#transgenderism

what the fuck do you want us to thank you for? the way you get all excited whenever you get called a foid because it validates your identity? the way you play into stereotypes and call it womanhood? you're actively enforcing misogyny because that's what men do, because you're a man

we want 'gender as a class' acknowledged and actively abolished instead of people pretending it's possible to switch from one to the other willy nilly while denying sex based oppression and playing into gender roles

It's so damn irritating because most of the time it boils down to transmascs and perisex afab nbs self-infantilizing and fighting back against the nonexistent threat of transfems and nbs who aren't afab perisex 'erasing' or 'downplaying' or whatever their 'universal' experiences and not actual nuanced discussions and think pieces on the topic.'A decade ago you'd get rightfully told off for asking what's in somebody's pants'A decade ago the transfems you cyberstalk to prove they're irl serial abusers and turbofascists were suicidal and in the worst situations of their lives and getting told they should repress their transfemininity to 'defy stereotypes' and that they were 'reinventing gender roles' and would be better as just gnc men or genderless/'a secret third thing'.Atp i take anybody complaining about this discourse and tme/tma discourse too as a transmisogynistic dogwhistle except if they're transfem themselves or are just genuinely misinformed and confused but willing to listen and learn,especially younger tboys who've been groomed into the transandrodork cult when trying to find means of embracing their transmasculinity and searching for ways of advocating for themselves-which they absolutely should and they deserve HEALTHY and anti-transmisogyny pro-transfem means and ways of doing so they'll become the good men they want to be and not grow up to be awful ones.And younger trans girls deserve to not have to put with transandrobro bullcrap too and have their brothers fighting FOR them and ALONGSIDE them and not referring to them as a fucking slur implying they're equivalent to men doing gender wrong to dismiss their voices just to reach adulthood and get treated as hysterical and instigating divide in the community for mistrusting transmascs on default.Also supposed agab abolishers spend more time agab discoursing than actually dismantling what they were taught about it which is a whole other can of worms so i'll leave it at that for now

gender is an indefinite, indescribable and amazing experience that transcends the human body and socially-imposed binaries on so many planes, that perhaps only that of a cosmic enemy similar to a god could hope to fully grasp, but you can call me a boy I guess.