so, my new boyfriend situation is going pretty well, he's really nice and sweet and funny, we're able to communicate in a way I never knew was possible.
he's totally supportive, from the jump he's called me his gf and stuff. most of his friends are trans girls which is kinda funny and I'm making friends with other girls instead of just talking to them online, which is pretty important I think.
I actually have a job now too, which is nice cause I like having spending money that I don't have to get from cretinous men. it's difficult but satisfying and everyone there is nice to me.
this one girl at work didn't seem to like me at first, but later that night she was helpful and nice, so I think it's ok. people really change their attitude when they realize that instead of being lazy you're just dumb and incompetent lol.
my bf and his friends are all yugioh fanatics, so I'm trying to learn but it's taking us a while to get me a deck to lean on. that's exciting though, they're all competitive and having a competitive hobby is probably a good idea for me.
so yeah, I basically became a normie.
not girlmoding per se, but idk, HRT is doing enough that I'm andromoding and have the confidence to actually work on makeup and stuff. plus having genuinely supportive and accepting people probably made a huge difference.
get called "she" and "her" a lot at work, sometimes by customers, sometimes by my coworkers accidentally.
it's a little, FFS will absolutely make a huge difference.