so, my sibling and I are compared a lot bc we have some similar hobbies and are close in age, and are both overachieving autistics.
However, i’ve found thinking abut us like we’re in a dnd party helps with not comparing us?
If we were in a dnd party, our sibling would be the strategist. They make a plan, advise the leader. We’d park them a rooftop with a bow, bc they’re the sniper. They’re also really good at fighting physically, and would make a good backup/powerhouse.
We, (styx speficially) are not that, we have an entirely different skill set. While we’re good at planning, we’re much better at thinking on our feet. (i can’t remember which class we’d be lol) we’re charming and smart, we’d think our way out of the situation via charm and improv. (our sibling is also good at this, we just somewhat excel.) we’d be a sword fighter, quick wit and stabby weapons are our favorite combo. We’d be an advisor as well, but we’d be sent in on the front lines and probably as a negotiator or backup.
Man, saying good things about ourself is weird.
All this is to say, we have two different roles and skillsets, and comparing your sniper to your up close and personal stabby person is kinda dumb.
Also if anyone knows which kind of dnd class we are, feel free to drop it in the comments