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Vanilla Girl: This Sim radiates soft, simple charm and finds joy in life’s little comforts. They build friendships easily and develop charisma faster thanks to their warm, inviting nature. Happy to curl up with a good book or keep their space tidy, Vanilla Girls are more likely to clean and read on their own, and they can even feel a bit homesick when away from their cozy sanctuary and get uncomfortable when outside. They enjoy slower fun decay, content with peaceful moments that make every day feel gentle and sweet.

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☆ Let’s get to know haters first!

Haters are people who are jealous! I know, probably a lot of people told you that. But seriously, if you guys don’t have a problem with yourself then you can’t even hate on someone else. You love yourself and support people in this way.

People who hate, have problems with themselves in general. They just don’t know how to deal with their self hate and they find solutions by hating on other people.

Don’t worry, they’re so much ruder towards themselves than they’re with you. So just pity them because they have to deal with their self hate every day 😛

☆ Pretty people get hated.

If you have ever met with a jealous person, they usually start insulting you or talking behind your back for no reason.

It’s because jealous people don’t know how to admire.

If somebody else has something they want, they will end up being mean.

If you want to find out if they’re this kind of a person, then just observe their behaviours for a few days. Trust me, you will know.

Those people are usually so pessimistic about themselves and life. They’re not successful academically as well. Now try to connect the pieces. You may have something they want babe!

Even models, artists and actresses get hated on. Is it because they’re ugly or unsuccessful? No! Completely the opposite actually!

I bet you have seen a lot of haters who would insult your favourite celebrity and you’d be like “how??? they’re so pretty. It’s impossible to hate them!” It’s because the haters’ mindset.

☆ Change your mindset into something positive

Instead of thinking like “oh, they hate me! i definitely did something wrong!!”, you can think of yourself as your favourite celebrity! And trust me, it can sound weird or cringe but it helps so much with confidence and resistance to haters. I apply this method and since then, i am so much more confident and even get happy when someone starts talking behind me for no reason.

Because now, we know only unhappy people in life hate!♡

That was what my old bsf did. She’d always tell me how her mother compared her to me about everything. She told me she was so upset about it and i even tried to comfort her but she ended up hating, reposting unrealistic stuff about me. I’ve got a lot of new friends now and she is just stuck with people she talked behind. I am so sorry for her tbh. Wish her some real friends and a good personality xx

☆ Do not take revenge by hating on them as well

Hating on someone would make you feel stuck. You’d repeat the same thing over and over again.

Instead, smile at people who give you dirty looks. It’ll make them so mad and even feel embarrassed because of their dirty personality.

Sweetness is key. Prove them you’re better and not even interested in their embarrassing life by improving yourself. Let them enjoy the show 💋🍿📺

Lights, camera, action! 📸💘

☆ Listen to songs that matches the main character vibe

I am not talking about toxic confidence or main character energy. I am talking about the real one.

Pause your sad music. You’re not the victim just because some unworthy people talked behind you because no one listens to them when they talk about themselves. I am sure they don’t even have something to talk about themselves. Like what? You’re going to tell us about your ex bf you can’t let go of? Or how much you hate yourself? Nah, thanks. We don’t wanna listen hun.

Here are some artists that i love if you want to match the vibe i am talking about:

Sabrina Carpenter

Lana Del Rey

Britney Spears (queen)

Taylor Swift

Ariana Grande

Pink Pantheress

☆ Do the things they absolutely don’t like on purpose.

They hate your sense of fashion? Dress however you want.

They hate your makeup? Do the same makeup the next day.

They hate your photos on social media? Post more.

They hate you? Show yourself off more.

Their opinions don’t matter. The only thing that matters is you.

If you try to fit their opinions, you’ll end up being sad and just make them feel more powerful.

They’re not powerful honey, they just think they’re in their silly little world.

Ropes are in your hands. You can either stumble on them by overthinking about their comments or make yourself a swing to enjoy their tiny embarrassing world. Choice is always yours, yk.

That was it for today girliesss i am sorry if it was a little bit tough i guess this post contained some toxic motivation😭😭

But i hope you like it!! Let me know if you have any reqs! Love you so much! Byeeee ♡