Apr 16, 2025
god cis people really dont even know about transgender euphoria. like they can only fathom transitioning as something you do to save your life. its so so bleak
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god cis people really dont even know about transgender euphoria. like they can only fathom transitioning as something you do to save your life. its so so bleak
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Hello, jumping to your asks since you seem open to debate.
My positions are fairly leftist, economically and socially.
I saw one of your posts being kinda anti-trans, but it doesn't make any hard claims and just says that trans people claiming to be happy are probably sad and coping.
What are you actual thoughts on trans people?
To be totally fair, that post, if it's the one I'm thinking of, was me anting about one specific person who orbits radblr to piss us off. It was meant to be a vent about one person.
I have... complex beliefs. I think most trans people are acting in good faith, and genuinely trying to alleviate dysphoria. At the same time, there's like... a weird amount of bad actors in the community. Like, a LOT. I think they let bad actors and misinformation about safety fly way too easily, and a weird amount of trans people are very, VERY misogynistic. And I dislike how flippant the community is about transitioning, especially physically.
HRT and puberty blockers are not harmless. Binding can completely ruin your lungs and back and ribs. A fair amount of the trans community insists GNC people are just eggs waiting to crack. The trans community is DIABOLICAL about violence to women who disagree with them (see; terfbreaking tag for examples), while there's no equivalent for the men who disagree. There's a push to transition instead of even trying to see if psychotherapy could help. There needs to be stricter standards for transition than just self-ID.
I don't say this just as an outsider. I identified as transgender for so long, for years. I was even on hormones for a while. I was on a top surgery list. I have quite a few trans people in my life who I love and adore (my little sibling and my mom's spouse, neither of who I believe are bad actors.). I have very personal experience with the community. I just don't love how a lot of the community acts, and I think that some attempts at acceptance before transition would help a lot.
I don't think all, or even most trans people are bad actors. I don't have anything against social transition. (Hell, my own name is from when I tried to transition.) I'm all for informed consent. I just think there needs a Lot of reform in the community.
Absolute superman is a trans man: the post
ok at first it was just me projecting and like oo fun headcanon haha ha but I really . Mmmmmm I don’t know how to prove it but he is. He just is. Unhinged rambling below
Also talk of binding, packing, torture, potential spoilers for absolute superman, the closeted trans experience, and kal’s shitty fashion sense below
sometimes I get gender dysphoria about being a 5'2" trans man (that's already below average for a woman) but then I'll remind myself that yeah, there are cis men that short too. it makes it slightly better ig. still sucks tho 😔
He gives me gender envy 🥺
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IDK if there's such a thing as "transcurious" (kinda like bicurious) but.
I'm feeling that RN TBH.
When I was a kid I questioned if I was a boy a lot, especially with the way I act more boyish. Nowadays, the question comes up occasionally but not as prevalent.
IDK. Gender thoughts.
So I spend a lot of my time wishing that I was cis, and I find it pretty hard to find pride in my transness.
I only really feel that community at monthly meetings I go to, and even then I don't always fit right in.
And I've been thinking a lot about this and I think I've figured out why (aisde from the obvious benefits of being cis, like not having to transition which can cause social issues and be medically challenging).
When I came out, there wasn't a single, and I mean not even one person who reacted positively to me coming out.
The degrees of disgust and disappointment varied greatly, and my most "positive" reactions were from friends who just went along with it and didn't change much, some called me by my name and others didn't.
I think that if even one person had reacted well and said that they were happy I knew who I was or proud of me for figuring this out or brave for fighting to be referred to the right way then I would have some degree of pride about who I am.
And I know that playing 'What if?" doesn't change anything but if you're reading this and somebody comes out to you as trans then please react positively. Realising I was trans helped with a lot of my mental health issues (not all of them were instantly solved but I learnt a lot) and also just made my life better in ways cis people can't imagine!
Please tell the trans people in their lives that you are happy for them, that it's wonderful that they know who they are now and that you're happy they realised this! I promise it will make a difference.