I wish there was a way to help deal with sub/dom drop over text. Any tips or ideas?
Hm.. I know for me.. it’s having a basic conversation. Without sex or dom/subbing involved. Treating me like a human being instead of something that needs to be a certain way 24/7. Allowing me to be vulnerable and just exist.
Or even giving em the space and just saying hey, I care about you, I’m here. Please take a break and let me know when you’re back.
This is one of the reasons I don’t offer play everyday.. if we play all the time. I’m gunna get bored, or exhausted or both. Then I won’t want to give attention at all.