#venus-uranus

I was scrolling through yt shorts and saw a vid about wedding music then stopped to think, “tbh I wouldn’t want the traditional wedding aisle music; I would make it more personal and try to compose music representing our love for each other to walk down the aisle.”

An individual with Venus-Uranus in aspect usually has a very liberal attitude towards love and may even bypass the whole formal exchanges altogether or view relationships in a very different light than most. The person dislikes bringing in a sense of duty and obligation into romance and won’t always go for conventional people. Relationships also need to have fresh life breathed into them daily, and they must feel alive and stimulating. Quite often an interesting partner needs to be chosen, or they become easily bored, and nothing could be worse than a deadening, stagnating, or predictable lover.

A relationship may not have any sense of a “normal” routine; their mate may work unusual hours, or simply follow their own interests. In some cases, this may create a kind of “cut off” feeling and eventually they may separate.

The individual with this contact may highly value freedom and love in all their relationships.

Venus-Uranus types are the most liberating people to be involved with, especially when it comes to exploring personal values and interests. Both independence and love are sought with an assurance of equality along with all the pleasure. Maybe these people do sometimes strive for a relationship that is impossibly idealistic and has way too many standards for a normal human relationship. On the positive side, it also contains greater freedom and describes a relationship that is less limited and defined by social expectation.

 Venus-Uranus may pick an unconventional partner – they are incredibly drawn to the eccentric, genius, and new ager. They could be attracted to the highly individualistic, occult-minded, experimental, futuristic, perhaps someone culturally very different from the norm.

 On the other hand, they may attract partners who are unstable, unpredictable or otherwise unable to commit.

The individual generally does not care what others think about their choice of mate; they are open-minded and non-judgemental and may even enjoy shocking others with their choice of partner. Venus-Uranus contacts need to choose their own partner and express sexual expression in a unique way. Overall, they may enjoy challenging the conventional view of a relationship.

Relationships tend to be independent and often need a certain amount of freedom and space, and they would hate to feel any form of claustrophobia, demands, and rules. Some of their relationships can be very unconventional. It is not unusual for some with this aspect to be bisexual and sexually experiment in their love lives.

 Relationships for Venus-Uranus types may also begin and end suddenly and they have instant attractions to people. Venus conjunct, square or opposite Uranus all symbolize the “divorce-prone” aspects, but this is more of an indication of their powerful need for freedom. Usually, there is a general sense of emotional restlessness, and there are passionate and intense love affairs, filled with high emotional tension. The Venus- Uranus combination may be extremely touchy in cooperating, and there is often a powerful self-will operating in all relationships.

 Venus-Uranus tends to be excited and free-spirited about love, and there is a sense of rebelliousness in relationships.

 A partner may even express an excessive need for independence or it might represent someone incapable of commitment, and avoid it like the plague. Obviously, this can be very painful for Venus-Uranus, but it may express an inner need to develop their own independent values and needs in love. Astrologer Stephen Arroyo believes there needs to be some balance with such an aspect and that one should learn to give freely – without detaching oneself from human feelings.

There is often a need for perfection in relationships and a seeking of the ideal. Violent battles may break out over the need for personal space, and lead to a wild and erratic kind of love. Relationships may have a tendency to begin and end explosively and there may be sudden and unexpected fluctuations in all romantic ties. Sometimes spouses become weird, inconsistent and unreliable. Or they may demand a divorce and openly engage in an extramarital affair. Amongst other things, Venus-Uranus types may be found jumping from one relationship to another, and this aspect often shows a tendency towards on-off relationship patterns.

 If they are involved in the area of beauty, art, or music, they tend to be original, unique and experimental. This is a combination which usually suggests unusual taste and there is a very electric quality to their style of relating, or it may show through their choice of dress or appearance. They could receive unexpected money, gifts or favours from the opposite sex, and may have a taste for unique jewellery, clothing, and distinctive accessories, enhancing their attractiveness and sexual desirability. There is often a strong need for social excitement coupled with personal freedom, and they try to get along with all kinds of different people.

Those with Venus conjunct Uranus aspects, experience what is called love at first sight, a bolt from the blue! The cosmos just has a way of arranging these things, and when the planet of love (Venus) meets with the planet of sudden realization (Uranus), boom! there is an instant attraction. If anything, this is also the personification of a divine friendship and its powered from the mental plane. One of the common things mentioned for Venus conjunct, square or opposite Uranus is to experience short-lived relationships. Relationships, on the whole, are overwhelmingly exciting and something a mad love as they drive each other crazy. Uranus has an unstable level and it can be the marker for on and off relationships, turning hot and cold, expressive one moment and aloof the next. It expresses Uranus’ sudden turnabouts and the need to be free.

Venus in aspect to Uranus can show an extreme sexual magnetism. Moreover, the universal and love are fused together as relationships sizzle bright with electrifying chemistry, but sometimes it is a love so illuminating it can burn like fireflies and vanish into the cold and dust. Venus-Uranus is attracted to the intellectual, crazy genius, someone totally offbeat and unusual. The sexual attraction for others is usually triggered by something cerebral, so they’re drawn to brilliance, and love-crazed for anyone who sees things differently, daring to be different from the status quo. On the extreme level, they fall in love with the unhinged, easily distracted, mad hatter disordered. It is common for love bizarre aspect to have a problem with the closeness-freedom dilemma, which is discussed by psychological astrologers Liz Greene and Howard Sasportas in their astrological seminars. In the main, the powerful vibrancy of Uranus’ mental energies finds it difficult to be intimate on the physical level of Venus.

Venus-Uranus loves like teenagers, for there is something of a rebellious teen spirit when enters into the picture. In fact, they like love to choose partners that nobody will ever approve. The stamp of approval is not needed for they feel a strong independence in relationships and possess the freedom and free-will to choose whomever they want. If people say they can’t date someone from abroad, surely enough the foreign accent will suddenly become incredibly exciting and they will, against all odds, find a foreigner to fall in love with. If it sounds willful, this is because love and attraction fall closer to the vibration of the outsider, the rebel, the unacceptable. Furthermore, relationships their soul, an attraction to the unexpected is something which deeply resides within his or her’s deeper values.

Usually, as Venus-Uranus folks grow older, most of this rebelliousness in love is balanced by friendship, shared goals, and a relationship involving all kinds of new discovery, it is unafraid of change, and it’s a universal romance made in the stars.

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Venus-Uranus

This is a very accepting aspect, they might even encourage each other to try new things. The Venus person can find the Uranus person’s weirdness charming and Uranus is very appreciative about that