I just wanted to say that even if you can reclaim the slur (I don't know if you can say it or not but I'm gonna assume good faith), it shouldn't be used as an insult since otherwise, the purpose of reclaiming it is lost and it just enforces what makes the slur bad /gen

even then though, apparently there has been some debates about if the r-slur shouldn't be used by autistic individuals or even at all but rather intellectually disabled individuals or something like that, of which I currently haven't exactly formed my stance on it so do your own research on that

Hello, after that argument one of my friend's told me about that I shouldn't use slur as insult beacuse it wasn't "a good idea" (exact reason why you said). I do not really use slurs but I was mad at that moment. That was the only time I think i've used it. It wasn't a good day for me already and I just took from semoene after they said "it's okay to write necrophilia around children places beacuse they dont know meaning"

And I do enjoy being "educated" if you're gonna be nice and not bigoted (like saying kids can consent bs I will not listen your ass)

I'm so sorry if I made you uncomfortable or sounded like asshole. Trust me I'm not like this normally