The last 2 days as a Krashlyn fan have been huge.
I remember when I became a fan of soccer and the first player I was drawn to was Ashlyn. Naturally ofcourse I was also drawn to Ali and her dedication to Washington Spirit at the time. I remember watching my first women's soccer game on YouTube at night. It was the NWSL championship 2015. Washington lost to the flash and i was so devastated I remember Ali Crying. That moment I realized that little bean and her little bun had my heart. I wanted to see her and the team win.
That's how slowly the shipping started and then the anger started when Ali was transfered to Orlando but at the same time I believed that Krashlyn was real and thought that it's a good thing. Little did I realize in that moment that Orlando Pride would become my baby's and that Ali and Ash would change my life and how I look at life. At the time they hid their relationship and I was only out to my group of friends but I was not comfortable with being gay.
I remember Ali blocking people when people just mentioned the word Krashlyn. I laugh looking back at it really. She grew. And as she grew, I also started growing. Now looking at it I realize I was drawn to her because I knew deep down that she was struggling with her sexuality. So it somehow helped me grow into the woman that I am today.
On the other hand Ashlyn thought me a lot about being herself and not being scared to be yourself. She is and has been an idol to me and has showed me to be me and to not hide it. Her confidence has given me the confidence that I needed and gives me the confidence that I still need. She, the same as Ali, has helped me to become the person I am today.
This is also precisely why I call these two my second mothers.
Yesterday when the pictures and videos of their wedding started coming in I really started crying. I was wheeping my eyes out but not because I was sad. It was because I was so happy for them and how far they had come as a couple. About how open they are now and how unapologetically they love eacother.
Their love and them as individuals has helped so many young girls who are growing up and coming to terms with their sexuality.
And that is why I truly believe it was the Royal Wedding yesterday. The first LGBTQ+ couple who play for the same soccer teams got married on the 28th of December 2019. Mark the date because that day has made history for same sex soccer couples!
And to end this as cheesy as possible I will say that as I continue to grow I will always keep supporting these two and I will always be SO FUCKING GRATEFUL for what they have thought me.