May 3
Broken Apart, and Brought Back Together
TW: Talk of dormancy
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Broken Apart, and Brought Back Together
TW: Talk of dormancy
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I'm fucking sick of looking at plural communities or plural tags and seeing people talking about forcing their headmates into dormancy. "I want to force my persecutors into dormancy" "we forced our old host into dormancy" "can we force all the non-helpful alters into dormancy" "I don't want to go through the effort of establishing healthy communication with the whole system can I just force some of them into dormancy" "We forced an alter into dormancy and he came back and hates us all, any advice" "If you're dealing with a persecutor and they won't listen to reason you should try forcing them into dormancy" "I forced my alters into dormancy but it didn't make them go away what should I do" " This alter was annoying me and so I forced them into dormancy lol" "We don't bother giving our fragments identities we just force them into dormancy" "This alter triggered another alter's source trauma so we forced them into dormancy" I feel like I'm on the fucking truman show what the fuck are you talking about? What the hell do you mean? Why are you all so fucking obsessed with it? What is wrong with you guys? Don't you understand how fundamentally fucked up that is? Hello? Am I talking to myself right now?
memorialter
a term for any part that is missed, grieved, or was 'lost' to their system. this may have been through shattering, prolonged dormancy, fusion (particularly negative fusion), drastic fragmentation, or any other occurrence that the system views as loss.
this is one of the few terms that the headmate themselves cannot claim. rather, its intended use is to give those who loved them a term to refer to them by, memorializing their existence and showing that they were cherished by the rest of their system.
more personal info below the cut, surrounding what inspired us to make this.
Denial is a river in Egypt
we made a comic about our plurality :)
(we are rapidly switching so like 4 of us made this)(8th grade was HARD)(we might make more of these)
anti endos dni please
plain text: anti endos dni please
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it's so surreal finally setting down after a system reset. like. the old host is dead. it's a weird sort of grief because there's a part of them inside you still, but that doesn't really help with the fact that every day you see their face in the mirror. when you move through the world, you do it in their body. you're cleaning their room (yours now) and throwing out things that must have been important at some point but you no longer remember. at the dinner table nobody else notices they're gone. their friends are yours now and you have to somehow get to know them again without them realising that they don't know you. all you can do is pick up the mess that your ex-self left behind and try to keep living the life they started. you know?
(this post is pro endo)
i know that people view their system differently and that this probably won't be the same for everyone, but a huge step in us bettering our mental health in relation to our system was accepting that dormancy isn't something bad. alters going dormant means that the brain didn't find them necessary for the system's survival anymore, and it's especially good for systems who have a surplus of trauma holders and the like. does it make me a little sad not having them around anymore? of course it does. but it means we can survive a little easier. it means we're safer, that we're healing
who knew grief could make me so angry.
tw // themes of alter fusion and dormancy, grief, and very very brief implication of sa
