Many students and individuals tend to focus more on what went wrong instead of recognizing what went right.

There are a lot of situations that can break you, situations that will leave you empty. You might be wondering why things happen, and it is unbearable to understand these reasons, that sometimes would just leave you shaking your head to an answer less question. But in all compromised situation, there are still reasons to dive into the bright side of life.

 1.  Everything is too late to those who rushed things

Everyone has their own deadlines, it’s frustrating that you cant attain this goals. Because of these deadlines, anxious thoughts will block the good juice in your head, worrying that everything is too late because everyone kept on moving. It’s been a common saying to take things slowly, someone might take over or someone might be moving faster. But it doesn’t mean you have to stop. Those who are at the back of the line would have plenty of time to realize, understand and appreciate the things that the vast can not see.

2. Everything has it’s reasons why

According to Jeremiah 29:11, “God has a perfect plan for all of us, plans to prosper and not to harm us, plans to give us hope and a bright future”. This passage explains that He has plans for us, making reasons for us to believe, and to start on believing that “All things are possible”. I know, we might be skeptic about knowing the real answer to our unseemed and unanswerable questions of why these and that. I think this is the hardest thing to do but the most uplifting thing to do as well. It’s having faith.

3. Everything is beautiful

Our brain has the ability to control everything that define us. Ability to think and to believe that what we see is real, and to feel the expression we ought to feel. Everything is indeed beautiful beyond any comparison, it just takes a leap of faith. (like i said, #2 is the hardest thing to do) Faith, is the substance of things we hoped for, the evidence of things not seen. We tend to deprive in looking at things positively, because we ordered ourselves not too. Usually it’s all in the head, so if, it can make us feel bad, why can’t we order it to make us feel good?

 4. You are wonderfully created

Everything that makes you is beautiful even your flaws and your quirks. You tend to perceive yourself based on what other looked at you. Going deeper, anyone can say say anything to you. It can always hurt you or make you, but its always a choice for you to make. I guess its a mature thing to do, its to re-define yourself, and take in-charge of it. 

5.  All your hard work is with in the reach of success

We’ve been doubtful in almost all of the situations, that sometimes our hard work doesn’t pay off. But like any product, it goes in various testing. We can never know our capabilities and capacity until are not tested.We wont experience things that we aren’t capable of withstanding. Like in #1, we don’t have to rush things, taking in this “suffering” can take us to a next level. Maybe, it’s a test of perseverance.

6. Accept that you have done something wrong

We hold grudge to ourselves because we tend to deny the things that we did wrong. As an end result, we’d brag others about what we are experiencing, making less of ourselves and lowering ourselves beyond the great things we achieved. It takes courage to accept being wrong, it will result in humbling ourselves.

7. You are brilliant