How did ldr!nick and ldr!reader meet? How/When did they start dating? Were they just friends at first? Were any of them cautious about starting a LDR? -toughguymatt
nick and reader met through mutual friends at a party. one of reader’s undergrad school friends is also a photographer, and she invited them both to her birthday. they hit it off right away and went on a few casual dates here and there before officially making it a relationship about a year ago.
at the time, reader was still living in LA, but then they got into grad school at NYU and moved to new york.
nick was very confident about it from the beginning. he’s naturally optimistic when it comes to their relationship, so the idea of distance never really scared him. he’s always believed they’d make it work. reader, on the other hand, struggled a bit more. his main love language is physical touch and wants to be around nick regularly, and between school and work, it’s harder for him to balance everything and make time for calls and visits. the adjustment wasn’t easy, and he definitely still has moments where he hates the distance.
on top of that, reader isn’t the best communicator when he’s struggling. he tends to go quiet instead of admitting he’s overwhelmed or upset. nick has gotten good at picking up on the little things like shorter texts, longer response times, or the way reader’s tone shifts on calls. he’s learned to gently coax it out without pushing too hard.
but nick has been steady the whole way through. he’s very patient, and reassuring. he never makes reader feel guilty for struggling with it. he reminds him that the hard parts don’t outweigh how worth it their relationship is, and that the distance won’t last forever.