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β β β β β β β β β β transplural tips !
xu am a part of a mixed - origin system, so these are only ideas xu have based off of xuer own experience being a part in it! they may not work for you, but hopefully they'll give you your own ideas!
this is a very generalized post. if you want tips for a specific -genic transition, send xie a request!
β β β to transition :
xu always like to say start small ! you dont need to rush your transition. xu know it hurts not being able to just be what you're supposed to be, but its more likely you'll give up on transitioning if you try to rush into it !
change your language β β i went on a walk β should become β we went on a walk β. it takes a conscious effort at first, but the more you ingrain it into your speech and typing style the more natural it becomes. always think about the fact that you are plural, that you're not aloneβthat in your body, theres more than one conscious. like xu said, it takes effort. its okay to fail, its okay to forget. just remind yourself as often as you can!
plan it out β write stuff down! it might seem stupid, but give it a try. you don't even need to decide on basic stuff, that can come naturally. get a notebook, and write down one word on each page. an object, an animal, an aesthetic, an emotion, a fashion style, or anything else. THAT is the beginning of an idea, of a person. you can expand based on what you want or whatever feels right, depending on the -genic you're transitioning to.
find a rhythm β this is easier said than done. whether you're going for a full transition or just looking for a way to relieve your dysphoria, this is a good way to do it! you don't need to be intense about it, use the notebooks or whatever equivalent you come up with. if one of the topics you wrote down was a fashion choice, go out and buy or make clothing of that typeβor research its culture, and make a collage or playlist (see the next step). Anything that'll put you into a headspace for the other person you should be!
playlists β xu think they're actually really helpful for furthering how you should be. music can help you get into certain mindsets, and may even end up acting as front triggers for your parts! make them based on the information you wrote down, and play them while this part is fronting. make a few, play whichever feels right in the moment
first-person experience β ask your system friends or people who've successfully transitioned! this is a part of any transitional journey; figuring out how to transition safely and in a way that makes you comfortable. go ask your friends for tips, or just ask them about their plural experiences.
some other things to keep in mind as you explore your plurality :
πΉ set up pluralkit, tupperbox, simply plural, or any other bots or apps that support plural people!
πΉ make things or buy things with your parts in mind. β [part] would love this.. β
πΉ roleplay as your parts, either via apps and bots or irl!
πΉ think like your parts. react & respond in your head, it'll eventually come naturally.
πΉ bah blogs on tumblr can be extremely helpful when trying to help your parts form, no matter what -genic you are! give them a try! (xuer headmate owns a blog you're absolutely free to submit to, @prestigousbah)
πΉ endogenic / willogenic spaces are great places to look for tips if you don't know any other plurals.
remember! you wont be plural right away. transitioning doesn't happen overnight. you also dont need to fit the βplural mold.β you should focus on you and your parts comfort above fitting in.
anything else xu might recommend is -genic specific, which sadly defeats the point of something more generalized! if you're looking for other tips, submit something more specific!
