neurotypicals when they see borderlines: "omg ur disorder is such an aesthetic!! and it's super sexy too!! I'm gonna romanticize and infantilize you!!!"
neurotypicals when they see narcissists: "you're PURE evil!!!! you deserve pain and agony in your LIFE!!! I HATE you and I hope you die an awful DEATH!!"
neurotypicals when they see people with aspd: "you're even WORSE than narcissists!! you are a THREAT to society and you should be locked up for the rest of your life!!!"
neurotypicals when they see histrionics: "lol who are you??? I don't know anything about ur disorder, and I'm too lazy to look it up, so I'm just gonna ignore you and pretend you don't exist."
stop romanticizing and villainizing disorders, it's extremely ableist. disorders are something that deserve to be taken seriously and treated with respect. you're not a neurodivergent ally if you have a fetish for a disorder, or if you dehumanize people with disorders that aren't seen as "socially acceptable" ableism isn't just discriminating against people with autism or adhd, it also Includes discriminating against people with ASPD or narcissism. so therefore, degrading or sexualizing a disorder, DOES infact make you ableist!!
