differences between a sp936 and a sp926 tritype?
i have a hard time differentiating the two. i donโt really have a specific desire to help people, in a way i do but itโs not something i would necessarily go out of my way to try and help someone immediately. if anything i try to avoid it because i donโt know how to help people and overall suck at it, but if one of my friends come to me iโll try and help. i still have a desire to be loved and needed just not in a way that i need to help people in order to get that, i definitely change myself to fit into others standards or the way they see me, and i donโt really have a sense of identity which makes me think i have a 3 fix, but i donโt really have a strong desire for success either nor am i a workaholic and i donโt really care about what i achieve in life and more-so i daydream about it rather than actually trying to work towards what i want to do. i donโt really want to stand out either, i just dislike socializing with people overall unless theyre my friends or itโs necessary, but itโs not like iโll put it off. iโll avoid it, but if someone comes up to me iโll still act nicely and put on a mask of some kind, that might just be because i have social anxiety though, but i still find social interaction bothersome and iโll only do it if necessary. iโm pretty much neutral on everything, iโm not very ambitious or have a lot of goals either, i donโt really care what i do in life, as long as itโs easy or something i enjoy and iโm content, happy, and healthy where i am, iโm fine with that. which is what completely throws me off on having a 3 fix, but a 2 fix doesnโt really seem to fit me either since i donโt have a specific desire to help people. i relate to e3s motivations to be valuable and admired by other people more than i do with e2s motivations but i relate to e2s core fears and defense mechanism way more.
You seem to be image last; most of your anti-3 argument is just a pro-strong-9 fix argument. Beyond that, 3 is probably correct. You will help people, but don't place your source of pride in being the only person who can, so no visible 2 fix.
Something to remember: 6-2 is double super-ego, there's a lot of 'should' in their thinking (I am a good person, because I help people; and everyone SHOULD help the people they care about). With 693, it's triple attachment, so the person evolves, shape-shifts, and tries to be what they think the situation needs. Less super-ego, less 'should.'
The higher the 3, the more ambitious it is; your third fix is just a shadow, dependent on the whims of the higher fixes. So a 693 would not necessarily be ambitious or a workaholic; they just want to be left alone and to do their own thing.
