Sometimes you donβt just miss a person. You miss a version of yourself.
The you who laughed more easily. The you who wasnβt so tired. The you who believed in things without overthinking them. Itβs strange to grieve someone who still existsβ¦ but not in the same way.
Growing changes you. Hard days change you. Survival changes you. And sometimes you look in the mirror and wonder where that softer, lighter version of you went.
But hereβs the gentle truth: they didnβt disappear. They grew with you.
Every version of you was doing the best they could with what they knew at the time. That carefree you? They carried hope. This current you? You carry strength, awareness, depth. You are not βworse.β You are different because you have lived.
Itβs okay to miss who you used to be. Just donβt forget to honor who you are now. You are still becoming. And one day, you might look back at this version of you with tenderness too. π€












