why does ben have the weirdest crack head stalkers like Gator? i saw one of them had written a letter and posted it on here being like "SAVE YOUR SKIN!! YOUR LETTING YOUR STALKERS DOWN" and @ gator and the other one. like girl.... Ben isnt on tumblr, he wont listen to you cause he is SANE and HAPPILY MARRIED. ive been in fandom for ages, ive never seen a celeb have such... disillusioned stalkers before. he would hate them!
you have the power of a monk to keep on putting up with these weirdos!
Living under the delusion that BC (or Sophie, for that matter) "reads" the blogs of Haters makes the stalkers feel important. They feel like they have achieved "notice" and they have a "special relationship" with the intended target.
BTW, BC has already made it very clear what he thinks of people like Gator and Aeltri...
āThere are people who believe that my wife is a P.R. stunt and my child is a P.R. stunt,ā he says, ... "I think really itās to do with the idea that the āInternetās boyfriendā canāt actually belong to anyone else but the Internet.Ā Itās impossible he belongs to anyone but me.Ā And thatās what stalking is. Thatās what obsessive, deluded, really scary behavior is.ā
That's from a 2016 Vanity Fair article but it still holds true today. People like Gator and Aeltri are "obsessive deluded" and "really scary". Their behaviour isn't based on logic or facts. It's based purely on their need to control something in their lives. And since they absolutely can't control BC"s actual life, they comfort themselves with at least controlling the false NARRATIVE they have spun over the years about BC"s marriage and family. It doesn't make any sense but it's all they got.
As for me, I'm in it for several reasons. One, I don't think LIARS should get away with blatant lies. Someone has to expose them for what they really are.
I'm just one of a number of blogs who counteract the "Septics". Over the years the number of Hater/Septic blogs have dwindled for a variety of reasons. Some got bored, some realised their narrative just couldn't be sustained, some didn't like the online scrutiny.
But a few hardcore ones like Gator and Aeltri still persist. They're still around harassing the fandom, trying to spoil any lighthearted fun they have, and try to spin even more outrageous lies about BC, Sophie, their children, BC"s colleagues and friends, and his career.
And to counterbalance their lies there will always be blogs, like mine and others, who will be available to say "Not so fast! That's a LIE!".
