#signsinlove

So... I am so sad to see people being almost afraid of and avoiding this man! I LOVE this position. This is my first time doing this, but I just had to do this for all the diamonds out there who’s struggling with understanding this lovable cutiepie of a man.

So let’s get the facts on the table. HOW is it really to be with an Aquarius Venus man? Let’s play true or false about this stereotype - Based on my experience. 

Is he like the stereotype Aquarius Venus?

- YEEES! well ofc, there are some other aspects in his natal chart that has a say in it too, but that’s another story. Basically, yes. 

Does he really have a hard time opening up?

- Omg, yes. It has taken me 2 years to get him to open somewhat up to me on the relationship part.

Is he emotionally distant?

- Yup. This is true. This position is honestly not for everyone, but that does not mean he doesn’t care for you. He just has his own way of showing it and usually, it is veeery sublte and hidden and you can barely even see it. He is a smooth f*cker

Then how does he show emotions?

-Well. First off, if you are anything like me, you would start fire and flames for your loved one. I can be very aggressive and forward when it comes to showing my love. If you can see yourself in that statement, you should seriously arm yourself with a lot of patience. Because he is NOT like that.

If you want and/or expect him to go to battle and fight his way in for you and your relationship, he won’t do that. At least not as a front line soldier. He will be the master mind behind it all to make sure he wins the war with intelligence, strategy and patience.

He will fight the silent battle. And that is very difficult to understand for most people, ‘cause you can’t actually see him taking any action. He does not overload you with touchy fingers and sweet words

Isn’t he just too difficult?

- Not at all when you get hang of it. In the beginning I felt like I was trying to solve the f*cking Da Vinci mystery, honestly. But the thing is, you have to go a little deeper. With this guy, you have to look for the smaller details, not the bigger picture. Usually, everything you need to know and want to know is right there in front of your eyes, you just have to look a little closer. His love is an abstract painting with focus on the fine, small brush strokes. Pay attention

Is he a stubborn dumbass?

Haha, he is. If Aquarius Venus wants to do something and you “demand” him to do it right the second before he does it, he will do the exact opposite. Don’t ever try to tame or control him, its a lost cause

Can you ever really get him to settle down? 

- Of course you can! But it won’t happen right away. He WILL give you grey hairs long before that, trust me. But once you have him, he will never leave no matter the obstacles. He kinda just continues to hang around like a little fruit fly, chilling in the corner waiting for things to calm down. When you disturb the peace and wave your hands around after him, he will quickly fly away, but only shortly and he’s never too far away 

Is he an independent loner?

- Oh yes, to the independent part. He will never get on your nerves though. Not much chance at being co-dependend here. You live your seperate lives but together, and he will call you at all times a day