#virgos

I've posted a lot of these and I always enjoy them myself, so I thought I might start adding some astrology notes here on Tumblr myself. 🙂😊🌌

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✨️♓️ Pisces placements (especially big 3) can manipulate their memories and thoughts subconsciously/unconsciously depending on the mood around them or how they feel that someone will take something.

For example, if they feel like a friend may take some news or truth that they say badly their mind will LITERALLY just erase the memory of the truth/news from their heads in that moment so when they say "I don't know." They actually DON'T KNOW in that moment. (But they can remember later...)

✨️♏️ Scorpios who have been hurt and are unhealed can AND WILL put up walls around themselves so tight that they will suffocate behind them and have no idea who they really are anymore if they're not careful. They may convince themselves that they are always the victim, but really they will push other people into a narrative of either doing everything their way or being the "bad guy." And they may be so convinced of this narrative that they don't even consciously realize that they are doing this.

Their emotions can be powerful and cloud their self-judgment.

✨️♌️ Leos (!) can be either some of the most wonderful people that you will every meet or absolute nightmares. Distrusting or paranoid Leos can turn into bullies really fast and have no remorse for their actions if they deem you unfit. When they are healthy they will happily shower you with radiant love, but when they are not... you should exit stage left while you still can.

✨️♋️ Cancers, stop holding something that your partner did 2 weeks ago against them only to bring it up in an argument in another 2 weeks as a "gotcha" moment that they don't really care about you and COMMUNICATE WHAT YOU REALLY FEEL. Give them a chance to love you without you have to play emotional games with you all the time and you might be more pleasantly suprised than you would expect.

✨️♉️ Taurus - A lot of people give Scorpio flack for being secretive and mysterious, but if a Taurus doesn't want you in their life or doesn't want you to know something about themselves- you won't. Plain as that.

✨️♈️ Aries Moons (specifically) can be very impulsive when they want something. They won't think twice about whether or not something was meant for them or whether or not it is their right to take it- they just will if they want it. No thought or consideration behind just, I want it- I have it.

✨️♐️Sagittariuses - I see a lot of people try to say that Sagittariuses and Sagittarius energy is secretly dark and moody or secretive underneath the surface, but that's really more Scorpio or Capricorn's turf.

Sagittarius' real problem is that they are always trying to avoid or distract from the pain of life or the hardships of it.

Remember Sagittarius, humor is not the same thing as processing your pain if you do it all the time to avoid what you don't want to see or feel.

✨️♍️ Virgo - I'm probably going to get some flack for this, but I think that Virgos are the most empathetic of the earth signs, especially for people at large, or people that they don't know. I know that lots of people will probably say that it is Taurus, and yes they certainly love the people in their close circle thoroughly, but outside of that they probably won't care that you exist.

Virgos on the other hand will stop and try to help you(in the best way that they know how- with a critique) if they feel like you are struggling with something. Even if they don't know you. That's empathy. They might not always be empathetic in a way that other people receive well, but it's still empathy.

The way I see it is- A Taurus MAY or may NOT notice that you're struggling and if they like you they might help, a Virgo WILL notice you struggling and TRY to help, and a Capricorn WILL notice you struggling and will just watch from a distance because it's not their problem to solve and they typically don't care about you enough to do different.

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A Note from the Heart

I want to be clear: I am writing this with so much love. My three favorite celebrities in the world are Virgos with Water Moons, and in my personal life, I am constantly surrounded by this placement (along with my Scorpios, who I also adore). This isn't a read, it's an observation born from watching the people I love most give until they are empty. I've spent a lot of time analyzing this because I see the same pattern over and over. These are the people who will hold the world together while their own hands are bleeding, and I want them to start choosing themselves as often as they choose everyone else. This one is for my Virgos 🫂.

A Virgo Sun is an architect. They see the flaws in a structure, the typos in a manuscript and the cracks in a person's soul. Their immediate, instinctual response to a crack is to fill it. They want to be useful because they find their worth in being the person who makes things function. Now, take that fixer instinct and drop it into an ocean of water moon emotion. Whether it's Cancer, Scorpio, or Pisces, a water moon doesn't just sit and observe someone else's pain, no, they absorb it.

The danger here is that a Virgo with a water moon will often mistake a partner's toxic behavior for a project that requires more efficiency, more patience or more self improvement on the Virgo's part. When a manipulator tells a Virgo-Water Moon "You're making me act this way," the Virgo Sun doesn't immediately argue. Instead, they open their internal spreadsheet and start looking for where they made a mistake. They believe that if they can just become perfect enough, the abuse will stop. They treat a toxic relationship like a broken machine that just needs the right part replaced, failing to realize the machine was designed to crush them.

The Specific Shades of the Water Moon Trap

In a Pisces Moon, this manifests as the Spiritual Martyr. These are the people who see the traumatized inner child in their abuser and use it as a reason to forgive the unforgivable. Because Pisces is the sign of no boundaries, and Virgo is the sign of service, these individuals often lose the ability to tell where their own needs end and their partner's demands begin. They become a mirror for the manipulator's ego, convinced that their suffering is a form of unconditional love or healing work.

With a Cancer Moon, the vulnerability is rooted in the Nurturing Shield. There is a desperate cardinal need to provide a home for someone. A manipulator can sense this from a mile away. They will play the victim, leaning into their own sob stories because they know the Virgo-Cancer Moon combination cannot resist a wounded bird. The Virgo Sun will work three jobs and do all the housework, while the Cancer Moon will provide the emotional cushioning, effectively becoming a life support system for someone who is actively draining them. They stay because leaving feels like an act of cruelty, and a Virgo-Cancer Moon would rather hurt themselves than be the bad guy.

The Scorpio Moon is a different kind of trap one of Intense Alchemy. Scorpio Moons thrive on depth and transformation. When you pair that with a Virgo Sun, you get someone who becomes addicted to the extreme highs and lows of a toxic cycle. They view the manipulation as a puzzle to be solved or a darkness they are strong enough to handle. They have a ride or die mentality that abusers exploit by creating "us against the world" narratives. The Scorpio Moon's loyalty is so fierce that it overrides the Virgo Sun's logic, leading them to stay in the fire just to prove they can survive the burn.

The Breakdown of the Body

One of the most tragic aspects of this theory is the physical toll. Virgo rules the nervous system and the gut. When a Virgo Sun with a Water Moon is being manipulated, their body usually knows long before their mind is willing to admit it. They are the ones who develop mystery illnesses, chronic fatigue or digestive issues because they are literally digesting the toxic energy of their environment.

The manipulator uses the Virgo's high standards against them, gaslighting them into believing they are too sensitive or too analytical. The Water Moon feels the sting of these words deeply, while the Virgo Sun tries to rationalize them. It creates a feedback loop of self doubt. They become easy to abuse because they are already their own harshest critics, the manipulator just hands them a louder megaphone for the voice that says, "It's your fault."

"The tragedy of the Virgo Sun/Water Moon is that they will spend a lifetime trying to build a cathedral out of someone else's mud, only to realize they are the only ones getting dirty."

The only way out for this placement is the "Logic Snap." It usually happens when the Virgo Sun finally collects enough data, enough broken promises, enough physiological symptoms to realize that the situation is no longer fixable. When a Virgo finally categorizes a person as unrepairable, the Water Moon's empathy begins to ice over. But until that snap happens, they are perhaps the most vulnerable people in the zodiac to those who seek to take more than they give.

The Real World Evidence

When you look at the public lives of these icons, you see exactly what I'm talking about, that Virgo "workhorse" energy combined with a Water Moon's deep, sometimes painful emotional sensitivity.

Michael Jackson (Virgo Sun, Pisces Moon)

The ultimate example of the Spiritual Martyr. He had the Virgo obsession with perfection in his craft but that Pisces Moon made him so porous that he was easily exploited by almost everyone around him. He saw the world through a lens of innocence and healing, which left him vulnerable to people who didn't have his best interests at heart. He spent his life trying to fix the childhood he never had, often at a massive personal cost.

Keanu Reeves (Virgo Sun, Cancer Moon)

Keanu is the Nurturing Shield. He has faced immense grief and loss, yet his Virgo Sun keeps him grounded and working, while his Cancer Moon keeps him profoundly kind and empathetic. He is known for his extreme generosity giving away millions to film crews and being the "nice guy" in an industry that usually eats people alive. While he is beloved, that level of selflessness is exactly what a manipulator would target if he isn't guarded.

Beyoncé (Virgo Sun, Scorpio Moon)

Beyoncé represents the Intense Alchemist. Her Virgo Sun is the legendary perfectionist, the one who rehearses until her feet bleed. But her Scorpio Moon is where the ride or die loyalty lives. We have seen her navigate intense public and private narratives regarding her marriage and family. A Virgo-Scorpio Moon doesn't just walk away when things get messy; they go deep into the trenches to transform the pain into something meaningful (like Lemonade). Their vulnerability lies in their belief that no pain is too great to overcome if they just work hard enough at the relationship.

Love message 🖤

To my Virgos with Water Moons: Your ability to see the best in people is a gift, but don't let it become your cage. You are allowed to be imperfect. You are allowed to stop fixing people who are committed to staying broken. You are allowed to take all that beautiful, nurturing water and use it to grow your own garden for once.

Hey, so I've decided to share some views/thoughts I had on each sign placement whether it was sun,moon or venus. Please share your thoughts about the signs and their views on love! I'm open for the discussion. But yeah. I hope yall enjoy!

Cancer Suns romantic nature can express itself with leo partners easily. Believe it or not. It is because both tend to want the most out of passionate affairs and leo shows the playful side while cancers show the mystic, hidden side of romance. I believe these two to be really good at making love to each other as one is a representation of the sun (leo) and the other the moon. Also, cancer suns can get along with any leo placement, doesnt matter which one. They balance each other out very well.

Scorpio placements need water placements (other scorpios in particular) in order to truly be understood. It is because these placements are a mirror in their romantic life, for better or for worse. And they need someone who understands their darkness, let alone their karma.

Scorpio placements such as Venus, need a special romance with someone. Even if they though sleep around, there will always be someone out there for them, who shares the same amount of passion and intensity they crave. Not everyone will see this character, it is saved for only one person. And sometimes its just in their mind.

Pisces Venus need to write a book on the love affairs they have in their minds lol. Similar to the scorpio venus, they have room for only one love affair that could stand the test of time. This isn't 'real' persay, but romance with them isn't practical and they need others who can fit into their world, because the imagination is what will run far in their love life. If you can keep them from being bored, then you will have them for ages.

Cancer placements & scorpio placements are the tantra lovers. Their love can be so deep and profound, it will leave a mark on anyone they have that strong compatibility with.

Gemini placements making a square to your sun sign or venus can show a deep appreciation and charismatic nature on their part, believe it or not. They NEED tension or else it will be too smooth, too flowy. And before you ask, doesn't everybody want that? Why, yes.. But geminis are typically like this on their day to day anyways. That's just in their nature. They need something challenging to spark their interests. Ironically, they will love you a lot more if you beat them to the punch. ;)

Virgos & Scorpios can make for a gifted experience together. This is because these two placements form a natural sextile together. They know each others tics, and how to appreciate the flow of their being. Virgos will allow the scorpio their alone time and be the calm auras that they need when their facing certain phases of darkness. Scorpios will be the penetrating touch that the virgo needs when they're feeling. a little anxious. Both come together like the two serpents that they are and form a connection that is raw, powerful and unique.

Aries placements need lovers who are CONFIDENT. And if you're not this will not work out well. This is why they're great with leo and sag placements, and can do very well with scorpios. A little secret is that if your not confident in bed, you're not going to do well with them... And they'll run you like a train if you're not able to stand ten toes to them, let alone when they want to tear open your insides.

Libra suns & moons have the gifted ability to make anyone feel wanted and loved when their in their horizons. So much so, that their transparent nature can show up in their love for the individual of their choosing and bring them into a world they will never forget. If they have scorpio in their chart this could be a 1 of 1. They are choosy lovers like their virgo companions.

This is a part of a series on the rising signs not necessarily in Zodiacal order.

Virgo is The Hermit in tarot. The hermit is austere and is not supposed to have an ego and personal selfish desires, just surrender actions to God, or higher power, and not be attached to results. Ego - sun - rules their 12th house, that's their hidden enemy. Virgo is about the purity, not s3xual purity, but the purity of action. An action is pure when there's no attachement to a result to gratify the ego. An action dedicated to the universal higher power is a pure action.

Of course one should demand to be adequately and justly paid for work. But doing acts of service for someone and then demanding them to be in a relationship in return is not pure action. Expressing love through acts of service is genuine and pure when you do NOT think that the other party owes you a relationship in return. Or anything in return.

Service just for the sake of service is the highest form of devotion, to a person, to God, etc cause after all when we love someone it's a part of a greater love to the universal higher power. So that's the essence of Virgo. It's a very devotional sign. The "perfectionist" stereotype stems out of Devotion. What's Devotion if not longing for that perfection, that union with a higher power?

Virgos have sagittarius in the 4th house. The "origin/root" (4h) of acts of service (virgo) is divine wisdom (sagittarius). Virgos can bridge the spiritual with the practical. A great Yogi - Paramahansa Yogananda - is a Virgo rising with Sagittarius 4h mercury. He bridged the devotional, spiritual aspect of yoga with a practical method to follow in your daily routine.

He popularized the practice of yoga in the west this way. Basically he made it clear that anyone can practice yoga and reach realization IF and only IF they're devoted enough to maintain this daily practice in their routine. You don't have to live on a mountain and be a monk etc you can be a normal human in a city and still be spiritually realized.

Virgos are stereotyped as "boring" maybe bc of that 5h capricorn. Saturn rules 6h & 5h so their daily life and work is creative even if slow cause of saturn influence. I do not think this is boring at all. They have pisces 7h so they're likely to be attracted to foreign people from a different background. They have scorpio 3h and Mars rules 3h & 8h. so they struggle with communicating their ideas & needs.Especially day charts. This causes relationship problems too. Relationships become one-sided

Unfortunately they face a lot of disillusion in relationships cause they set their partners on a pedestal. A relationship doesn't have to be perfect in order for the love to be true. What's more romantic than loving someone "warts and all"? Nothing.

Virgos have their feet in the ground except in the area of relationships, there they have the head in the clouds. Which brings them disappointment, disillusion, deception. Their relationships work if they start as friendships first cause their 7h ruler jupiter exalts in 11h cancer. So virgos better not skip the friendship stage.

Their 8h ruler Mars exalts in 5h in capricorn so expressing their traumas through art and creativity can help a lot. They are also perfectionists in whatever they create. Their 10h ruler Mercury exalts in Virgo 1h. When they are comfortable with who they are and stop being so harsh and critical on themselves they excel in career. They have aquarius in the 6th house and aquarius is what you wish for. They wish to be of use and this can motivate them to excel and perfect any skill.

Can we please normalize not liking someone just because the vibes are rancid and not because of jealousy?

I am begging people to stop using the jealousy card every time someone points out that something feels off. I'm not one of the delulu fans, I'm not an instagram mommy, I'm literally the least problematic person. I stay in my lane.

But I have eyes. And I have intuition. And something about her energy is just... wrong.

I absofuckinglutely don't have the right to dictate how people live. My opinion technically doesn't matter but I can't ignore the shift in him. We have seen this happen to so many people before (the Michael Jackson parallel is loud right now, virgos and their tendency to be surrounded by the wrong people).