#spouse tag

"see look, they're married again"

and i don't mean that on a surface level. i don't mean that because we vote for the same people, that resolves anything between us. but political beliefs are beliefs about the world, and people, and how we should treat each other, and how can that NOT factor into your personal relationships?

our belief that people deserve respect and autonomy means that we respect each other and encourage the other's autonomy. our belief in the abolition of police and prisons means that we don't punish each other for messing up, and we often use the tools we've learned in deescalation trainings during disagreements. our belief in disability justice means we make space for each other's limitations and boundaries. like. it's all connected. the personal is political, but the political is also inherently personal.

Only because you asked so nicely 😈

Remus being worshipped

Sirius would show his love through devotion. He would spend hours softly kissing each of Remus’ scars while telling him how pretty he is. Sirius sees Remus’ scars as not only an extension of the one he loves but also a physical reminder of how Remus protected everyone from himself for so many years. His entire goal in life is to show Remus that he doesn’t have to rely only on himself anymore. He’s allowed to feel handsome and not be afraid of showing his own skin to the world.

I feel like part of the reason Remus wears sweaters so much is because he’s worried people will judge him for his scars. Sirius knows this and actively worships Remus’ body as often as he’s allowed. Sometimes it’s his scars, sometimes it’s his freckles, and sometimes it’s his dick.

Remus worshipping Sirius

Remus shows his love through marks. He loves to suck, lick, and bite every piece of Sirius and will leave marks on him whenever he can. He loves holding Sirius so tight while fucking him that his fingertips leave bruises. He loves to praise Sirius while fucking into him hard and fast. Saying things like “fuck baby your waist could kill” and “I would die happily between your thighs”. His all time favorite though is putting Sirius in Shibari. With each pass of the rope he leaves soft kisses and with each knot he gently bites. It gives him the time and space to truly appreciate Sirius for all he is. They both love when Remus ties Sirius up on the loop in their room and leaves him hanging by the ropes alone. For Sirius, it’s a sign of his trust in Remus and for Remus it makes Sirius into living art. By the end, Sirius’ head is all floaty and his eyes are clouded over. All he wants is to be with his moony and Remus is more than happy to provide him with that. Sirius is left covered is marks from the rope and that’s when Remus will lay him out gently and kiss every singly mark on his body, giving him the special attention he deserves.