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Learning to Keep My Home Clean (and Joyfully So) 🏡

by thatgentlewife

Keeping house didn’t come naturally to me at first. It’s something I’ve had to learn little by little, with lots of grace, discipline, and the gentle conviction of the Holy Spirit. I used to feel overwhelmed by clutter and mess, unsure of where to begin, or if I even had the energy. But God is patient, and He’s been showing me that homemaking isn’t about perfection, it’s about peace, service, and love. 💕

Now, I’m learning how to care for our home in a way that brings glory to God and rest to our hearts.

• I wash the dishes right after I eat or use them, so the sink doesn’t pile up, and the kitchen stays peaceful.

• I leave the vacuum where I can see and access it (unless guests are over!) so I can quickly clean up crumbs and dust.

• I’m working on making our bed every morning, not just for looks, but because it starts the day with order.

• After I do my skincare, I put everything away immediately, because little acts of tidiness make a big difference!!!!

• My husband and I went through all of our belongings recently and donated everything that didn’t serve a purpose or hold sentimental value. Decluttering truly lifted a weight off our shoulders.

• I’ve started squeegeeing the shower after use, and we use a toilet tablet to keep stains from forming (simple, but so helpful!)

• Laundry gets folded and put away right after it’s done….it takes energy, but it’s so worth it.

• We don’t wear shoes in the house, and ask our guests not to either. It keeps the floors cleaner and creates a cozy, sacred space.

• Every night, I run the dishwasher. Every morning, I unload it while my husbands coffee brews. It’s become a rhythm I look forward to.

And most importantly:

I remind myself that my husband and I deserve to live in a clean, calm space. He works so hard, and I want our home to be a place of rest and renewal for both of us. Keeping house isn’t a burden—it’s a form of love.

This shift didn’t happen overnight. I had to ask the Lord to help me let go of laziness, to teach me diligence, and to fill me with joy in the little things. Proverbs 31 reminds us that a virtuous woman “looks well to the ways of her household” and “does not eat the bread of idleness.” Not out of pressure or performance, but because her heart is rooted in service and strength.

If you’re in the process of learning too, here are a few more tips that have helped me:

• Keep a pretty spray bottle of all-purpose cleaner on the counter to make wiping surfaces quick and easy.

• Light a candle or play worship music while cleaning—invite beauty into the process.

• Set a timer for 15 minutes a day to tidy one space—small steps really do add up.

• Ask God to give you a heart that delights in caring for your home, not resents it.

You don’t have to be “naturally tidy” to become a good homemaker. You just have to begin. And God will meet you in the work. He delights in order and peace, and He delights in you.

This is womanhood. This is service. This is worship.

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We've had the pleasure of a long weekend this week, and it's done great things for my overall demeanor. Lately, I've been feeling so trapped and angry in the house, and after I thought deeply it was easy to see why. The house was clean, but there were things we just don't use crammed in everywhere. It was clean, but not organized or happy.

It was 10pm but already I was committed to fixing the problem. With help from my wonderful husband, about 17 hours, and several breaks, we managed to completely transform the feeling of the house.

Storage areas, closets, under the sinks, everything got carefully sorted and reordered. We changed the flow of the kitchen completely and found much better spaces for things that have sat in one spot for years.

It was difficult and stressful, but so worth it. We ended up with around 10 or 11 bags of just garbage and items that we never even wanted. I can breathe in here again. And that's very important, considering I'm here the most.

She goes into messy houses, and doesn't do a shock value gasp or judginess at the mess, she smiles and offers kindness in helping them organize their own space (which is a more long-lasting effect than other cleaning shows who mostly do it for you, and thus you dont learn how to prioritize and love your belongings)

She stays out of disputes, and does not force her input on anything, only when asked for help does she do so

Her method helps people who struggle with hoarding or feeling overwhelmed by their belongings. Multiple hoarders have expressed how much her method helped them, as compared to other methods - thanking your items before getting rid of them is a huge help in closure for some people. Those who are overwhelmed are helped by how her method keeps focus on what you want to keep and have in your life, rather than on how much or little youre throwing out.