Hii, me again! How would the boys who deal with symptoms of chronic illness feel about a S/O who tries to pamper/take care of them in anyway they can in an attempt to lessen their pain? Have a good rest of your day/night and make sure to take care of yourself! (ā ļ½”ā ļ½„ā Ļā ļ½„ā ļ½”ā )ā ļ¾ā ā”
Hi! š I will!
ErrorĀ is quite happy to let you do most of the āheavy liftingā so to speak. Heās got a few things heāsĀ reallyĀ stubborn about doing himself and for you, but if you want to pamper him, heās all for it!
ShatteredĀ is mostly confused and frustrated. Heās used to being able to do everything himself so he hates struggling, but he does appreciate the pampered life too. Very mixed emotions to deal with.
GenoĀ is annoyed but also quietly thankful. Heās a workaholic with a bad attitude, but doing everything is so exhausting that he canāt help but beĀ relievedĀ to have some of the weight off his shoulders.
PassiveĀ is apologetic. He feels like a burden most of the time and needs to be frequently reminded that youāre doing this because you love him, not because youāre feeling guilty or burdened by him.
TemplateĀ doesnāt really know how to handle it. Heās developed a whole system to deal with (mostly) everything himself, but youāre still taking care of him and even pampering him? Itās surprisingly nice to be able to not have to doĀ everythingĀ for once.Ā
BlueberrorĀ does not know how to stop working, so your intervention is needed, if not always appreciated. On a whole, he does love being able to focus his attention on other things that require less pain and stress, but heās also stuck in the mental idea that he has to do everything himself all the time.
