I am learning to lean. Lately, we haven't made each other a priority. It's been a while since we felt like best friends, we fell into this weird sort of parenting/adult roommates with shared responsibilities zone, and it wasn't so hot. Most of it is probably my fault, and I'm not saying that in false humility. I've been upfront with Hanna about her shortcomings, but I should be more gracious in pointing out faults and solving problems immediately. Most of the time, she just wants me to listen. When you pile a bunch of stress, anger, frustration, sadness, tiredness, anticipation, and all the emotions on top of a relationship between an 8 and a 4 and you've got a SUPER fertile ground for strife. We're both pretty independent, so we both tend to try to lean on our own strength. Through it all, I've realized how needy and stubborn we both are, and been reminded that we can't "complete" each other. We need something much more than each other has to offer, and we tend to mess it all up when we're doing it on our own. So I'm still learning to lean on Jesus, because we can't do it on our own. #thewayfam #typeeightvibes #typefourvibes #bestfriendteaminc https://www.instagram.com/p/B0zGx4khfLT/?igshid=egemori8pznc
