It is very important to me that Nine is oftentimes mean and unabashedly selfish actually, not because he's Evil™ Tails™ ™ but because the concept of being Nice to somebody for no reason other than just, being nice, is completely foreign to him. To the point that even when he's genuinely being vulnerable and kind to someone(sonic), he still carries disregard for the other person's actual wants and needs in favor of believing they ultimately share his goals
He's been alone and ostracized his entire short life in New Yoke, so safe to say selflessness and kindness weren't something he'd experienced often nor had anyone to model them after, while both have most likely been introduced to him via Sonic in the first place... Who oftentimes gets himself into pointless, life threatening trouble due to his need to help everyone and fix everything regardless of his wellbeing
However, unlike Nine, Sonic can afford to pull his bullshit stunts because he has people, acquaintances, friends and family (and main character armor) to drag his ass from the brink of death whenever its necessary, and he has years of practice in creating those helpful relationships wherever he goes
The only person Nine could've relied on to keep him alive was himself, so being selfish would not only be logical from his perspective, but outright nescessary for survival. He also actively refuses to make himself small in any way unless he is being actively threatened. Although, honestly he dgaf even then, unless the foreseen consequences of his defiance would be worse than momentarily having to bite his tongue.












