Whats up buddy. I need your opinion on something. I have an Oc that I paired with Gaara and I'd like your opinion on how their relationship starts and grows. Dose this work for gaara. Their relationship starts off rocky during the chunin Exam but then during shippuden they become good friends and then after the 4th shinobe war. They realize that they love each other and they officially become a couple after the 4th war during the time period of "the last" and Hinata and Naruto's wedding..
Ah Iām gonna be honest here, I think that youād have a MUCH easier time if you started their relationship later on.Ā It is impossible for me to imagine Gaara being in a relationship or even a friendship during the Chunin Exams Arc.Ā Even if he were in one, it would not resemble a healthy relationship/friendship at all.Ā Just look at the way he strikes fear into everyone around him: even his own siblings are absolutely terrified of him.Ā Even if your OC is the type to sympathize and want to protect and better people, I donāt see Gaara wanting to open up to them at this stage in life.
I could see them getting closer and becoming friends during Shippuden.Ā A romance with GaaraĀ will be a very slow development as Gaara struggles with forming relationships after how sheltered he was from others in his childhood.Ā I do not think it is wise to start forming a relationship during Shippuden/the 4th War either, as during this time, Gaara had just become Kazekage and heās very set on changing a lot of things with the village and himself.
I think for the most believable relationship development, I would start the romance after the 4th War (the Last era) or even in Gaaraās adulthood.Ā Take it slow, Gaara wants to be able to trust himself around the person just as much as he needs to be able to trust them.
If you need further help, we have a pairing guide for Gaara here!
-Kells














