My tag will be [~~ss is talking!~~], but you can also call me Sam. I use he/they/any pronouns, I'm a mixtive whose source won't be revealed any time soon, and if you're one of our littles, there's a very high likelihood you've met me already. Of course, it's more than fair to need time to grieve; our inbox and dms are open if there's anything - questions, comments, concerns, etc. - that you'd like to share.

We've had members go dormant before but usually that feels different from them being completely gone, it feels strange to build up a relationship with someone for months while thinking they'll stay forever only to wake up to them being gone one morning

I do mourn some of our old members, the ones who were here for so long I thought they were permanent, but at the same time it feels as if they wouldn't want me to be upset about it, because they helped me so much while they were here and recognising that they're gone doesn't mean ignoring the impact they had on me

Being a smaller system also seems to help us a lot more, we're about a dozen now and it feels like just the right size, there's enough of us to be there for each other without overwhelming anyone with overcrowding, being from the same source also helps a lot with communication because we already know each other from our source