#scaol rant

Y puede que con algunas personas hable mucho un tiempo, luego nada, la vida siga y todo eso.

Y que haya personas que solo se crucen o gente con quien ni hablas, pero ahí está, esa persona de internet que no es un desconocido del todo.

Para aquellas personas con quienes me he cruzado, me cruzaré, hablé, hablo o hablaré

De verdad os abrazaba.

(Image from @evagamayun (aka Tanya Shatseva)

This Friday a guy I just met wanted to argue about trans people and feminism. I've been thinking about that conversation all weekend. I didn't even wanted to talk about that because I knew how it would go. As it has went so many times. He just wanted to say all his thoughts about why are they wrong and terf are being attacked and... Is exhausting. He just changed subjects as I gave reasons and arguments or pointed his contradictions. When he wanted, his experiences were valid but others weren't. He just pointed that some people divide and gave badges of "good feminists" but he was doing just the same. I pointed out all of that. When he tried to change what I was saying ("actually what you mean...") I stood and made clear what I was saying, not what he was twisting so "we had the same thoughts".

Was a tiring chat. I'm tired to have this kind of talk over and over and over again. Not just that issue, so many of them, where I would love to have people who think as I do so we could talk about it and not to be the one they pour the discourse they need to teach.