#tw deadnaming

when we're old and have to leave the earth

they have no idea about the horrors they're about to witness LMAO

I will be paraphrasing and linking some of her posts so if you are sensitive to suicide baiting, deadnaming, misgendering, dehumanizing, and violent fantasies please keep yourself comfortable and safe and scroll on. Take care, please.

If you aren't transmasc, a trans man, or anything adjacent, you do not have the place to forgive and forget the transphobia of doomersis.

Her apology was very empty and it will never undo the mountains of vile transandrophobia she spewed every day. It was quite telling that she was more worried for the future consequences of violent hatred than she was of actually owning up to and making steps towards being a safe person for trans mascs to be around.

You don’t get to call trans mascs 'testosterone hysterical women' and get away with it. You don't get to say it makes you happy to know a trans guy is being buried with [his] deadname on [his] grave and get away with it. You don't get to say you want glass to [their] eyes and get away with it.

A simple "I'm sorry I was mean I still believe they're privileged btw but I no longer want to kill them" is not enough to undo the vitriolic TERF rhetoric you spat out.

Her words had real, tangible effects. Telling a mother that she wished her trans son's suicide attempt had actually worked is despicable** and she shouldn't get away with it.

The asks she has received telling her that she must be such a good person because everyone makes mistakes and her owning up to it is outstanding piss me off. And while yes, I can admit that a shitty apology is better than no apology, she isn't a 'wonderful person with a wonderful apology.' She didn't really make an effort to actually apologize for any of the hate speeches she made.

It was so obvious that she would rather have every single last trans masculine person dead and gone in a slow, painful, violent death than she wanted every single lasy trans feminine person have a good and long and happy life.

Bottom line, her words will never be forgotten by many trans men and mascs, and she shouldn't be forgiven. I am creating this post because I do not want her apology to be the thing people know of her. She is a transphobic terf and doesn't deserve the forgiveness and forgetness of the trans community. Until she drastically changes, she doesn't deserve our forgiveness.

And for heaven freaking sakes do not send harassment her way because I've spoken about this. Just ignore her. Please. Harrassment and death threats aren't they way to go about this.

**Below the cut are screenshots I took of this post back in June from one of her old accounts. It includes dehumanizing and suicide baiting, please be cautious if this hurts you.

they also refuse to not deadname me (i've been out as nonbinary for like two years) and have been trying to persuade me not to change my name, or to change it to the masc version of my name, which i do not vibe with

This is intersexism and exorsexism.

so, we are already forced to use our legal name on job applications. because of this, our job developer often marks us as female on applications, and only recently has marked us as male.

today there was a non-binary option on the application and when i said to mark male, she told me about the non-binary option and looked at me like she expected me to choose that instead. i had to tell her outright that i’m not non-binary (bodily).

it made me realize she doesn’t see us as a guy. she thinks of us as some sort of inherent “other” for being trans.

side note, she refers to us as “[deadname] [chosen name]” (example with random names i pulled: Ava Ben) to her coworkers/supervisor and uses it in our files, and she treats it like it’s some sort of cute nickname she gave us.

More info about Terrell’s mom:

Her name is Squidezebel (Squid-Jezebel)

She’s a high-end art critic to go with the theme of Squidward’s family being ‘artsy’ and stuff

She’s already been divorced 6 times…and that was before she had Terrell 💀

She’s definitely a narcissist but you can probably see that from the comic 😭

She also had no idea Squidward was trans but she’s one of those people who think being trans is a ‘phase’ and stuff

Might take a while before I make more of this or art in general but anyway yah- I love giving a 5-year-old hard times to go through (I’m joking, I love you Terrell I’m sorry your parents are assholes 😭 I needed to find a way for you to live with Squidward, I swear your life gets better 😫💔)