#selfship activities

Switch outfits

New hairstyle

Work / school uniform

As favorite duo

Historical

Horse ride

Fursonas (or humansonas)

Eating dinner

Baking together

Phone charms

Subtle keychains

Dream wedding / birthday

Outfit inspired on you both

Younger

Older

New clothing style

Sailing on the sea

Fairytale

Halloween costume

Makeup 

Hide and seek

Cradling

Head pats

Vacation

Pool party

Fruit picking

Selfie

Mirror

Morning routine

Skincare

Sports

Card game

Candy making

Futuristic

Inspired by your favorite song

Take a proverb literally

Writing a letter

Studying (or procrastination)

New shoes

Gloves

Bird watching

Cultural clothing

Redraw as a scene of your favorite movie

Favorite animal

Wordle word of the day

Fast food

Cleaning

Hairclips

Style from another decade

Nail design

Thematic drinks

Detectives

Classroom

Dream bedroom

Phone call

In another artstyle

Pajama party

Thunderstorm

Hometown

Pokemon team

Family

Toasting

Museum visit

Sewing

Videogames

Feeding 

Ice cream

Summertime

Dolls

Superheros

Window shopping

Computer

Haircut

Cosplay

Dancing

Magical girls 

If in an otome

Favorite vocaloids

Butterflies

Spring

Driving

Supermarket trip

Fashion subculture

Aquarium 

First design

Paint

Prank

Favorite quotes

Elevator

Urban legend

Perfume

Street food

Lipstick

Surprise

Drawn into a real life picture

Arts and crafts

Puddles

Vending machine

Flower arrangement 

Soft

Edit pictures: You can use an editing app like Ibis paint x or Picsart to put your oshi or f/o in your pictures, making them cute also.

Listen to their favorite music: Make a playlist of songs you think they’d like or that they canonically listen to, maybe they have a theme song? Or you can make a playlist of songs that represent you both.

Make an AMV: If theyre from a series or movie, you can make an amv to a song you think fits their vibe! Really fun and easy to do with programs like alight motion, kinemaster or capcut.

Scrapbook: you dont need much for this, you can do it either digitally or physically, just get some stickers, pencils or markers draw your f/o and theme a page around them. For digital, you can use Ibis paint x, photopea or any similar drawing program.

Make a 3d model: This one is tricky because you need a high end device so it doesnt lag, but you can make your very own 3d (oshi or f/o) in Vroid. Be warned its mostly for humanoid body types, so if your f/o is any other kind of build, it might be difficult.

Write them a note: Write a note about them, it can be about how pretty, smart or interesting they are, or even more specific about any part of their lore or interests. Maybe write something theyve helped you with?

Add them in a game: You can make them in a game like Gacha life, Papa louie pals, Poca mate (this one is good for couples), or Toca life.

Make a list of videos they’d enjoy: Whether it be on tiktok or youtube, you can make a list of things theyd enjoy and add to it! Can be edits of them, things related to them, anything with their vibe or even inspiration for drawings.

Make an animation meme: If you can draw, this will be easier but you can also do this with official arts if your f/o or oshi is 2d. You can do this with any drawing app and then with alight motion or capcut, you can also use this in scratch, where there are already templates free to use

Make a dress up game of them: This is more complicated, but its easier to understand with a few tutorials, which there are many of. Use scratch and draw some of their outfits! It doesnt have to be perfect, it just needs to exist! Make code and dress them up! You can even add props or maybe add options for music? Its all at your will.

Eat with them: When you have your breakfast or dinner, you can put up a picture of them on your phone / computer or get merch of them beside you (with carefulness not to stain it!) and eat as if it were a date.

Make a moodboard: You can make a pinterest board of things they like, that fit their vibe, or things you would like them to wear, truly anything you can want!

Get into their interests: Watch a documentary of things theyd like, there are many free documentaries on YouTube, so dont be afraid to watch and learn. Whether its victorian sewing or marine biology, there is a lot of information you can learn to be closer to them.

Make a paper doll: Draw them and some clothes, cut them out and get to playing! If you have a printer you can also draw it digitally. Find clothes inspiration from their source or from pinterest and get to drawing!

Asmr: Find asmr that fits them, maybe its wax sealing? Or card shuffling, there are many kinds of asmr out there.

Internet page: Dedicate an internet page to your selfship / oshi! It can be a carrd, rentry or a strawpage. You can request graphics for it or make them yourself (which in my opinion is more fun!) and edit them into your page. It might look confusing at first but once you figure out how to decorate the website, it becomes suuper fun!!

Date outside: Carry an object representing them (it can be a keychain, jewelry, a picture in your wallet, etc) and when you go on about your day, you can think about them or what they’d say about the activities youre doing in the moment! Afterwards you could write it down.

Match outfits: Find any outfit they have worn and try to dress similarly, it makes for a lot of fun if you got time to spare. If they dont have any matching ones, consider editing / drawing them into an outfit. You could also draw you both matching!

Thats all for now, I hope you enjoy.