#synastry interpretation

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💗 Mars conjunct Ascendant in Synastry works better if you want Mars person to be your personal trainer, but it's much harder in a romantic relationship. In this aspect, I would argue Mars person is the one who feels it more than the Ascendant person. However, Mars person can be also unusually bossy, domineering and controlling, which can result in Ascendant person not feeling comfortable enough.

💗 In Mars conjunct Ascendant, Mars person gets more physically dependent on Ascendant person and more attached. Like if Ascendant person is out of reach and can't be there physically with Mars person, then Mars person experiences withdrawal symptoms. Mars person get very needy and dependent on Ascendent person to hug them, be there physically with them.

💗 There is just something about Chiron in the other's 1st house Synastry. Usually either Chiron Person or the 1st house person have something self-conscious about their physical appearance. I have seen crooked teeth, it can be either a beauty mark, crooked nose etc. There is a vulnerable point that makes them self-conscious. One of you could have also experienced bullying in early life.

💗 It's underrated how with 3rd house Uranus or Pluto Synastry, you can start a business together. Or have a business idea that helps the community or neighbourhood.

💗 Pluto conjuncts the other's Ascendant is often described negatively. But Pluto person can also help you gain self-awareness or profound self-control. You feel like you could take on any project when you have them in life. You could have a big life change or your life take a direction you never thought it would. You may go back to school, continue your education and get another degree, move to a foreign country.

💗 In Saturn in the 8th house Synastry, 8th house person usually has the same escapistic tendencies or addictions like their father. Saturn person might help them kick that habit. For example, Saturn person can help the 8th house person quit smoking.

💗 With the Venus in the other's 12th house Synastry, 12th house person can easily check out when things get too real in a relationship. Like if the duties of the connection, family, children become too much, they might escape into fantasy, be prone to substance overuse or develop secret crushes.

💗 With Moon in the other's 8th house Synastry, Moon person might struggle with their own emotions and truly being in their feelings. But with the 8th house person that comes naturally. You find easier to be in your feelings with them. Moon person may also dislike being touched, like hugged, but not by 8th house person.

💗 In Mars in the other's 8th house Synastry, 8th house person may lose their temper fast. The Mars person makes 8th house person mad. And 8th house person might not even try to control their temper or anger around them. 8th house person would rebel against Mars person's attempt to control them or restrict them.

💗 With Moon Pluto aspects in Synastry, if you get married or live together, both can act quite controlling towards the other. Like one day Pluto person is more controlling, the next day is Moon person. And strangely enough, even after divorce or not living together anymore, this person may want to control you in small ways, because they feel the connection is too out of control.

💗 With Uranus in the 3rd house Synastry, you may find this person is hard to contact. You may also meet their siblings or friends very suddenly in an unpredictable manner. You may also be more clumsy with them. You may talk faster around them.

💗 In Pluto in the other's 3rd house person Synastry, Pluto person may think a lot about 3rd house person. Pluto person may also force 3rd house person to experience new things. 3rd house person's parents can also obsess over Pluto person, they want a part of them for themselves too. Their parents can also finds you attractive lol.

Along with this, you can obsess over each other's social media or even a story at the same time! Also, it's a huge teacher student dynamic in this Synastry.

💗 I notice the most with Sun in the 12th house Synastry that 12th house person might not believe the Sun person to like them. They keep searching for reasons or explantion or proof. So 12th house person seeks validation from the Sun and wants to know why the Sun person likes them.

💗 Jupiter in the other's 5th house Synastry can indicate that Jupiter person actually likes if the 5th house person gains weight.

💗 With Mercury, Venus or Sun in the 12th house Synastry, you may feel like you want to know each other forever. You may always find a way to be in each other's life. 12th house person cheers the planet person on, while planet person is usually the one who struggles, but overcomes the obstacles in the end.

💗 Moon in the other's 7th house Synastry is really nice. Moon person can be the ideal partner emotionally for 7th house person. But if you don't want to be in a 50/50 relationship, then this is not the relationship for you.

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VERTEX CONJUNCT SOUTH NODE IN SYNASTRY

you could feel like you already know them

the meeting even for the first time felt very fated, like you were meant to meet

they remind you of someone from your past, childhood, from the time you were growing up, from hometown, your family, siblings, relatives, a childhood friend

you might transform your life drastically after meeting them, but it could be big inner changes as well

you feel like they are holding you back

probably some karma to be resolved as well

He has his sun in my 10th house, moon in my 6th, Venus in my 9th (it’s also my sun sign) and mars in my 10th. I have my sun in his 9th (it’s also my Venus sign) my moon in his 1st, my Venus in his 10th and my mars in his 1st.

I also find it interesting that his sun is my Venus and vice versa. Is the attraction just one sided or is there some hope in the future if I come clean?

Oh baby you will GROW!

That Sun in your 10th house, oh you surely will mature, become more responsible, dedicated, stable, consistent, reliable. It will be like a "grow up" wake up call for you.

Their Moon in your 6th: well, be mindful of this one. It's really caring energy. You genuinely care about their physical and mental wellbeing and that they feel well on a daily basis. BUT as a 6th house person KNOW that you are NOT their servant, that you don't have to provide for their every wish, need or whim. Beware, that they need to take care of YOU in return or from time to time as well. It's reciprocal energy, so never forget that. Also don't allow them to influence negatively your daily routine, schedule. You could get moody, if you don't receive their message everyday or in 2-3 days, like your mood might actually fluctuate, because of that and this will influence your work performance or what you want to achieve on a daily basis and your productivity.

Venus in your 9th house: it tells me there is possibly an age difference? Probably not too big, I would say max 2-3 years. Ahh this one is pretty neutral. You two are quite cerebral with each other, you love to talk to each other and explore each other's mind, you like to share stories and you love to hear them talk. Very possibly you could have a very different upbringing, come from various background, you are not from the same city. Anyhow, there IS some small cultural difference, even if it's just how your pronounce certain words

Your Sun in his 9th house: he will view this connection with you as a lesson as growth, this tells me your Sun signs are probably not the same element, like one is fire and the other is earth or one is water and the other is fire Sun sign or something like that. Yeah, he will be very optimistic about this connection with you, you probably also have more dominant Mars sign than him (like you could be a Scorpio Mars and this person is a Libra or Virgo Mars or something like that)

Your Moon in his 1st house: well, this is just very beneficial overlay for any kind of connection really, it doesn't always indicate just romantic partnerships, it's not solely reserved for that, it's definitely found in great, good friendships where there is mutual understanding. However, I always feel with this placement, that this overlay is tougher on 1st house person. Or 1st house person is more affected is how I see it. Because the Moon person will make your confidence level, your ego, pride, self esteem blurred and becuase of them it will be fluctuating. But the Moon person finds great solace in 1st house, they will confide in you, talk about their emotional world more openly and in a comfortable manner. Moon will always get a hug from you. You could have the same Moon signs or even your or their Moon conjunct your or their Ascendant. This is just great understanding. Though, you tend to pick up their emotions and start feeling them as your own as a house person. If they are in a bad mood, you will also start thinking "am I in a bad mood?"

your Venus in his 10th house: you will love being seen with him and vice versa. Maybe you would insist that he posts you on social media, like if he is not willing to do that, you could think that your love, relationship is not real. With this overlay I see a lot of posting of each other's images on social media accounts. This person can introduce you to their parents

your Mars in his 1st house: yeah well so this is quite something, because sometimes this works better if Mars is man and the 1st house woman. So again, I kind of think you will be the more dominant in the connection or the one who lead in this relationship. You could also be the one who initiates the connection to go one step further or that you change the dynamic (from friendship to partnership). You could also make some decision for him (as for example what he orders in restaurant). There can be uplifting energy, you motivate each other to do better, could also be a bit of a friendly competition. You will find this person HOT. How they dress, their mannerisms. Probably there was physical, sexual tension present at the first, initial meeting.

Well about Sun Venus conjunctions and these connections, from my experiences it really depends in which way it goes. If this is great, like you could be Libra, Taurus Rising and totally love these overlays. But in some cases, this creates a superficial connection, one that is based on attractivness and how you find the other so physically attractive. It can also be that you stick together, because you feel like you look good together. In positive cases it can also be that you share similar values and that you work good as a team. You could also feel wealthier together, more abundant or like you together have more money or more talents. So with this Sun Venus conjunction it can really go either or.

I really can predict if it's reciprocal or mutual. But you can take these energies into account (like I mentioned about you being Mars and them 1st house), so you can be open about your feelings or make a step forward. I feel they won't be mean about it in any case you decide to share you feelings. Even if they don't share your feelings, I feel this person will be cool, kind about it.

But we are all human at the end of the day, so I think astrology can only tell you so far. But then further you just have to make proactively your own life experiences and decisions. :)

Thank you so much for leaving such a lovely feedback! <3

Send you all the love you need at this time. And also remember that things can go right too and it can all turn out alright. And in case of rejection, it's just redirection. Was probably just not your person.

I any case you will find your person, so don't rush or push it too much.

Him's Jupiter in Her's 12 house

He positively influences your dreams and hopes. You might often dream about him. Or you see some weird synchronicities in regards to him. He might subconsciously make you more happy and you become more optimistic about your own life. You have a lot of unconditional love for each other. Your love feels like that from fairytales. You might share love of movies, art, music and film. One of you or both could know how to play an instrument. Or you just love listening music together or send music suggestions to each other. You might like to meet in private as well.

Her's Saturn in Him's 12 house

He might sometimes feel like you don’t support his dreams enough, or that you are too critical of them. Is this a secret relationship? Or a very private one?

Him's Saturn in Her's 11 house

He might be quite critical of your friends, hope and dreams for the future. Or one of you could “limit” the other and their friends or who he hangs out with. Or he might not particularly be fond of your friends.

Her's Uranus in Him's 8 house

He probably has fallen fast for you. It was very sudden and unexpected. You might have not been even his “type”. But he felt magnetically attracted to you. Like you were so unusual, unique and one of a kind, that he immediately felt close to you. You probably establish a deep trusted bond early on. Or you talked about deep topics, taboo topics, even death very early on. This indicates strong, magnetic, alluring physical attraction. He might think you have an “electric” touch. Or that there is something special about your touch.

Him's Uranus in Her's 7 house

When you met him, it instantly felt like he was the one, the ideal partner. He felt unreal. Until you met him, you were not sure of true love or whether your ideal partner even exists somewhere out there.

Her's Neptune in Him's 7 house