#solverigender

flag id: two square flags made up of 4 squares, each one smaller than the rest and centered within the flag. the left flag's squares, from outer/biggest to inner/smallest, are pinkish-red, light grey, light yellow, white, and medium dark sky blue. the right flag's squares, from outer/biggest to inner/smallest, are indigo, light grey, very light blue, white, and faded orangish-red. end id.

banner id: a 1600x200 teal banner with the words ‘please read my dni before interacting. those on my / dni may still use my terms, so do not recoin them.’ in large white text in the center. the text takes up two lines, split at the slash. end id.

emipixelboy | emipixelgirl

emipixelboy/solveripixelboy: having a loose or weak connection to pixelboyhood, but not actually being a pixelboy

emipixelgirl/solveripixelgirl: having a loose or weak connection to pixelgirlhood, but not actually being a pixelgirl

[pt: emipixelboy/solveripixelboy: having a loose or weak connection to pixelboyhood, but not actually being a pixelboy

emipixelgirl/solveripixelgirl: having a loose or weak connection to pixelgirlhood, but not actually being a pixelgirl. end pt]

anon asked for emipixelboy and i figured i'd coin a pixelgirl counterpart! these use colors from the emigender/solverigender flag and colors from and the format of the pixelboy/pixelgirl flags. i added warm colors to the emipixelboy flag and cool colors from the emipixelgirl flag to contrast the boy/girl 'pixels'.

I sorta want it to be animal related but I'm not sure how

I don't want it to be related to feminine things in any way unless it's fantasy cause I don't like being related to feminine shit most of the time

So like more masculine/gender neutral

Cervusgender: A gender encompassing neutral animal energy.

Buckgender: A gender encompassing masculine animal energy.

Now we need to know what would be called the neumasc version of those faunagenders; there doesn’t seem to be a term for experiencing femininity specifically in fanciful conditions, unless we combine: condigender, fantagender, and -fem(inine)(i-)(me). Altegender and emigender(solverigender) are applicable. Let me see if I can define that right:

Condifantafem(inine)/femicondifantagender/condifantafemme: A gender that is only felt under fantasy-related circumstances.

Altefantafem(me)/femialtefantefantagender/altefantafeminine: Someone who’s gender feels like it is feminine, but as though it’s related to fantasy in a parallel dimension, on a different plane, in a mirror universe, or just in an alternate existence, that is related to fantasy; it is a xenogender that feels feminine as though it’s in a parallel dimension, on a different plane, in a mirror universe, or just in an alternate existence, related to fantasy.

Emifeminine/femiemigender/emifemme/emifem(gender) or solverifem(gender)/solverifemme/solverifeminine/femisolverigender: to have a gender that is very loosely feminine; having a loose or weak connection to femininity or its certain qualities, but not actually being feminine.

I hope these are okay anon! I took some inspiration from the trans flag but I thought they came out looking nice!

it’s worth mentioning that, you can just be a feminine man? a man with feminine qualities, or a connection to femininity? you don’t have to have a specific, separate gender label for that. but, that being said, here are some labels you might find helpful:

you mentioned spirituality, so maybe deamasculine?

Deaboy / Deamasculine: For masculine-identified or partially masculine-identified people that still feel a connection to feminine energy due to their spirituality. Intended for pagans but totally okay for anyone who practices goddess worship or feminine energy worship of any kind (dea means goddess in Latin).

these could also work:

Nonpuella or Nonera: Someone who is not female at all in any way, shape, or form, but feels a strong connection to femininity within their gender. (Nonpuella is for younger people, and nonera is for older people, in the same way that girl is for younger people and woman is for older people).

Girlprox / Girlproximal, which I’ll just link to the definition post because it’s pretty long and complicated. also see this other post by the coiner before you use it!

Eldrigender:

1) A gender (or possible lack thereof) which is dark, nebulous, and ultimately unknowable. (Derived from “eldritch”) 2) A synonym for Archaicgender

Emigender or Solverigender: Having a loose or weak connection to a gender or certain qualities, but not actually being that gender. Can be combined with relevant genders.

Enigender: A gender that you cannot describe accurately with any words. However, certain pictures/audio/video/etc. can describe it just fine. Basically anything that’s not written or spoken word can describe enigender. It's a really fluid gender that could be described differently from person to person. The coiner hasn't worked out if this can branch out to be -boy and -girl genders, but if so, it'd be a gender indescribable with words aside from the fact that it feels vaguely masculine/feminine. Demi- could also work with it, meaning a gender partially indescribable with words. Relates to the word enigma and the feelings it represents.

Zeogender: When your gender fluctuates massively during a storm—based on Zeus, the king and god of lightning.

Wolandgender: A gender which is experienced only as a response to chronic pain or disability, or a gender experience which is changed, heightened or suppressed due to the experience of chronic pain or disability (intended primarily for use by chronically ill or disabled candidates, but could of course be used by candidates temporarily finding their gender experience altered due to pain).

Worldgender: Having multiple genders with such complex relationships and subgenders that it feels like the genders make up an entire world or planet together, each gender affecting the biomes and other features of this world/planet.

Worlgender or Homgender: A gender that feels connected to earth and its nature. See also: Biogender

[Full list of terms are in the google docs if you don’t want to wait for the next posts]

[Link for A-K] and [Link for L-Z] and [Link for text only]

TW: genital/chest mention. hi, this is the anon who said their gender feels like its behind a wall, i have more info which may help. i dont dislike my chest, but i wish it was flat. i dont want any genitals either, id rather it be featureless. i dont feel feminine-i dont hate presenting that way, id just rather be masc. i dont think my gender(s) changes, maybe its like a mix of different genders? i just dont know what they are. sorry if this is too much info or im clogging the inbox! thank you!!

I’ll do best working with what you’ve given me. :)

So let’s see… so you know you definitely have a gender. So you’re not agender. But it feels like its behind a wall and kind of weak. For these first feelings you’ve described, there are a few terms that may help:

Wallgender: when you have a gender that is (sometimes) separated or detached from other genders. For example, being a wallgirl would mean you’re a girl, but you don’t understand the idea of other genders because you don’t even know what they are. It can also be fluid if your gender “tunnels” beneath the “walls”, or it can be demigender if the “wall” is glass-like or “has windows”.

Caligogender: On the agender spectrum, defined as feeling gender that is very weak or vague, almost nonexistent, like a vapor, fog, or mist.

Emigender/Solverigender: Having a loose or weak connection to a gender or certain qualities, but not actually being that gender.

Gossagender: From the root word gossamer, meaning light, transparent, and fragile; a gentle and fragile gender; a gender that is barely there.

Graygender/Gray Agender: is a term that describes a nonbinary gender that is weak and/or indeterminate or that the individual themself is not that invested in their gender.

Vocigender: a gender that is weak-feeling and hollow rather than a specific, certain gender.

As for your chest, that sounds like you have some sort of top dysphoria, or at least some sort of disconnect. As for wanting to be featureless below the waist, that sounds like angenital, which is the desiring to not have any genitalia. Combined with your chest, that may mean that you also wish to be asex? 

You can be any number of genders and be masculine, so none of these identities are mutually exclusive. And if its a mix, then you are probably some sort of multigender. Putting both of these into context, there are some possibilities: 

Alexigender: Gender Identity which is fluid between more than one gender, but the individual cannot tell what those genders are.

Gyragender, Gyaragender, or Gendervex: When you have multiple genders but don’t understand any of them. Can be combined with relevant genders if you’re able to figure out some part of it. (Ex: if you’re gyramasculine, you don’t understand your gender, but you know they have masculine qualities).