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The moment we decide only victims have moral standing, we incentivize the performance of victimization and seeking of victimhood.
What if, instead of equating oppression with status/authenticity/moral authority, we acknowledged oppression with the intent of working together to erase it?
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This is what Democrat rule gets you. Be educated in who you vote for.
With that said, the whole "vote blue no matter who" or "vote red until you're dead" thing has got to go. We need principled leadership like Hawley's leadership, that will hold those that we put in charge over us, accountable.
SIDENOTE: This lady's policies are absolutely nuts but I'm sure they'll be some wacko (most likely a liberal) defend her.
The paradox of binding your identity to victimhood is that it tends to generate social currency, but in a longer, broader perspective, it makes you spiritually and mentally weaker. This is true even if you're really a victim.
Snape and what a victim is supposed to look like.
Or: The reason you all hate him so much while making up excuses for other characters!
Would he still be so despised by the fandom, if he had been portrayed as weaker? As more emotional?
No, i don’t think so.
Others have said this before and i have to agree with what they said:
Y‘all are angry, because he is not the perfect victim.
He is not what you would expect a victim of abuse and bullying to look like.
He is confident.
He is strong.
He is sharp.
And he is bitter.
He is so, so bitter.
he harbours resentment.
He does not forgive those who wronged him.
When that is exactly what you would expect from a victim, is it not??
A victim is supposed to look weak and behave weak and to suck it up.
And to forgive.
When you tell people they have to forgive their tormentors, do you really tell them that so that they can heal?
Or…. so you don‘t have to deal with the mess?
Maybe, so you don‘t have to adjust your world view?
People are not obligated to forgive their tormentors.
It doesn‘t matter if they have changed.
What matters is how they made the victim feel.
And if the victim feels if they can forgive them.
And if they chose not to forgive, they turn in something else in your eyes.
They turn into the hater, the bully, the bad guy.
Bacause the victim is supposed to forgive and forget and let it go and not be bitter about it.
A victim is supposed to turn into a good person.
To learn from their experiences to be kinder to others.
To not treat others like they have been treated.
They are not supposed to not be able to let it go.
And if they are not able to do that, well then there‘s something wrong with them.
If a victim doesn‘t turn out the way they wanted them too, well - then they had it coming from the beginning and they probaly deserved what happened to them because they would have turned out bad either way!
Snape is the opposite of what a victim is supposed to be like.
Severus turned into a resentful and bitter adult.
He was never able to move on and heal from his trauma.
And at the same time, he knows who he is and what and doesn‘t make up excuses for his behaviour and instead just accepts himself the way he is.
And that is what makes you so fucking mad.
He turns into an asshole and is not sorry about it.
He is openly resentful and at times hateful.
And he is not fucking sorry about it.
And it makes all of you mad because that is not what is supposed to happen.
And let‘s not lie to yourselves- if he didn‘t have greasy hair and a hooked nose- you would look at him from an entirely different angle.
Like you do with Tom Riddle, or Regulus Black or Draco Malfoy.
Through fractured glass, every face looks like an enemy. 👁️ We wear others' scars while leaving our own marks behind. 🌪️ If everyone is both guilty and broken, who remains? 💔
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I remember trying to relate to this dude who’s a red pill incel because, yeah, I won’t lie, I understand that feeling of struggling with depression, misery, and self hate too. I tried to meet him halfway and remind him he wasn’t alone, but wow, did that blow up in my face. 🤦🏾♀️
All those men want to do is compete for the title of biggest victim on a planet that has historically been built around men, then turn around and scream about how women “have it easier” and whatever other tired excuse they’ve convinced themselves of. They’re so consumed by bitterness that they refuse to step outside that miserable victimhood mentality.
After that conversation, I was like yeah, lmao. I’m never going out of my way to comfort a man who’s committed to wallowing in his own misery ever again. They can stay bitter and miserable if that’s the life they’re choosing. The male loneliness epidemic exists for a reason, and maybe some of them should take a hard look at why people are tired of dealing with that attitude. I learned my lesson there lmaoooo.
