#venus-mars

sun/moon-saturn and sun/moon-pluto aspects can indicate dying at a young age. moon-saturn indicates due to disease/illness eg cancer/chronic/congenital disease. with sun/moon-pluto especially involving moon in capricorn/moon conjunct saturn, scorpio, pisces and capricorn sun, it can indicate being killed by the parents. even 'easy' aspects such as trines and conjunctions with moon-pluto are difficult, as pluto is such a potent and dominating energy that when seamlessly combined with another planet especially a delicate one like the moon, it can be all-consuming with negative effects if not balanced and confronted.

venus trine/conjunct mars in synastry makes the mars person want to jump the venus person's bones no matter the gender. eg female mars wants to impregnate a male venus. or a female mars wants to impregnate a female venus.

venus trine/conjunct ascendant synastry - venus sees the ascendant person as a model. this can get a bit creepy if we have scorpio venus involved as the venus will actually secretly take photos of the ascendant so that the venus can look at them. asc sees the venus person as very charming and graceful.

moon conjunct mercury synastry - the moon person says exactly what the mercury person is thinking but can't manage to verbalise. they share the same brain.

when you lock eyes with an aquarius moon they look at you in a way that makes you realise that its just you two in world right now and everything else is dissolved. like they have a greater awareness of the significance of the present moment. aquarius is ruled by saturn, which is 'Father Time'.

sagittarius moons tend to be alcoholics/have drug addiction issues. quite unstable people. this may also be due to the fact that in my generation, pluto is in the same sign of their moon, so their moon is pluto-influenced, making them succumb more to compulsion.

having planets in the same house without them making aspects to eachother still makes them affect eachother. eg if moon and saturn are in the same house, even if they are 20 degrees apart, the native will experience their moon (childhood/relationship to home/mother) as tainted by saturnian qualities (distance, coldness, loneliness, sadness, heaviness, depression, delays, limitations, restrictions).

gemini venus - beautiful, dainty hands.

virgo venus women - tend to dress modestly/more traditionally.

libra sun - have an eye for beauty and aesthetics, both men and women.

Hi there!

Placements/Aspects that indicate Love at First Sight:

The wonderful things of the 12 zodiac signs

Aries: frank, enthusiastic, cheerful, funny, honest, easy to communicate

Taurus: wisdom, listening, calm, love, likability

Gemini: interesting, agile, intelligent, sly, vivacious, attractive communicator

Cancer: funny, caring, affectionate, lovable, role model "mother" of many people

Leo: strong, warm, heroic, cheerful, affectionate, creative, childish, likable

Virgo: delicate communication, dexterity, sharpness, intelligence, careful care

Libra: smart, charming, lovable, sociable, easy to approach, the right way of doing things, at the right time, with the right people

Scorpio: attractive, attractive, manipulative, charismatic, mysterious, fierce, EQ and IQ are all not the right form

Sagittarius: cute, curious, agile, approachable, free-spirited, optimistic, inquisitive, truth

Capricorn: reliable, calm, good listener

Aquarius: cute, clever, humane, sharp, loves to explore

Pisces: gentle, dreamy, compassionate, spiritual, love beauty, love truth, love what is right, healing energy

gemini and pisces placements are similar in the sense that geminis are able to see things from all perspectives, while pisces are able to empathise with people who have all sorts of different perspectives. pisces placements... be careful with over-empathising with the people who hurt you to the point where you’re understanding why they did it and you start excusing their actions. gemini placements... be careful with seeking the multi-layers and million different perspectives in everything and everyone to the point where you’re driving your own mind insane and you don’t know what your opinion is anymore because you hyper-analyse so much. too much of a good ability becomes a curse.

people with venus-mars aspects have a talent for making people who hate them fall in love with them 💋

moon in the 11th house natives tend to attract friends who get into scandals. moon in the 10th house natives tend to be the ones who get into said scandals. it’s a PERFECT FRIENDSHIP

capricorn placements have a talent for knowing how to make things last. they want to prolong the enjoyment they get out of something for as long as possible, which is why their hobbies, friendships and relationships tend to last a lifetime... hedonistic sluts

since both the 7th house and the 11th house rule fandoms, celebrities with a 7th house or 11th house neptune can attract fans who view them as angels who can’t do nothing wrong — because of this, those celebrities rarely take accountability for their mistakes, since people keep pushing the “but they’re perfect :(“ light on them

pluto conjunct ascendant natives always come off as very serious during first impressions, no matter how approachable and inviting they strive to appear.

sun and moon in the 10th house people may feel as if they’re always exposed to the public eye, they can’t get away with keeping things secretive. others always notice whatever they want kept on the low. this can be especially frustrating if they notice that others aren’t exposed to the same kind of scrutiny that they are for simply existing

lilith in pisces bitches have a natural talent for appearing like angels even in situations where they are 100% guilty. it’s very easy for them to put on their vulnerable, lost puppy act lmfao, which triggers others’ protective instincts. they may be able to cry on cue when people call them out on their bullshit, making them feel like THEY’re the shitty ones for confronting the lilith native... it’s insane

lilith in the 12th house natives may feel as though the themes of lilith are trapped in their psyche, at the core of who they are and those themes become unavoidable for them — they’re always there, lurking in the shadows, becoming the center of their nightmares

people with mercury in the 1st house can feel veryyy threatened and defensive when someone possesses knowledge in an area that they don’t, it’s like it hits them right on their biggest fears. they often either try to “one-up” the other person in an attempt to heal their broken ego or shut down altogether in insecurity. it’s imperative that they work on developing a strong sense of self-worth because they can be extremely prone to comparing their mental skills to those of other people.

people with personal planets in the 12th house may feel as though a lot of their artistic drive is stifled by their lack of energy. like... in the mental realm there’s a lot going on and it’s incredible, but then you pick up a pen to actualize your visions and you feel exhaustion immediately overtaking you. it can feel like there’s a lot to your psyche that feels inaccessible to you not because you don’t want to explore it, but because you have yet to restore the energy to dive deep into it. this can be especially noticeable if there’s absolutely no 5th house energy in the chart

people with jupiter in an earth sign love being surrounded by greeneries in their home; they may take a lot of enjoyment out of taking care of plants, gardening, cooking and stuff of the sort. it makes them feel more grounded, independent, and even healed. they also LOVE scents that connect them to nature like the scent of grass and the ocean.

air mercuries can be very beware of strangers, they can feel offended when their friends make them socialize with someone they don’t know and it can take a hot while before they trust the person enough to lower their defences a bit. they need to know it’s safe before expressing their usual sexy eccentric selves in front of someone new. on the other hand, aries placements can also hate being introduced to new people through their friends but it’s mostly because they’re very territorial over them, and can’t stand the thought that this new person can hurt their friendship in any possible way

meanwhile, it’s probably an earth or leo/sagittarius mercury introducing new friends to the group. they’re so fucking good with people and it shows in how they make people feel welcomed so easily, it’s like they “take” the person in and adopt them into the group. they can’t stand seeing someone being treated like an outcast because they know how it sucks to feel rejected, so they’ll try their best to make you feel included

while on the subject of people who hate seeing others be treated like an outcast because they know how it feels like to be rejected: SCORPIO RISINGS. bro. people underestimate how chill they can actually be. if they see you being left out, they’ll approach you with no fucks given and do anything in their power to make you feel comfortable. they do so well in group settings.

and while on the subject of scorpio risings... i have a scorpio rising friend and he goes thru it on the daily. he often complains that people are always suspicious of him and that they seem repulsed by him, strangers on the street will stay tf away from him. and it’s so heartbreaking because his personality is so friendly and welcoming and it doesn’t at all match his intimidating appearance. scorpio risings have this energy that not many people can handle, others feel either really drawn to them or downright scared of them because of the “danger” element they seem to carry in them

i know two people who are both scorpio suns and libra moons and they look the exact same, even though they have different risings. brown, deep-set eyes, coarse dark hair, naturally tanner skin tone — and they have the same style as well, using lots of band t-shirts and dark clothing. scorpio energy is always so noticeable wherever it is i swear, it’s like it takes over the rest of the chart

gemini moons are what yall claim gemini venuses to be. like, seriously... have you ever met someone with a gemini venus? they don’t need constant stimulation or else they’ll get bored and cheat. not in the slightest; actually, they’re often incredibly loyal and crave longterm, committed relationships. if anything, they need stimulation outside of their relationship in the form of a good, exciting career and hobbies so that they don’t get too addicted to their partner and to constantly analysing every aspect of their relationship. gemini moons however, tend to have multiple partners throughout life and they often feat deep commitment. they can be huge players imo, IT’S THEM YOU SHOULD BE WORRIED ABOUT!

sagittarius placements are so... tactile? like, they love to touch things. when they go to stores and stuff, they’ll start holding everything that catches their attention— it’s like they can only decide if they want to buy something after thouroughly exploring how it feels, the texture and the energy that the object gives them through touch. and they talk so much with their hands. it makes me so anxious like bitch you aren’t selena gomez, i promise you that you CAN keep your hands to yourself

taurus placements are so weird to me, i can’t understand them. it’s like they’re afraid of exploring their own depths, which in turn makes me unable to explore them. okay, how do i put this... it’s like they have this preset idea of who they are and after deciding so, they’re unwilling to let go of it. “i’m the stable friend who’s here for everyone even when i can barely take care of my own self” and then that’s who they are: the people who are a steady rock in the lives of others, taking care of everyone. and then they refuse to change even after getting hurt. and then, it’s like... well, you can’t just be that. you are a human who contains multitudes, but i don’t think you give yourself enough credit on how layered you are. that fear of changeability, that need to be the one stable thing in a world full of unpredictability will only damage you in the end, because you won’t get to fully experience life’s greatest pleasure: knowing yourself. becoming your own best friend, exploring every layer that there is to your being. i think you deny yourself of that experience because you fear that, with self-learning comes self-growth which leads to transformation. and you fear transformation because you don’t want to change for the worst. but like... transformation is necessary and with that comes adaptability + flexibility, which are things you could greatly benefit from.

scorpio venuses can be so pessimistic— and when they’re in a dark mindset, it’s so difficult to pull them out of it. it’s so difficult to get them to see the good in difficult situations, and to help them believe that it gets better. but even if you don’t believe me, i’ll keep telling you; it does get better. you’ll get through this.

jupiter in the 4th house is an indicator of food having been an amazing part of your childhood; there might’ve been a lot of feasts and you could’ve had a parent who loved to cook. being well fed might be a huge concern for you now; you might get sick easily when you’re eating fast food and non-traditional plates.

mercury square uranus is an extremely difficult aspect to have because, in your earlier years, you might’ve felt dumb or like there was something wrong with your intelligence because you might’ve found school difficult due to it’s structured nature that didn’t fit with the way you like to learn things— you need to learn in an interactive way that piques your interest. your anxiety and any traumatic experienced that you faced could’ve heavily impacted your school performance. you might’ve had an ease with learning but then, when it came to doing the written tests, you couldn’t perform to the best of your abilities. either way, school might’ve been a source of a lot of stress and difficulty.

mercury square pluto can have some weird manifestation where, like... you suspect things but you always suspect the wrong things. i’ve met a few people with this aspect and all of them were extremely suspicious of the most random things who were literally normal and innocent. this aspect can cause a lot of chaos to one’s interpersonal relationships because you might find yourself suspecting your loved ones in the weirdest circumstances due to your trust issues, which in return causes them to lose trust in you + the want to confide in you because you keep questioning everything they’re up to WHEN THEY’RE NOT UP TO ANYTHING IN THE FIRST PLACE. probably the most frustrating thing that can happen with this aspect is when you always suspect what you shouldn’t, but then, when sketchy things are actually happening that should be questioned, you don’t bat an eye to it. omfg it drives me insane

moon conjunct the ascendant can make someone have a very delicate appearance that gives others the impression that they need to handle you like fine china or else you might break. my mother has this at a very tight orb and whenever i bring people over, their first impression of her is always “she looks so frail”. the native might be extremely sensitive to every minor inconvenience which brings a lot of frustration to them, a feeling that they can’t control their reactions and inner turmoil. it can also suck when you don’t want to be depicted as the victim but then that’s the way everyone perceives you. the native might have very expressive and shiny eyes, and they can cry easily. it’s very difficult for them to hide their emotions.

1) not every aspect or position will appear in life, in that person's reality, because everything depends on other factors that may or may not confirm what the person TENDS to feel. for example: i know a person with moon square saturn, but who doesn't have problems with her mother so intensely. she feels an emotional disconnect, a desire to please her mother, but it’s not as bad as another person i also know with moon conjunct saturn, which in theory, was supposed to be easier to deal with than the first one mentioned. in this case, the person has to deal with a narcissistic mother. you see? everything depends on the life of each one. in the first case, i'm too happy that the person doesn't have to deal with it more intensely, because of the difficulty that this aspect would bring . in the second case, despite the present difficulty, the person has a slightly greater facility to deal with this than if she had a more tense, disharmonious aspect.

it's extremely possible that people with sun square saturn don't have low self-esteem. it's very possible that someone with saturn in 7th house has a great loving relationship. it's completely possible that a person with pluto in 7th house doesn't just have bad relationships. because it’s not like we’re destined to go through all of that. it also relates a lot to the way we choose to deal with these things.

2) therefore: the natal chart should not be seen as something deterministic in which everything described there will be experienced in your life. a natal chart must be seen as a series of trends to be observed, so it is perfectly possible that not everything you see on your chart will show up in real life. sometimes people believe that astrology is so deterministic that nothing around them influences it.

3) natal charts are nuances. believe me, the same position can manifest itself in other people in different ways. people say that Venus in Capricorn is extremely self-serving, that these natives would marry for money, but i don't see it that way. it's extremely possible that there are such people, but Venus in Capricorn represents that these people are more committed and serious when it comes to relationships. and somewhat selective as well.

4) those who study astrology will have different interpretations for the same position. again the question of Venus in Capricorn. Capricorn represents so many things that having such an interpretation for me is very limited. however, this only proves how people have different interpretations for the same thing. it's obvious that we want a certain harmony between the understandings, but it is possible that one person believes that the Venus Capricorn is related to interests, and another to believe that the same position simply means a greater commitment in the relationship. so: keep in mind that a placement is not just what you read in ONE post. go deeper, look elsewhere. a single placement can mean several things within the possible meanings of the planet, house and sign in question.

5) i don't like it and i think it is too limited when i see people reproducing that Venus represents a woman and Mars represents a man in a relationship. and when people and their relationships don't fit this well-disseminated pattern? and, another point: does venus not appear in men? does mars not appear in women? that is SO limited. Mars is important for all genders, and Venus too. therefore:

6) in a relationship, if you want to know about LOVE, venus-venus contacts say a lot more than venus-mars contacts. first, because this idea doesn’t make sense, mars doesn’t represent love, it represents sexual energy, among other things. women have sexual energy, men have sensitivity. the difference is in how we encourage each of them to express these sides.

7) now, if you want to know something about SEX, then it makes sense: mars-mars.

so we prevent this pattern of heteronormativity, and this can be more efficient to who may feel somewhat 'out of the ordinary' just because the widespread idea that the ideal thing to meet a woman is to look at her venus. ideal to meet a man is to look at his mars. this is very limited.

8) read, study, your natal chart according to your reality and life history. the two must be together. many things can make sense through astrology, but as long as you understand that the positions can manifest in different ways in each person. because we aren't only made of an astrological chart, but especially of life experiences.

9) the less people treat astrology and their respective natal charts as something personal and subjective (which will depend on a series of external life factors) the less astrology will make sense because others tend to observe this generalization behavior, interpreting that: how can the same position be repeated in the SAME WAY for everyone? it's not like this. in fact, many things can be repeated between natal charts, but still: we are made of subjectivity and life experiences. in addition, a position may be influenced by other positions in that specific natal chart. astrology is a tool for self-knowledge, to meet your potentials and characteristics that you sometimes didn't even know about yourself, but not everything about a position will be verified for everyone equally. for example: a person who has sun in pisces, but is dominant Mars in her natal chart. people may want to look at her sun and interpret her (and even stereotype her) as a person full of passivity, who can be easily manipulated, who is "slow". but...? we didn't look at the rest of her chart. we don't know about her life experiences, the choices she made.

10) we can use astrology to really get to know each other, i do that and i advise the same for anyone who is open to doing so. however, my way of interpreting astrology is: i try to get to know myself through it, but never forgetting my life experiences, whether in the sense of something that boosted a position or that caused it to be blocked, silent.

still in the example of the person with sun in pisces, she may have a great tendency to be empathetic, loving, understanding and helpful, but what if she spent long years of her life living with someone very manipulative and aggressive, who used exactly that side of her that tends to sacrifice easily for others? and if, in this context, with her instinct for survival and adaptation, (in an intelligent way, by the way) she had to learn to silence her empathic and understanding side >with those people< trying to act in a more assertive way or simply avoiding being manipulated when possible? everything can change. can you see how everything is more complex? we always need to take into consideration our choices and life experiences, whether those that have boosted positions positively or negatively.

Little thread:

Venus-Ascendant ppl are first to receive compliments for their Venusian traits of diplomacy, charm, creativity, self-love etc cause the Ascendants the first thing you notice upon initial contact.

Venus-Sun ppl are complimented for their overall appearance, personality and artistic talents since the Sun rules ones true career path & journey to self awareness. They’re jobs are likely Venusian so they’ll be complimented for that.

Venus-Moon ppl receive compliments based on how they make people feel (Moon). It’s likely easy to feel comfortable to express your true self around these ppl. Women especially are drawn to them cause they embody femininity. The Moon represents the mother & Venus is the daughter.

Venus-Mercury ppl receive compliments for their intelligence, how effortlessly they put words together, their sense of humour, the sound of their voices & the harmony they create in friendships.

Venus-Mars ppl receive compliments based on their physical prowess whether it be their athleticism or how curvy or muscular they are. Their ability to blend masculinity & femininity into one entity is applauded.

Venus-Jupiter ppl receive compliments for their sense of humour, wisdom & ability to inspire others with their beliefs. Compliments come based on their positivity & free-spirit.

Venus-Saturn ppl are complimented for their gentle shyness & reserved demeanour. Their compliance with social rules & structures is appealing. They age slowly aesthetically speaking so compliments on their beauty increase with time especially after they’ve hit 30+.

Venus-Uranus ppl receive compliments based on their idgaf attitude. They always strive to be authentic & unique no matter the circumstance so ppl find their real ness refreshing although at times shocking for some.

Venus-Neptune ppl receive compliments based on their love & acceptance of all humanity. They don’t like to judge others at least not openly so yh. Their artistry is complimented. Their faith in the divine or a higher power is complimented. Their complex mysterious hard to pin down style is complimented.

Venus-Pluto ppl receive compliments based on their no bullshit attitude which is similar to Venus-Uranus but less shocking & more revealing, their mysterious qualities & seductiveness. They can read ppl like a book so their depth is attractive to other’s.