How are you a lesbian but in your last lives you were bi? I’m not trying to be rude (not sure how to word this better either, sorry), I just don’t understand how that works.
As Cat, definitely thought I was a lesbian then, too, until I didn't. And sometimes, you pick the sexuality label that fits the best because people and their preferences I've found don't tend to fit well into rigid boxes. We Live In A Society, feelings and preferences absolutely came before having to intricately label everything to make it Palatable for Society.
You're not always the exact same person in past lives. In fact, more often than not (typically 99% of the time), you're going to reincarnate into a totally different person. I'm definitely a weird situation, but outside of myself, in beliefs that include reincarnation, you're reincarnated as someone entirely different. If I was reincarnated as a man, I wouldn't call myself a lesbian, would I?
Same idea tends to go for Kin beliefs - I AM actually kin with male characters, too, I just don't talk about other kin lives usually because Cat tends to overshadow most lmao. But if I'm kin with a male character who is canonically gay, I'm not going to call myself in this life, mlm.
