#shippingwars

Every ship is the best to its shipper. Make love, not war.

There is this ship that go on with "abuse", kinky, full of deception relationship. Helsa. Hanna. 🤫

A ship that goes down with seemingly unhealty relationship. Kristanna. 🤭

A ship that went down on incest. Yeah you read that right. INCEST. Elsanna. 🙃

A ship that just consist about two strangers? Elsamaren. Hansoff. Annamaren. 🤔

A ship about "I steal my sister's boyfriend". Kristelsa. 😏

A ship that said "I probably going to cheat on my wife with a guy" ship. Rydoff. 😉

A ship about "Pedophilia" (Althought both of them are above 18, yea i know. Weird). Jelsa. 🤣

A ship about dead people. DEAD PEOPLE Y'ALL. Agdunna. 💀

🤣🤣🤣🤣

And i'm here just vibing with... "Uuuuuuhhh what a time to be alive. Living in the CHAOS blinging on my hotline!"

You can add more if you want.

My last two Brain Cells:

(Especially younger ones)

I hate to break it to you, but you have to stop arguing with people who disagree with your ship online. (For more reasons than that it causes a toxic fanbase.) You aren't going to convince the people actively against your ship.

I know it's hard, especially because it's not just that people don't like it, but because people likely actively hate and work against your ship. Unfortunately, that's because by nature, you're shipping ENEMIES to lovers. When two characters start off opposing each other, especially with one character blatantly in the wrong, people have a hard time accepting the two could ever see eye to eye let alone fall in love.

Basically, it comes down to this:

A lot of people don't believe that others have the capacity to change. Afterall, the whole dynamic of enemies to lovers relies heavily on there being some huge change in both of their mindsets.

In shipping dynamics, I find that the people who fall into this trap of stagnant mindsets are young highschool and midderschoolers. They're probably very focused on the there and now and don't think things will change much outside of their very small worldview. They're in an awkward place where they have been heavily influenced by the few strong opinions they've experienced since birth. They haven't seen how different the world outside their bubble is. Most importantly, they're not going to suddenly change their mind on your ship. (But don't worry, they will grow.)

The truth is, people in real life marry their bullies. They switch sides in wartime for reasons other than self-interest, they reflect on their actions and with help realize what they were doing was wrong. Apologies exist for a reason. What happens in middle or high school is not the end.

Tldr, People CAN and DO change as they grow and as an enemies to lover shipper you see that. It's hard for a lot of people to accept this and your arguments aren't going to change that, only time can. So step out of shipping wars and enjoy your ship with everyone else that ships it.

When people say 'YoU ShOuLdN't ShIp ThIs111'

I don’t understand how shipping wars even happen.

I mean there’s canon right? The sweet beautiful source material and fodder for the fandoms that hook, line, and sink us in the best and worse ways fuckin’ possible right?

Based on screen time and how certain characters interact with each other, we’re going to have a natural inclination towards certain ships. 

What happens in canon happens in canon, cool, great, awesome, love it, (well most of the time anyway) Whatever y’know?

 I. Accept. The. Reality.

But then my friend, THEN, we have fanfiction the sweetest creation known to us selfish freaks who need more so much more than what sweet wonderful canon has to offer.

Who needs reality when limitless alternate realities exist just beyond the ether? 

A place to let our imaginations fuck each other up and no rules apply accept for basic grammar.

I mean, who needs canon when you have like 76 different head canons that are constantly fighting each other for attention?

What I’m trying to say is that...

I am here for the stories and you should be too! 

Do you have any idea how many amazing talented and thoughtful writers exist with AWE inspiring stories that probably write for a pairing you dislike.

And you hate that pairing  because you haven’t read these stories that portray them so perfectly together.

Because you’re too close minded to get out of your head and let yourself have nice things because you already have one nice thing and you don’t want anyone to touch it.

Yes, I have certain pairings I love more than others.

But none of that shit matters when there are incredible stories to read and worlds to get lost in that have nothing to do with them.

Some of my favourite stories don’t even feature my favourite pairs.

So just do yourself a favour and open your mind a little more.