#thecontinuumconcept

🇵🇱 Niedawno skończona lektura "W głębi kontinuum" Jean Liedloff. Polecam wszystkim rodzicom 😍 Na zdjęciach przykładowe fragmenty. Z Mają rodzicielstwo bliskości zaczęło się nieco później. I chyba na czas bo udało mi się wychować mega kochaną, samodzielną dziewczynkę, z którą łatwo się dogadać (oczywiście tym z właściwym podejściem 😋). Z nowym maluszkiem będzie od urodzenia. Ta książka potwierdza że podążanie za swoim instynktem to priorytet. Nikt inny nie ma racji tylko mama. Jestem gotowa na walkę z częścią rodziny, która próbuje coś narzucić 😜 Wszystko w czym kiedyś tam posłuchałam "dobrych" rad było złe. 🇬🇧 A book I have finished quite recently: "The Continuum Concept" Jean Liedloff. I recommend it to all parents. I wasn't ideal mum for Maja at the very beginning. I learned about attachment parenting later and good for us because I have managed to raise a really cute, independent girl. It's easy to persuade her into anything if you have rational arguments and do not force anything. With the new baby I am going to follow my instincts from birth. This is a priority. Nobody is right but mum. I'm ready for a fight with these members of my family who want me to act against my instincts 😜 All "good" pieces of advice I have ever followed were wrong. #wgłębikontinuum #thecontinuumconcept #jeanliedloff #rodzicielstwobliskosci #attachmentparenting #parenting #rodzicielstwo #rodzina #family #dlarodzicow #forparents #polecanaksiążka #recommendedreading #wychowanie #upbringing #baby #dziecko #teachyourbaby #noworodek #newborn #motherhood #macierzyństwo #instynktmacierzyński #maternalinstincts https://www.instagram.com/p/B9urkVDJkbH/?igshid=9ypsi9sne4g

« Jean Liedloff propose d’expliquer en partie la haine de soi et des autres par le fait d’avoir été privé d’une phase dans les bras pendant les premiers mois de la vie, par le fait de ne pas avoir reçu de réponses à des besoins fondamentaux et de ne pas avoir été considéré comme « bon » pendant l’enfance. La haine de soi (je suis méchant, je suis mauvais, j’ai besoin d’être corrigé, je ne suis pas capable d’être sage, je suis inconscient) serait la cause principale de la haine irrationnelle des autres. » 🤔 Cette phrase m’a vraiment interpelé quand je l’ai relue hier, alors j’ai pris mon dimanche pour l’illuster. 🙏🏼 Elle est issue de l’excellent article du blog Apprendre à Éduquer, qui traite du nom moins excellent ouvrage de Jean Liedloff « Le concept du continuum ». 📖 Ce livre très inspirant est à mettre entre toutes les mains des futurs parents. 🥰 . . . Pour lire l’article en entier, voir le lien en bio. #conceptducontinuum #thecontinuumconcept #jeanliedloff #parentalite #developpementperso #saimersoimeme #illustratrice #reflet #miroir #procreate #amphigary https://www.instagram.com/p/Btt1BLTFpV-/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=b4svpetpoc8t

The heart of my heart 😍😍😍 #theconsciousparent #thecontinuumconcept #ppd #ittakesavillage #postpartum #ppp #postpartumdepression #sadmama #strugglingmama #momswhohurt #momswhofeel #empoweringParenthood #postpartumanxiety #ppa #loveyourself #theartofslowliving #wildandfree #littleandbrave #oureverydaymoments #fiercelittleones #childhoodunplugged #letthembelittle #ThoughtfulJane #EmmelineJane #theCreatorClass #gratefulmama #motherhoodbliss #motherhoodrising #theartofmotherhood

Ok I had to do this when I saw my friend Kesley do it. I have barely any photos from my senior year but this one is kind of the trend... awkward super staged and not in a good way teenage angst... vs pure #authenticliving and happy fulfillment in the bliss of #rawmotherhood. I'm SUCH a better person now... thank heavens!!! I have definitely got a ways to go but I'm so much further along... hell I've actually started!!! Almost 30 but I'm finally living the life I've always wanted. #thenandnow #throwwaybackwednesday #theconsciousparent #thecontinuumconcept #ppd #ittakesavillage #postpartum #ppp #postpartumdepression #strugglingmama #momswhohurt #momswhofeel #empoweringParenthood #postpartumanxiety #ppa #loveyourself #theartofslowliving #gratefulmama #motherhoodbliss #motherhoodrising #theartofmotherhood (at Fairfield, Iowa)

Over the last couple months, Emmy has been maturing really quick... she is really starting to understand how to help and when playing is the most possible fun (most of the time)... she's gotten more and more excited about seeing papa when he gets home and getting to cuddle with him and play together. It's an insanely humbling experience. While the last 18 months has been spiritually, physically, and emotionally draining, I'm still not ready for her to be "free" of me. I'm overwhelmed with gratitude and wonder when she squeaks squeals and chases her papa and yodel all over the house. And even though though I get frustrated when I haven't taken a minute all day to rejuvenate or appreciate myself, a part of my hearts tugs and grieves for that little baby who always wanted only mama. It's been a serious honor and pleasure watching this little beautiful soul and precious lady grow up and into herself 😭😭🙏🏾🙏🏾😊💖 I'm lucky to know you, #EmmelineJane, and don't forget your #playfulheart. Your joyful spirit will thank you for remembering to notice your many many beautiful lights💖💪🏾✨🌸💯 #theconsciousparent #thecontinuumconcept #ppd #ittakesavillage #postpartum #ppp #postpartumdepression #sadmama #strugglingmama #momswhohurt #momswhofeel #empoweringParenthood #postpartumanxiety #ppa #loveyourself #theartofslowliving #wildandfree #littleandbrave #oureverydaymoments #fiercelittleones #childhoodunplugged #letthembelittle #ThoughtfulJane #EmmelineJane #theCreatorClass #gratefulmama #motherhoodbliss #motherhoodrising #theartofmotherhood (at Fairfield, Iowa)

She's growing up right before my eyes just like you all said 😭😭😭 what do I do?????? Loving this beautiful soul so so much... asleep at 8:00pm 😳😳😳💤💤💤😴😴😴 me too I hope!!! 😍😍😍 #theconsciousparent #thecontinuumconcept #ppd #ittakesavillage #postpartum #ppp #postpartumdepression #sadmama #strugglingmama #momswhohurt #momswhofeel #empoweringParenthood #postpartumanxiety #ppa #loveyourself #theartofslowliving #wildandfree #littleandbrave #oureverydaymoments #fiercelittleones #childhoodunplugged #letthembelittle #ThoughtfulJane #EmmelinJsne #theCreatorClass #gratefulmama #motherhoodbliss #motherhoodrising #theartofmotherhood (at Fairfield, Iowa)

Emmy finally got to open the rest of her presents yesterday once we finished moving. Thanks to @loveatfirstbark we were actually able to get everything loaded, moved, and up to the new apartment! We are lucky to know you guys 😍😍 . . My lessons lately are about discretion, and being confident in that which I do know. So far, what I know, is that I can never know everything, and so I must always assume I know very little in relative comparison to the complete picture. Considering how drastically root causes and experiences can vary based on perspective, I think it's safe to say we know an infinitesimally small amount about anything, really. So whenever something suggest exclusion as a tool or as an end, I like to question that. It seems too dogmatic to me to reject an entire belief system, culture, or any collective simply because we don't like a particularly prominent (to us) part of it. I think inclusion is the ultimate path to true understanding and honest and virtuous empathy and connection. . . . Be still my heart, your forest shakes. I can hear them tremble as your will quakes. In your eyes, my soul is on fire And in ever sigh, my heart's deepest desires. Where would I be without you? What hollow, self-fulfilling prophecy would I lose myself in over time. Where would my bursts and streaks of accounted-for-joys have landed my soul in search of my own two feet? In stillness, and in solitude, I cling to you, my strength renewed. And no matter where or what we both pursue, my heart will always know, because of you, that I have power in powerlessness, and that I have hope in despair: that I have accomplishment of will in pointlessness and achievement of abundance in my infinite compassion and care. . . . #theconsciousparent #thecontinuumconcept #changeyourlife #ittakesavillage #postpartum #loveyourself #theartofslowliving #motherhoodrising #theartofbeingamother #authenticity #EmmelineJane #midwest #iowa #fairfieldia #iowababy #midwestbaby #iowababy #wildandfree #littleandbrave #oureverydaymoments #fiercelittleones #childhoodunplugged #letthembelittle (at Fairfield, Iowa)

Beautiful gems from the beginning. Loving this being wholly. . . . Oh my god. I was seriously writing this stream of conscious-style this am, trying to console so many people who shared in this group having ppd, or depression, etc. I now know there are 2 motivating factors in lower frequency beings - rules and incentive. If you are higher frequency you will follow the rules because it's respectful etc. but lower frequency beings do it because of fear, they feel trapped. Incentive is silly, for high frequency beings. It's a nice bonus but living with integrity and following our bliss is all the reward/incentive higher frequency beings crave/need. But lower frequency beings love incentive. Consume, consume, consume - anything to make me feel better/make money/feel worthy/feel loved/etc. Sorry. Just realized that post was a giant sale/pyramid scheme n I'm pissed. How do the admins not know. Guess they haven't seen the hundreds of comments/victims of advertising yet. Have integrity for you - no one else. It'll make your life better and it'll make your kids honest and kind too. . . . (continued in comments and next few posts) . . . #theconsciousparent #thecontinuumconcept #ppd #ittakesavillage #postpartum #ppp #postpartumdepression #sadmama #strugglingmama #momswhohurt #momswhofeel #empoweringParenthood #postpartumanxiety #ppa #loveyourself #theartofslowliving #wildandfree #littleandbrave #oureverydaymoments #fiercelittleones #childhoodunplugged #letthembelittle #ThoughtfulJane #theCreatorClass #gratefulmama #motherhoodbliss (at Fairfield, Iowa)