I hate the Mpreg jokes so fucking much I swear to god.
Like. Okay, the first few times, it was funny. I was even making those jokes among myself and several other trans guys and it was mostly because all of us read omegaverse fics at one point and that was the context of the joke. But now itâs just like.
âI wish men could get pregnant.â
We do. You kill and ridicule us though.
I saw a video on YouTube that basically was like âmen should stop doing the wolf and lion thing. Be a seahorse and get pregnant.â
Seahorse dads do exist, and most of them die because they cannot get access to fucking medical care. I am TERRIFIED of going to a gynocologist because I live in Texas and have been on T for almost three years now, and there is a non zero chance Iâll probably end up being misgendered, harrassed, etc. just for needing fucking medical care for my goddamn vagina.
Every story of a trans guy I see now is always âman who understands what itâs like to be a womanly woman victim so he protects the precious woman womanly victims by being a homicidal meat shield.â
My aunt the other day said âyou should infiltrate the menâs spaces and fix themâ.
âDo you REALLY want trans men in your bathrooms?? Checkmate republicans!!â
Iâm gonna fucking scream. I hate cis people. I hate cis people so fucking much.
I donât hate cis people, actually. I just want to be seen as a fucking person. Iâm either a walking uterus, or a fucking meat shield, or therapist to âfixâ cis men.
Cis men are not my fucking responsibility. My safety matters more than your precious âfeelingsâ about me being at a fucking gynocologistâs office. Cis women are exactly like cis men and Iâm fucking tired of pretending they arenât, BOTH OF YOU are fucking AWFUL. You are cruel to my sisters and my siblings, you are cruel to my brothers, and then you project your shitty ass binary oppression systems onto us and fuck our community up.
No one is innately or inherently evil. Thats what makes this even more painful for me, because there really is no excuse for cis people to be this fucking cruel. To us and to each other.
Figure your own shit out, cis men arenât our fucking problem. We can be examples of positive masculinity, but thatâs it.
Sorry for the rant Iâm just so fucking tired and angry. Iâm not a fucking person, Iâm a tool to be discarded and Iâm just so, so sick of it.