with monumental impact. May like wearing jewellery or could give you jewellery as gifts. Gift giving may be significant love language. Fickle temper. Enjoys photography or taking your videos/photos or is into video making/watching. May hide some thing from you initially or your first impression of them may not resonate with their true self. Well built physique or a gym junky. May be your Siblings's friend or friend's sibling or meet through lovers like ex or crush. May meet around or near museums, art galleries, jewellery stores, places with mud/dirt, rocks, crystals, beaches, theatre, near buildings. Can have Leo/Saturn/Venus/Gemini/Rahu/fire energy significant in chart. Spouse can have chitra careers.

℘➹ Swati : Dependable but runs on individuality, unlikely to be a clingy relationship, ambition has no limits, even if you are someone they are after they will do their best to attract you, musical talent, may be fluent in some instrument. Both of you may do business together or a creative project. Marriage or marriage partner may bring prosperity to you. You may discover some of your own talents after marriage or with the partner. May have some hidden insecurities, never satisfied. Fresh and unique music taste, may be famous. May be a foreigner or has different beliefs and upbringing than you. Fame over the internet after marriage. May meet at University, places of learning, library, beach, on a windy day place with strong winds, in malls, stores, place of work, place of business, court house, in air or at airport, places of commuting, places of mountains, in an open space, banks. May have had a fall out with a good friend. Can have air/Mercury/Fire energy significant in chart. Spouse can have swati careers.

℘➹ Vishakha: You may see success and power after marriage, may have a twin, spouse would always be doing two things at once, fascinated with materialistic desires, marriage or spouse may help you expand your beliefs or a change in perspective, could teach you things, many sensual desires, experimental in bedroom, with branded things and luxurious lifestyle, may have had issues with drugs, alcohol, can hide insecurities and dark past, kind to leave everything and experience spirituality on a mountain. May have mood swings if no control over emotions, rose up from a dark time in life and made an extraordinary comeback. At one point will start waking early, may wear gold a lot or will gift you gold. May meet you when you are in a place of stability, or at nightime or places with lights on, or in natural light, trees, parks, restaurant, luxury places, vineyard, place of alcohol so a party, gates may be significant, jewellery stores. Can have Fire/Jupiter/Mercury/Rahu/Sun/12th house energy significant in chart. Spouse can have Vishakha careers.

℘➹ Anuradha: Want's a fun and positive environment, may be an hopeless romantic, will try to keep everything fresh and scented. trendsetter. "Friends of the world" aspiration of Sims. Able to grow out of hardships without a Scratch. Friendship is important. You can expect a best friend kind of relationship with spouse. Could be a friends to lovers. Success story, peace loving, balanced and peaceful in arguments, may be a musician, or sings, will introduce you to new experiences, may or may not leave their job to do something unique or just retire early. May be into motor bike. May meet you in university, place of learning, in a new place, while you are a tourist somewhere, through friends, places with flowers or garden or a park or music, the mood will be light and positive. Best point of relationship will come over time and partnership will have lessons.Can have moon/Mercury/Sun energy significant in chart. Spouse can have Anuradha careers.

℘➹ Jyeshtha: Could be the elder sibling, or took responsibility at an early age, good position in life or marriage may bring authority position to you, strong manifestors, always on the go and quick, has been through battles in life, marriage may go through a war period, marriage may be protected by divine. Power is more important. Could be a friend first or you may be confused between two people at time of marriage. Issues with authority figures and faced betrayal, insecure in relationships. May meet in you when it's raining, near a foundation, on a full moon, in mountain region, or forests, Government buildings, historical or old buildings or old age homes, or place with or near a round object, most likely under a shelter. Can have air /Taurus/Mars/Saturn/Water energy significant in chart. Spouse can have Jyeshtha careers.

℘➹ Mula: Nothing can be hidden from them, attached to home and culture or beliefs. Strong comeback from dark times, marriage or Partnership may break once and then you get back together, you may meet them after something uproots in your life, relationship will be based on being direct with each other. Once built, a strong marriage. Marriage may also break or end some thing for you whenever it happens. Secrets may come out, may have to separate from something like family or job or whatever. Union may not be easy to come. You and spouse may be inseparable after reunited. You or them could at one point deliberately try to Destroy or the union maybe once one of you start getting co dependent. Spouse may have a new business. Some women may try to Destroy union. Union or spouse may be talk of town. Could meet near trees, parks, ancient buildings, rocks, or at place of new business or store. Carries some old baggage. Can have Leo/Saturn/Rahu/Mars/Saturn-Mars aspect energy significant in chart. Spouse can have Mula careers.

℘➹ Purvashadh : Marriage may bring strong sense of justice and right and wrong or partner may do so. You may feel more undefeated and powerful after marriage, or marriage partner brings that sense to you. Could be a water person, beach person or afraid of water. If you are afraid of water they may help overcome that fear. Maybe conventionally pretty. Help you achieve your goals. Appreciates honesty in relationship. Can be defensive. You may take many exotic trips together, you could see rise in luxury after marriage, spouse and marriage brings wealth. Spouse may belong to a town with water bodies near. Could meet you when or where it's windy, on a trip, near beach or water, courtroom, government buildings, places related to war, also glamourous places. Can have water/air/Exalted Venus/Mars energy significant in chart. Spouse can have purvashadh careers.

℘➹ Uttaraashadh: Spouse could change your beliefs, increase sense of justice and religion or Spirituality, could act as youe moral compass, wants honesty in relationship, despises lies, relationship based on honesty, you are likely to share everything with each other, so they may not lie to you when you ask how you look, overachievers. You can see rise in success after marriage. Some of you may not even marry. Spouse could be pious, famous. You can attract fame after marriage or through partner, marriage may be well talked about. Provider energy, always after a goal. Can meet near farms, temples, horses, safary, jungle, garages, traffic, cars, vehicles, vacations, exotic places. Can have Aquarius/Saturn/Rahu/Ketu/Sun energy significant in chart. Spouse can have Uttaraashadh careers.

℘➹ Shravana: Knowledge based on life experience than bookish knowledge, relationship based on intellectual conversations, relationship based on conversations and communication, listening is important, Spouse will listen to all you have to say, their walk may be noticeable. Has many talents. Spouse may teach you many things or bring knowledge to you. For some could the third partner, born on third. Close with mother or has mother issues or inner child wounds, attached to hometown and roots. There could be a third party interference in marriage. Bi or multilingual. They could have studied in a place away from home. Maybe into occult, astrology, or space things. Dedicated to parents, parents are really important. Can meet while travelling, can come into life when you are already in relationship, places of learning, music, art, so concert, library, College, language centres, mountains or on a hike, online through friends. Can have Pisces/air/Sagittarius/Mercury/Gemini/3rd house energy significant in chart. Spouse can have Shravana careers.

℘➹ Dhanishta: Musically talented, singer, wealthy, high maintenance and have high expectations of their partner (you) and relationship so if you laid your eyes on them first you are gonna have to impress them hard, you may get wealth, blessings and luxury after marriage or through partner. They may attract attention easily. Like fine things, they or you may marry for money. Can be significantly older than you or has grey/silver hair when you meet. Can meet you through sibling or they can be a friend's sibling, through lovers even so like exes or crushes, near water, fountain, fancy restaurants, at a time you may be running late, event of a famous person, places with fire, on a windy day, near old buildings and monuments or bank. You may carry marriage karma so lessons are sure to come. Can have water/Air/moon energy significant in chart. Spouse can have Dhanishta careers.

℘➹ Shatabhisha: Know it alls, conversations are going to be important for the relationship, intellectual stimulation is a must, they may not be too emotional so emotional maturity is a must. Interests in space, nasa kind things. May have worked for charitable organizations or has a cause close to heart, are healers, may help you heal some of your wounds. For some depending on the spouse's chart, just their presence can feel healing and positive. Issues with intoxication drugs, lie well, may keep things hidden from you or you may know some important things after marriage even if they don't hide it may be just unimportant to them. Shady account or a secretive account online, may enjoy watching stars or is fascinated with night sky, are insecure, maybe famous. May meet you when they are drunk or had drinks, or over drinks or in the night time, under the stars, near circular objects, near water, places with science, technology, and so much electricity online, a recording studio, space museum, hospitals, pharmacy, places related to healing or where you go to heal yourself so could be a movie or concert you go to to heal yourself from boredom. Can have water/12th/Mercury/Sagittarius/Libra/moon energy significant in chart. Spouse can have Shatabhisha careers.

℘➹ Purvabhadrapada : Their mood may be influenced by weather, they will make sure to make outside plans when weather is good, will suprise you often, has a duality nothing too extreme. They have had some near death experiences or deaths often happened in their family or known. They may bring Spirituality to you or you bond over spirituality, marriage and or spouse can bring blessings to you, possible 5D connection, soulmate connection. Can teach you a lot of things. Marriage teaches many things to you. Can be into dark humour, dark magic, paranormal activities. Fascination with Chinese culture. Could be a twin or twins run in their family. Fascination with the dark and dark themes. Skills to ruin good things and help blossom the ruined. Meet you in somebody's house, places with couch or bed, war memorials, cemetery, at places of occult, may meet you after a dark moment in life, hospitals, places of healing. Can have Taurus/Capricorn/8th house/Mercury/Jupiter/air/Mars/Fire/Sun/Scorpio/Leo energy significant in chart. Spouse can have Purvabhadrapada careers.

℘➹ Uttarabhadrapada: Old soul, provider energy, could be older than you, guides you helps structure your life, add stability to you, spiritual, or has wisdom of a spiritual person, good married life, suffered major loss before they meet you, protective, calm in duress, may be a beach person or enjoys water sports and activities, brings blessings into life, very fertile, is known or well talked about, marriage may be well talked about. Past life or karmic relationship. Marriage will bring many lessons. Best point of relationship will come overtime and not immediately. Married life may be like a new life to you. Either of you may marry for stability and building a strong foundation. May meet you in places with bed, couch, fire, water, ocean, old age homes, silent places, near confined places like jail, after something significant ends in you life, social media, when it's raining, while travelling, religious places. Can have water/Mercury/8th house/Mars/Sun/Sagittarius/Libra energy significant in chart. Spouse can have Uttarabhadrapada careers.

℘➹ Revati: Compassionate and soft relationship, enjoys relaxing relationship and expects a light hearted relationship, giving and generous, attracts luck easily, positive and fun people, wealthy, yoy will attract wealth after marriage, may enjoy luxury activities often, Pampers you with fine things, likely plays an instrument or is a singer or into music or likes loud music, protects the weak, may be your friends before or Siblings's friend or a friend's sibling or friend for a long time before you marry. Enjoys travelling and pets, may get a pet together, abandoned or shelter dogs may be a cause close to them, may enjoy water activities or is a beach person. Marriage can bring glow up for you, bring love and fun and calmness into life. May meet you near water, on a walk, while travelling, online, or via a communication mean, tv, radio, social media. Can have sun/moon/8th/6th/9th house energy significant in chart. Spouse can have Revati Careers.

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Part 14

Since I don't have another post ready, and people eat these up, enjoy my thoughts in this format.

So there are newer things that I've noticed.

Ketu in the 3rd house is a very tricky placement for others to undertand, unless you've known at least a handful of them. These people may appear "silly" and not deep enough but they're the opposite. They can be silly in a positive sense though. People frequently underestimate their mental abilities and they pay the price later. These natives are detectives and natural spies. You cannot influence them easily, especially when it comes to anything cerebral/theoretical, and when making decisions they rely on their own wits. This is a classic indicator of bravery, resourcefulness, longevity and resilience. When they were younger, they've observed a lot that they were not able to say/express, either due to the nature of the observation (dangerous information) or the circumstances(surrounded by people prone to misunderstanding them) and when they get older, they carry that memory of hiding/loneliness within them. They may have also had very few or no people close to their age who made them feel completely accepted. In general, most of them were surrounded by peers in childhood, but they truly, in many ways, felt alone among them. Their independence of mind likely came from an early necessity to figure basic things (common sense, everyday things) by themselves. In that sense, they really are the most independent thinkers and very down to Earth in their process, even though most do not see it. 3rd house is the 8th house from the 8th house (house of death, dependence, merging, sexuality, danger, crisis and the occult) and Ketu, the planet of experiential knowledge sitting here, means that they are the real survivors. They transcend the mudane with their own mind and transcend the occult with everyday activities. They may also come to hate institutionalized education, even though they highly respect people who invest their recources in that. I have this placement and idk how i appear here but irl people always underestimate me like that and are always surprised if they do find out that I can be recourceful and sharp. Ik how to be cunning too it's just not interesting or honorable to me. Rahu in the 9th house means that they want to take all of that information that they aqcuire and make philosophy from it. It is an incredibly interesting placement to me, like an endless goldmine. I'm almost sure that I'm going to talk about it more in the future. It hurts to cut this short but I must.

Lion yonis (Purva Bhadrapada, Dhanishta) might have terrible spacial or situational awareness. I've seen them take up a lot of space, physically, without shame, and in public spaces too sometimes. They also like to play videos or music on their phones without headphones and then everyone can hear it, even if the volume is loud. They also don't like to move unless they consider it absolutely necessary. None of these happen all the time, but I've seen this quite a lot among them, and it's one of the negative manifestations of lion yoni energy. Same can be said about dog yonis (Ardra, Mula) but in their case, taking up a lot of space physically is not that common. They moreso refuse to move and they do love to play stuff out loud. These two yoni animals are also really, really defensive, and more often than not, demonstrative. Interestingly, tiger yonis (vishakha and chitra, big feline yoni, like the lion) have excellent spacial awareness, they rarely inconvenience people around them in that way, and it's more interesting because of the fact that they can arguably be the most combative and defensive yoni type, even more than lion or dog yonis, but their defensivess has a different energy. There's something really "civilized" about the way in which fight and even function, which, speaking in terms of energy, is not better or worse. But in this instance, it's definitely positive.

I think lunar women (women with Rohini, Hasta or Shravana in big 3) have trouble building lasting friendships with most other women. Energetically, moon is receptive and passive, also cold and mostly unresponsive. In a way, they are very sensitive, but they can also be insensitive to the struggles of others. They are more self-centered than they themselves realize, and their energetic(passive, cold and easily influenced) nature means that for another woman to have a long friendship with her, she needs to constantly "cater" to the moon woman and extend her energy to her. Most women get exhausted by it. I think Jupiter women might find kinship with them, or sometimes, Sun women might as well. Lunar women themselves might feel like they are "not like other girls", when in reality, they are reacting to how the energies of most other planets function. Venusian, Mercurial, Ketuvian, Rahuvian, Saturnian and even Martian women do not have the energy or willingness to accomodate to lunar energies in that way. They might understand or sympathize, but they usually cannot commit. Even Solar women can get tired of the Moon's dependency. All of this might also be reason why lunar women seek out friendship with men, or masculine people, who have more energetic abundance and can afford to cater to and please lunar energies. Then Moon women might unconciously mimic masculine projections, wishes, attitude or opinions, which might in turn get them accused of seeking male attention or praise. There is a lot that's unconcious for lunar women about their own behavior, and a lot that they might misunderstand. They can start the journey to clarity but admitting to themselves, that they are not some unearthy, fragile and unnaturally sensitive creature, that there's more to them than their vulnerability. They can utilize their access to the subconcious to see the truth better, rather than victimizing themselves. Moon women, you can absolutely do this.

Any other Solar girls (Krittika, Uttara Phalguni and/or Uttara Ashadha in big three) who have been compared to Lunar or Saturnian girls when they were younger?? I think that feeling not feminine enough in younger years is a canonical experience for Sun women. I genuinely need confirmation: did your mothers or female authority figures reward and value coolness and outward passivity more than your own warmth?

Nicole Brown Simpson’s corpse being taken away

Ladies, please take note of this warning, because it involves actual danger to your well-being.

When you hear about Jupiter, you’ll normally hear things along the lines of compassion and gentleness and mercy, but the men of the Jupiter nakshatras are BY FAR the most dangerous and materially harmful to women.

Jupiter trine men in general are seen as weak and feeble by society, and this constant emasculation puts them in a highly frustrated and frenzied internal state, like a chihuahua that keeps getting bullied and taunted.

Jupiter nakshatra men in general do not dare to attack other men, so they direct their anger towards women, who are more physically and socially vulnerable. Their outbursts of anger are extremely unpredictable, and this is why so many sudden and shockingly violent attacks on women are so often carried out by Jupiter nakshatra men.

Punarvasu Men

One perfect example is the Punarvasu Sun and Moon MMA fighter Conor McGregor, who is famous for being defeated and humiliated in numerous fights by other men, where they beat McGregor into literal submission after all of his initial trash talk. This constant emasculation of McGregor is no surprise that he has a track record of allegations of physical violence against women. He allegedly punched a woman in the face on his yacht and kicked her to the floor. And this is just one of the many allegations against him in terms of his violence towards women.

Vishakha Men

Vishakha men tend to express their bitterness towards women verbally, criticizing and shit-talking women in the same way that mean girls do. Here’s a clip of the popular streamer Austin Show, who has Vishakha Sun, who unleashed a barrage of profanity against a woman who didn’t think he was handsome. Not to her face, of course. Only after he left.

Purva Bhadrapada Men

Purva Bhadrapada men take this violence to the maximum by simply murdering women. There’s the renowned O.J. Simpson, with Purva Bhadrapada Moon and Punarvasu Sun, who brutally murdered Nicole Brown Simpson by stabbing her with a knife multiple times in the head and neck. And yes, he did it. He murdered that woman. And of course, there is the very, very, very long list of Purva Bhadrapada male serial killers who brutally murdered numerous women. There’s a reason that the majority of the victims of serial killers are female.

So ladies, please, please, please, please understand this: All the gentleness and mercy and compassion of Jupiter nakshatra men go out the window when it comes to women. Always remember this, and please heed this warning.

one thing i kept noticing with vishakha was the aesthetic. vintage dresses, flowy skirts, bows, lace, pigtails, knee high socks, flats, pastel colors, cherries, red/pink/white. cindy kimberly, vishakha sun, embodies this aesthetic and uses cherries as a staple for her "vintage aesthetic". lily rose depp, is very known for this aesthetic and so is lana del rey, vishakha asc. lana is constantly compared to priscilla presley, vishakha moon, because of the big hair, vintage aesthetic, headbands, eye makeup, pastel colors.

after reading more about the coquette aesthetic, i realized it wasn't just about the clothes. the aesthetic has roots in lolita, lana del rey, marina and the diamonds (vishakha asc), tumblr culture, vintage americana, bows, lace, mary janes, old diners, cherries, milkshakes, and soft femininity. it also talks about the darker themes underneath it like coming of age, girlhood, growing up too fast, hyper femininity, and the loss of innocence.

stanley kubrick, who directed lolita, 1962, was a vishakha moon. lolita is about a 13-14 year old girl whose stepfather marries her mother because he's attracted to her and ends up SA her. her child like wonder and innocence essentially taken away from her. whether intentional or not, i noticed how much that story shaped the visual language people now associate with the coquette aesthetic. the vintage dresses, bows, lace, pigtails, knee high socks, and flats all ended up becoming part of that imagery. reliving childlike wonder. i don't think it's a coincidence that one of the most recognizable coming of age aesthetics is also rooted in a story about the loss of innocence. i also think it’s important to mention that the name lolita comes from spanish origins which translates to “sorrows” or “pains”.

cindy kimberly mentions in an interview that when she was younger her innocence was taken away from her by men, and her mother didn’t do enough to protect her. as she started to make money, she had to start providing for her mother and is still funding her lifestyle and is responsible for her. she also mentions during the interview that she is “essentially 5 years old”. still living in that childlike mindset in a way.

petra collins is an artist and photographer. her work constantly revolves around teenage girls and coming of age, and she's one of the photographers most associated with the visual aesthetic people connect to euphoria. then i found her photo book, the teenage gaze. she said her pictures aren't nostalgia for her own teenage years. they're more like looking back on the teenage life she wished she had because, in reality, she had a boring teenage life. i thought that was really interesting because i almost wonder if sam levinson was doing something similar with euphoria. he spent his teenage years struggling with addiction and was in and out of rehab at 17 until he got sober at 19. euphoria is filled with partying, drinking, sex, drugs, and chaos. it almost feels like an exaggerated version of the teenage years so many people imagine but never actually had.

euphoria itself revolves around teenage girls, high school, coming of age, and growing up too fast. even though the show is extreme, so much of it is still centered around girlhood and trying to figure out who you are while you're still young. i also couldn't stop thinking about carrie. it’s essentially the same story. a high school girl who is bullied and outcasted by her classmates. she builds up so much anger that she seeks revenge on her classmates. another example that understands teenage girlhood, isolation, insecurity, and teen rage in a way that feels very specific. petra collins mentions this in an interview when asked what movie should people watch to understand what being a teenager is like.

a lot of teenage girls and women in general connect to lana del rey because her music feels like such an accurate portrayal of girlhood that feels nostalgic, confusing, wanting freedom and especially being a teenager and coming of age. lana herself admits that she has this strong connection to teenage girls and women. she once said, "when i grew up, i just really didn't connect to anything…. felt like everyday, life was sort of mundane." that immediately reminded me of what petra collins said about wishing she had different teenage years. they're talking about completely different experiences, but they both come back to looking at adolescence through a sense of longing.

then there's her song "ride". in the begining, theres a monologue where she says her mom described her as "an usual girl. my mother told me i had a chameleon soul. no moral compass pointing me due north. just an inner indecisiveness". the vishakha theme of indecisiveness and not knowing what you want. visually, ride leans into vintage americana, motorcycles, ribbons, and old hollywood imagery. in a clip of the music video, she's seen dressed almost like a little girl getting her hair brushed by this old man. one of the lines in the song being "you can be my full time daddy". she even has a song called lolita.

another thing i kept noticing was how often freedom shows up in these stories. not freedom in a huge political sense, but freedom from childhood, freedom from other people, freedom to become your own person. lana del rey uses a lot of americana immagery to protray american freedom. beyonce did this as well when releasing her album cowboy carter. kali uchis, vishakha moon, talked about wanting to emancipate herself, get her ged, move out, and have her own apartment because she didn't want anyone telling her what to do anymore. she said, "i wanted to grow up fast. i wanted to be on my own and do my own thing… i just wanted my own apartment, i just wanted my own space where no one would tell me what to do." she also talked about being 15 and hanging around older men because she wanted to grow up so badly.

kali uchis' short film multi is filled with imagery associated with girlhood. she's on a swing, wearing pigtails, and the whole film feels playful while still having this underlying feeling of transition. then i started noticing bikes everywhere. lana del rey rides motorcycles throughout ride while singing about wanting freedom. rue and jules are constantly riding bikes throughout euphoria. kali uchis uses bikes in her old visuals too. frank ocean, vishakha asc, is known for riding bikes and usually spotted on a bike. he also has a song called "biking". beyonce, vishakha moon, enjoys riding bikes as well.

the edge of seventeen. kelly fremon craig, who may be a vishakha moon, directed the film that's entirely about a teenage girl going through an existential crisis while feeling older than everyone around her. she doesn't really relate to people her own age and feels more comfortable around older people.

lorde's royals music video. it's mostly centered around a teenage boy sitting around the house alone, shaving his head, and dealing with how ordinary adolescence can actually feel by getting into a boxing match with himself. then there's sza's normal girl, vishakha sun, where she sings about wishing she was a normal girl. she’s also talked about not liking her teenage years because she was bullied and never really felt like she fit in.

beyoncé's grown woman music video comes back to the same idea. the entire video follows her from childhood to adulthood while repeating, "i'm a grown woman, i can do whatever i want." priscilla presley also talked about the big age gap between her and elvis. “even though i was 14, i was actually a little bit older in life, not in numbers.”

jaden smith, vishakha asc, also came to mind because of that viral clip where he says, "can we talk about the political and economic state of the world right now?" he was a teenager talking about things people didn't expect someone his age to care about.

girlhood. freedom. nostalgia. wanting to grow up too fast while also looking back at adolescence from a distance. whether it's photography, music, film, or fashion, those themes kept appearing together through vishakha nakshatra.

* i believe that every nakshatra embodies an aesthetic and i will cover more nakshatras in the future.

Recently, I have been discussing this with my other astrologer friends and told them about this pattern I saw for few Nakshatras that gives possessive or controlling spouse and we figured that if your darakarka (DK), 7th lord, venus (for men), mars/jupiter (for women), planets in 7th house is/are placed in these Nakshatras either in d1, d3 or d9 charts your spouse's nature can be possessive, controlling or obsessive. This works the most if found especially in d9 chart because d1 is the outer layer or what we show the world, how we are in the begginings or on the outside. D9 is the deeper/inner layer. And D3 for spouse will straight up give traits/characteristics. So, d9>d3>d1. This will be the intensity scale.

Note: all these 7 Nakshatras can show this tendency and have karma to be resolved in regards to being controlling and possessive but I still ranked them from most karma to least in comparison.

1. Jyeshtha Nakshatra (The Elder and the protector)

Ruler: Indra, the King of Gods

Symbol: Earring or umbrella (symbol of authority and protection)

Planetary Ruler: Mercury

Jyeshtha natives are born under the guardianship of Indra, the celestial king who embodies both might and insecurity. Indra’s mythology is rich with themes of jealousy and protection. He feared losing his throne, constantly defending his position even against those more virtuous than him. This gives Jyeshtha individuals, and those with spouse-related placements here, a deep instinct to guard what they love. They are protective, yet this protection can often transform into control and possessiveness.

Their love is intense and rooted in a desire for loyalty. Much like Indra’s suspicious nature toward potential rivals, Jyeshtha natives constantly test their partner’s faithfulness, fearing betrayal. Their possessiveness does not stem from malice but from a fear of losing emotional security. The earring and umbrella, their symbols, represent both status and shelter they want to provide safety but also expect complete devotion in return.

Energy type: Power, authority, pride, and dominance. Archetype: The elder who must command respect a protector turned controller. Behavioral essence: Feels duty-bound to keep control; when insecure, can enforce loyalty through fear or guilt. Healthy form: Protective, noble, dignified. Unbalanced form: Dominating, possessive, paranoid, tests loyalty constantly.

Karmic Lesson: To trust divine protection instead of clinging through control. True power lies in surrender, not suspicion.

2. Anuradha Nakshatra (The Devotion that Clings)

Ruler: Saturn

Deity: Mitra, the god of friendship and harmony

Symbol: Lotus and Staff

Anuradha is a nakshatra of deep emotional devotion, loyalty, and karmic bonds. Its deity, Mitra, governs friendship, trust, and cooperation, making relationships sacred and long-lasting. The lotus symbolizes purity arising from struggle, while the staff represents discipline and the desire to protect what is cherished. Saturn’s rulership brings lessons of attachment, fear of loss, and the slow unfolding of karmic consequences, while Scorpio’s intensity ensures emotions are secretive, passionate, and profound.

The mythology of Radha and Krishna perfectly illustrates Anuradha’s essence. Radha’s love was pure, divine, and consuming, yet it was never fully realized in the physical world. When Krishna left to fulfil his cosmic duties, Radha experienced immense longing and heartbreak, ultimately transforming her human love into spiritual devotion (bhakti). This story shows why Anuradha placements create possessive spouses they love intensely, fear emotional loss, and cling to the bond with vigilance and dedication.

Energy type: Devoted partnership, emotional loyalty. Archetype: The devoted lover who demands equal intensity. Behavioral essence: “I’ll love you endlessly, but you must love me the same.” Healthy form: Unshakable faithfulness and emotional support. Unbalanced form: Suffocating attachment, controlling devotion, covert possessiveness.

Karmic Lesson: To evolve from possessive attachment into trust and spiritual love, learning that true devotion does not mean possession.

3. Ashlesha Nakshatra (The Serpent’s Intensity)

Ruler: Mercury

Deity: Naga, the serpent deity

Symbol: Coiled Serpent

Ashlesha Nakshatra is associated with intensity, secrecy, and emotional entanglement, which is why it often produces possessive or obsessive spouses. Its deity, the Naga, represents hidden power, transformation, and deep emotional currents. The coiled serpent symbolizes potential energy, latent desires, and the ability to strike when provoked, reflecting the deep emotional vigilance of Ashlesha natives. Mercury as the ruler gives intelligence and strategic thinking, making these individuals perceptive and calculating in relationships.

People with spouse-related planets in Ashlesha tend to cling intensely, often testing loyalty and probing hidden motives. Their love is magnetic and transformative but can feel suffocating if expressed through fear of loss or jealousy. Like the serpent coiled tightly, they hold their emotions close, revealing them only when trust is established or when provoked by perceived threats.

Energy type: Emotional binding, hypnotic attachment, psychological control. Archetype: The serpent that coils tightly around its love. Behavioral essence: When unbalanced, wants to absorb the partner sees them as an extension of self. Healthy form: Deep, transformative devotion; tantric-level intimacy. Unbalanced form: Controlling through emotional or mental manipulation, jealousy, “I own you” type love

Karmic Lesson: The Ashlesha spouse or native must learn to release emotional control, channel intensity into spiritual growth, and understand that love thrives when trust replaces suspicion and possessiveness.

4. Rohini Nakshatra (The Alluring Moon)

Ruler: Moon

Deity: Brahma, the creator

Symbol: Chariot

Rohini Nakshatra is known for beauty, charm, and sensual allure, which often translates into possessiveness in love. Its deity, Brahma, signifies creation, growth, and the nurturing of life, making relationships under this nakshatra deeply emotional and attachment-oriented. The chariot symbolizes movement, progress, and the journey of desire indicating that love here is passionate and often intensely focused on the beloved. The Moon as its ruler adds sensitivity, emotional depth, and a craving for affection and security.

In mythology, Rohini was the most beloved of Chandra’s wives, which caused jealousy among his other consorts. This story reflects the possessive tendencies of Rohini natives or their spouses: they fear losing affection and become protective over emotional attention. Their love is magnetic, nurturing, and sometimes demanding, as they want to ensure they remain the center of their partner’s emotional world.

Energy type: Sensual, emotional, fertile, attached. Archetype: The beloved of the Moon, the most desired and thus most protected. Behavioral essence: Wants to be cherished, but also wants to keep their love exclusive. Healthy form: Nurturing, romantic, emotionally rich. Unbalanced form: Clingy, jealous, possessive, territorial love.

Karmic Lesson: The Rohini spouse or native must learn that love cannot be held by desire alone; true emotional fulfilment comes from trust, patience, and allowing space in relationships.

5. Vishakha Nakshatra (The Determined Archer)

Ruler: Jupiter

Deity: Indra & Agni

Symbol: Triumphal Archway

Vishakha Nakshatra is known for focus, ambition, and the pursuit of goals including in love. Its dual deities, Indra (king of gods) and Agni (fire), signify victory, energy, and transformation, giving relationships under this nakshatra a sense of intensity and unwavering commitment. The archway symbolizes triumph and purpose, indicating that love here is both passionate and goal-oriented.

In mythology, Vishakha represents the seeker who fights for what they desire, often with single-minded determination. This translates into possessive tendencies: once committed, Vishakha natives or their spouses can become deeply fixated on their partner, wanting exclusive loyalty and emotional dedication. Their love is fervent, focused, and sometimes demanding, as they strive to make the relationship a triumph of devotion.

Energy type: Goal-driven obsession, intense commitment. Archetype: The conqueror of hearts, victory in love. Behavioral essence: Once committed, they want absolute loyalty and focus from the partner. Healthy form: Fierce devotion and resilience in love. Unbalanced form: Obsessive pursuit, control disguised as care, difficulty letting go.

Karmic Lesson: The Vishakha spouse or native must learn to balance passion with flexibility; true love thrives when determination is paired with respect for individuality and emotional freedom.

6. Purva Phalguni Nakshatra (The Lover’s Indulgence)

Ruler: Venus

Deity: Bhaga, the god of pleasure and enjoyment

Symbol: Swing or Couch

Purva Phalguni Nakshatra embodies romance, sensuality, and indulgence, which can manifest as possessiveness in love. Its deity, Bhaga, governs wealth, pleasure, and union, making relationships deeply pleasurable but also tied to attachment and desire. The swing symbolizes leisure, enjoyment, and the balance of give-and-take in relationships, while Venus adds charm, beauty, and a craving for attention and admiration.

Mythologically, Purva Phalguni is associated with the desire for union and the enjoyment of life’s pleasures. Natives or their spouses often want to be adored and cherished exclusively, which can lead to jealousy if attention is perceived to waver. Possessiveness here is less about fear and more about pride, emotional satisfaction, and the need for validation in love.

Energy type: Sensuality, pride, attraction. Archetype: The royal lover who craves admiration and loyalty. Behavioral essence: Passionate, charming, and indulgent; desires exclusive devotion and constant affection. Healthy form: Generous, romantic, expressive, proud of their partner. Unbalanced form: Dramatic, attention-hungry, jealous, and possessive of love and admiration.

Karmic Lesson: The Purva Phalguni spouse or native must learn that love is not about possession or constant attention but about mutual enjoyment, respect, and freedom within emotional bonds.

7. Bharani Nakshatra (The Intense Guardian)

Ruler: Venus

Deity: Yama, the god of death and restraint

Symbol: Yoni or Womb

Bharani Nakshatra represents intensity, protection, and emotional extremes, which often results in possessive tendencies in relationships. Its deity, Yama, governs law, restraint, and karmic balance, highlighting the lessons of attachment, boundaries, and the consequences of desire. The yoni, symbolizing the womb, reflects creation, nurturance, and the raw, primal energy of life, a deep emotional and sexual intensity that can manifest as protective or possessive behaviour. Venus adds the emotional and sensual dimension, giving strong attachment and a desire for closeness.

Mythologically, Bharani natives or their spouses are said to carry a powerful sense of responsibility and emotional ownership in relationships. Love here is intense, binding, and karmic; once attached, they cannot easily let go. Possessiveness arises from a fear of loss and the instinct to maintain control over the relationship and the beloved.

Energy type: Passion, boundaries, moral intensity. Archetype: The lover who both gives and withholds completely. Behavioral essence: Passionate and controlling about fidelity and purity. Healthy form: Deep sensual connection with respect for limits. Unbalanced form: Extreme jealousy, moral policing, possessiveness over partner’s sexuality.

Karmic Lesson: The Bharani spouse or native must learn to channel intensity into care and emotional understanding, recognizing that love grows when it is allowed freedom rather than tightly controlled.

Ashlesha women are women in STEM ? Like amy eskridge and jayshree ullal. If u have any of these placements are you in stem by any chance? Mercury and Jupiter women are a lot in stem (science, technology, engineering , mathematics) fields.

Ada lovelace, literally wrote the first code- has revati mars AK and jyestha sun.

Mari Curie had purva bhadrapada moon.

Judith faulkner is an ashlesha sun conjuct rahu and jyestha moon.

Melanie perkins- ceo of canva- is a vishakha moon.

Meg whitman- ashlesha sun and punarvasu moon

Safra catz, former oracle ceo- ashlesha rahu.

Amy eskridge, anti gravity researcher and professor- ashlesha moon

Jayshree ullal -ashlesha moon

Hedy lamarr -helped found the frequency that later helped in the invention of wifi - pushya/ashlesha moon, vishakha sun

A lot of these ashlesha women had parents or father who was already in technology and sciences. Ashlesha is the women in stem nakshatra if you ask me.

The sign and/or nakshatra should match the Sun, Moon, AK, or rising of your future spouse.

Same with jupiter.

Your D9 jupiter sign/nakshatra will be the future rising, moon, AK or sun of your child.

Example 1:

My mothers jupiter sign in D9 is vishakha in libra

My AK and moon is Vishakha Libra

Example 2:

My dads jupiter is in hasta in virgo

My sister is a hasta rising

Cant wait for my Revati babyyy 🤭🤭

💞 This is fucking crazy but I read somewhere that the moon's zodiac in your D9 chart shows the ascendant/sun/moon of your spouse of their natal chart and I checked mine and my boyfriend's and it's literally the same?? His moon is in Capricorn. I'm a Capricorn rising and mine is in Pisces moon in D9 and this man is a Pisces rising?? Tf?? 🤯🤯

⚖️ A debilitated sun represents bad relationships with their father. Sun represents the father in the chart. In my personal observation, fathers or even people who can represent father figures in the libra sun's life (older brothers, uncles) can be hypocritical, take advantage of them or cannot be dependent on for any kind of support. One of the hardest placements fr.

🔅 If your darkaraka has another planet in the same house, your spouse can also have similar qualities of this planet. For eg., sun dk with mercury in the same house means that yes, your partner will be famous or has ego (sun qualities) but can also have "younger" or childlike qualities or they may be younger to you (mercury qualities).

👁️ Neptune first house = big doe eyes (no matter which zodiac).

👩‍💻 It is said that having a stellium in the 11th house can attract online stalking behaviour and it's true 🥲 . I have an 11th house stellium (sun + mercury + pluto) and I've had so many fake accounts and dating profiles made of me that I've given up trying to get them reported. I'll report one account and find another one. Aaaaa 😭 truly annoying.

🌹 Want to know the ideal time to meet a potential partner? Check your 7th house zodiac. When venus or jupiter comes in this sign, this is when you're likely to find romantic interests. I found out that my first relationship was when jupiter was in cancer (my 7th house lord) and I mostly bumped into my boyfriends when venus is in cancer.

🛌 4th house synastry is literally so comforting? You can be the coldest person and still be dreaming of building a home together with this person once they walk into your life

🌟 Weirdly enough, I've noticed that when people have Saturn + jupiter conjunction in whichever house they come across as super assured about those house's themes. If it's in the first house, the native is sure of himself. In the third house, they can be sure of their communication skills and be pretty blunt.

🦋 Libra 10th house, libra 1st house and venus doms: their obsession to be put together in public needs to be studied.

🤑 If you are born in 1997, there is a huge chance that Jupiter is in its debilitation zodiac in your chart (jupiter was in Capricorn that year). So here's two ways the debilitation can be cancelled.

1) Check your D9 chart. If Jupiter is exalted there or is sitting with another exalted planet, the debilitation of your natal chart gets cancelled

2) check if Saturn was in Pisces (which it was mostly that year). Pieces is jupiter's zodiac and capricorn is Saturn's. They are sitting in each other's zodiac according to vedic astrology, making something called parivartan yog. In Parivartan yog, these planets become almost exalted, debilitation gets cancelled and the houses they are in, becomes important. The parivartan yog is always better if none of these planets are in the 6th, 8th or 12th house though. I think the luckiest placement here would be jupiter in 9th, saturn in 11th.

👊 Aries venus men? Why are y'all attracted to women who literally berate you, playfully beat you up and are mean to you??

🍑 I'm sorry but if you are going to involve yourself with a libra woman, know that more often than not, you're going to be "manipulated". This is because a libra woman thinks of manipulation as diplomacy or even a way of getting her way. This doesn't mean it's always negative. Libras understand that manipulation is sometimes done for the other person's good. My best friend is a libra and when I was underweight, she switched from serving me food from a small plate to a larger one to "manipulate" me to eat larger portions of food (more food looks less on larger plates) and I think it's so sweet 🥺❤️. They understand that forcing people to see a perspective is wrong so they try to not come across as forceful. They truly are diplomats of the zodiac.

❤️‍🔥 The 8th house also represents your hidden fears. In my case, I have a lilith there in leo. This sometimes manifests as icking out against leo and scorpio men. I may find them visually appealing but their traits piss me off so much.