anyway the shaihard happy ending is like... jdub's worst nightmare cause he used to tell himself that shai never committed to him bc he would never publicly be with a man
then he gets cut off eventually bc shai is in an actual committed relationship with a man thats just not him (not emotionally, just physically lol)(also shai was def sleeping with other people for like at least 2 years into their relationship sorry drew!)
its not a gay thing its a jdub thing... how tragic
anyway i think he forms a one-sided psychosexual bond with drew...
eventually when they go public jdub is very vocal about his support for them and gives a ton of interviews being like "theyre my brothers and i'm so happy they feel comfortable coming out" and then proceeds to go on a 4 day bender
whole time shai is STILL leading him on (emotionally), inviting him to dinner with them, taking him out shopping, inviting him over when drews not around, telling him he loves him (platonically... probably), making him a groomsman in the wedding BYE
also he and drew were genuinely friendly before #shai and now he lowkey hates him but drew is a very chill + generally well adjusted individual so jdub tries REALLY hard to be friends with him and be normal but it doesn't work bc he's medically incapable of being normal
like i think he tries to force himself to be super supportive of them + their relationship to the point where it seems fake but shai is very amused by it so he lets it slide...
anyway when they get married (my big fat torontonian wedding) jdub gets blasted and cody is on damage control the whole time, he gets fucked up at the bachelor party and tries to hook up with both shai and drew, they're both like "you need to leave"
shai tries to set him up with like a distant cousin or something and jdub only sleeps with them so he can also feel like part of the family
this nba player can fit so many miserable headcanons in him