#threemonths

Por si no se sabía, además de un consumado cantante, el sudafricano Troye Sivan es un actor que inició su carrera cinematográfica como el pequeño Wolverine en, precísamente, "X-Men Origins: Wolverine" (2009). Luego sería el protagonista de la trilogía "Spud" y tendría un pequeño rol en "Inocencia Borrada" (Boy Erased, de 2018, ya reseñada aquí). Entre grabaciones, conciertos y alguna aparición televisiva, Sivan se hizo tiempo para rodar esta película de Jared Frieder, producida por MTV.

La historia transcurre en en 2011, en el estado de Florida (EE.UU.). Aquí, Sivan interpreta a Caleb, un muchacho que vive con su abuela (la ganadora del Oscar Ellen Burstyn) y el novio de ésta, Benny (el también ganador del Oscar Louis Gossett Jr.). Su padre ha muerto y su madre le ha desahuciado al no aprobar su estilo de vida gay. Trabaja en un supermercado junto a su amiga Dara (Brianne Tju), a quien luego halla teniendo un "encuentro" con Suzanne, dueña del local (Judy Greer). Un mal día, una de sus parejas provisorias le envía un mensaje angustioso: había sido diagnosticado con el VIH y, debido a que el condón utilizado se había roto, había posibilidades de que el adolescente se hubiera contagiado.

Allí se inicia una espera angustante de tres meses para saber si los resultados de los análisis son negativos o si, como teme, su vida cambiaría drásticamente. El Dr. Díaz, que es quien lo atiende (Javier Muñoz), le indica una reunión en el Pride Center of Equality Park (el lugar existe) para que se conecte con otras personas que pueden estar atravesando el mal (o estén en espera de un diagnóstico) y necesiten evitar la idea de tener relaciones sexuales. Allí conoce a un tímido muchacho llamado Estha (Viveik Kaira) que también está afrontando lo mismo que él, aunque con mayor temor, ya que sus padres hindúes (Caleb viene de una familia judía) no tolerarían jamás que su hijo perfecto fuese gay, y menos uno con VIH.

Al fin, ambos afianzan una relación en la que la actitud de vida desprejuiciada de Caleb contrasta fuertemente con la más seria y acongojada de Estha, de quien teme se desarrolle una depresión tan fuerte que decida terminar con su vida.

Es cierto que, aunque sigue siendo incurable, el VIH-SIDA ha perdido mucho ese halo de condena a muerte que lo revestía desde su descubrimiento, a finales de los setenta. No es un tema fácil, pero esta película logra utilizar un tratamiento desdramatizado, aunque no por eso menos ligero, de la realidad de los nuevos padecientes. Un aspecto importante de la historia es la permanente mención de Pedro Zamora, figura destacada del reality show "The Real World: San Francisco", emitido en 1994 por MTV.

You may proceed if you meet the following criteria:

a. You are living in the Philippines, preferably within Metro Manila.

b. Your main goal is to get married, preferably with the one that you love.

c. You have a budget in mind.

If you meet all of the above mentioned, then LET'S GET STARTED. No time to waste.

One important thing to remember in planning a wedding is that it is composed of mainly two (2) parts:

Ceremony vs. Reception

Both of these things make-up a wedding but one is more important than the other (depending on your personality and your belief system)

If you are a catholic (like me), then you will see the "Ceremony" as the more important part of the wedding because it will act as the eternal bond between you and your future husband. The reception is important for us too but due to the time constraints (3months) we have to put a much higher weight on the ceremony.

Ceremony - according to online sources this "involves an exchange of marriage vows by a couple and proclaimed by an authority figure. Please search thoroughly for the requirements outlined by your specific religion or sect in order to assure that your ceremony will be valid.

Our ceremony to be valid, we had to comply the following requirements coming from our church:

Birth Certificate

Baptismal Certificate with the note "For Marriage Purposes"

Confirmation Certificate (Kumpil)

Marriage License coming from the Registrars Office

CENOMAR from PSA (Certificate of No Marriage)

Wedding Invitation

2x2 picture (2pcs)

Marriage Banns with Permit

Marriage Contract (Civil Marriage)

Reception- on the other hand is described online as "a party usually held after the completion of a marriage ceremony as hospitality for those who have attended the wedding".

NOW! time for a little secret. We have been keeping this secret in our family for quite some time now, this secret formula was invented by me, my mother and sister when we were planning my own debut party. So, the secret to an amazing party are three things:

The Secret: Good Food, Entertainment and Memories (Photo & Video).

Food - this is the most important part of the party trifecta. You need to taste the food that you will be serving to your guest preferably choosing a theme or an experience as they eat their food.

Entertainment - this will be dependent on another factor in the wedding which is the "Host" but you can assure this by having a band or a song list that encapsulates your program flow. Tip: try imagining yourself at a wedding what songs can you relate too? Take into consideration also the overall theme of your wedding.

Photo and Video - when I was researching for my photo and video team, I meticulously watched all of their videos and imagined if they would fit the overall theme of my wedding. If you have a fun and up beat theme then your photo and video team should also have that vibe. If you have dark and mysterious theme then your photo and video should also have that rustic and nostalgic vibe in their portfolio.

Three month reviws been long since I did these but it different. 

High

The Batman,

Little Train statue,

 Just notice it in Febuary during going to store on weekly shopping with my brother. Visit it again and had selfie with it.

Book of Boba Fett & DB-1,

 Glad he got a series and DB-1 become one of my favourite Star Wars characters.

Hot Wheel Car that come with wings,

Dad in my dream,

 He pass away last year but I had this funny dream, there were a lady with me and my brother in our house and mum show up with dad believe he was been in hospital. Now sure he in dementia. Not what happen next but I wake up. There many dreams and nightmare, this is one of these I remember.

Lecter (London Lecister Square Legostore mascot),

 Before my brother and mum was going to London, brother start watching videos about London, one is Legostore I do remeber Lecter Legostore London mascot I got keyring but not lego figure. My brother two online also order Lego Royal Guards (one for him and other for me). He was unable to go Legostore as it busy.

House to myself with two cats,

 My mum and brother went to London for a day. cos my mum need to sign something in Philippines Empassy, I meant to come with her unless I got a job so my brother will but my mum change mind and bring my brother as he good with computer and things. So I had a house with my cats and had KFC, would of love a Donner Kebab. And more time on The Sims 4.

Low

Stuggling in Job Searching,

Miss out on a job,

 Almost got interview but they say I didn’t confirm it on text, try ro text them after nothing until next day but next day confirm I was unable to come.

Home Problem,

 My brother was being an ass, and get frustrated from mum. 

Microsoft & Xbox,

 So much angry Microsoft buy Activision, mean games may not be in Xbox. They are taking the piss, worse activision own Spyro games. It pissed me off and these Xbox bumboys taken the piss on internet. Feel sorry for my fellow Playstation players. Hopefully games from Activision wouldn’t stop going to Playstation, cos they can’t do that and shame on Activision and next Microsoft may buy another game company to destory competitons.

Kurt Zouma, & his butt kisser (West Ham fan who caller in TalkRadio & racism getting into it.

 He been abusing cats and his brother flim and they laughing with kids  while slaping, kicking and chasing the cats. Then there racism getting into this. West Ham is letting him play and on Talkradio a West Ham fan defending him and saying negetitve toward Manchester United. 

Cat Foundartion not adding Russian Cats

 I know it bad going on with Russians invading Ukranie, but don’t have a go at Cats and people who don’t want don’t want everything to do with it.

Russia invade Ukranie

Afgan now Ukranie, this because Biden in the White House, if Trump still in the WHite House this won’ t happen. Why do Russian want Ukranie? This is b******. ANd bring hated toward Russian and people of country that support Russia. It also make me worried that Russia may invade UK if they want. But surly won’t come to that, I know there bad people in Ukranie but no reason to invade.

Problem in Spyro Fansite