I hate the Mpreg jokes so fucking much I swear to god.
Like. Okay, the first few times, it was funny. I was even making those jokes among myself and several other trans guys and it was mostly because all of us read omegaverse fics at one point and that was the context of the joke. But now it’s just like.
“I wish men could get pregnant.”
We do. You kill and ridicule us though.
I saw a video on YouTube that basically was like “men should stop doing the wolf and lion thing. Be a seahorse and get pregnant.”
Seahorse dads do exist, and most of them die because they cannot get access to fucking medical care. I am TERRIFIED of going to a gynocologist because I live in Texas and have been on T for almost three years now, and there is a non zero chance I’ll probably end up being misgendered, harrassed, etc. just for needing fucking medical care for my goddamn vagina.
Every story of a trans guy I see now is always “man who understands what it’s like to be a womanly woman victim so he protects the precious woman womanly victims by being a homicidal meat shield.”
My aunt the other day said “you should infiltrate the men’s spaces and fix them”.
“Do you REALLY want trans men in your bathrooms?? Checkmate republicans!!”
I’m gonna fucking scream. I hate cis people. I hate cis people so fucking much.
I don’t hate cis people, actually. I just want to be seen as a fucking person. I’m either a walking uterus, or a fucking meat shield, or therapist to ‘fix’ cis men.
Cis men are not my fucking responsibility. My safety matters more than your precious ‘feelings’ about me being at a fucking gynocologist’s office. Cis women are exactly like cis men and I’m fucking tired of pretending they aren’t, BOTH OF YOU are fucking AWFUL. You are cruel to my sisters and my siblings, you are cruel to my brothers, and then you project your shitty ass binary oppression systems onto us and fuck our community up.
No one is innately or inherently evil. Thats what makes this even more painful for me, because there really is no excuse for cis people to be this fucking cruel. To us and to each other.
Figure your own shit out, cis men aren’t our fucking problem. We can be examples of positive masculinity, but that’s it.
Sorry for the rant I’m just so fucking tired and angry. I’m not a fucking person, I’m a tool to be discarded and I’m just so, so sick of it.