Nov 30, 2025
My wife and I had a hard but honest conversation.
She told me that as I continue transitioning, she doesn’t think she’ll be able to be intimate with me. She supports my transition fully, but she’s also taking care of her own emotions — and she isn’t attracted to women.
I don’t hold that against her. It’s just the reality we’re both navigating.
Tonight it sank in that becoming myself may mean our relationship stays loving but platonic. I’m holding a lot of tenderness around that. It’s complicated, but I’m trying to meet it with clarity and compassion for both of us.
