(CONTENT WARNING FOR SA AND SH) So uhh, I kinda wanna go into full depth here about what's happening to me as my ex has stalked me on EVERY other app than this.. I genuinely think I have the right to talk about this anyways so, lets start
My ex boyfriend is a serial sexual assaulter. He sa'd both me and my friend, who is also his ex. Now, he claimed during our relationship to be the victim of his last one. He claimed that my friend, who I'm gonna call c, forced themselves on him. (I listened cos I'm an easy person to manipulate as my mind isn't the best anyways as I had lost a bit of oxygen to it while I was younger due to an incident) But I slowly started realising during my relationship that it clearly wouldn't have been like that. At the start of our relationship, I was ecstatic, I was talking all about it, expecting to be loved and cared for. If only I had known he would force himself on me and then treat me like a money dispenser. The day we started our relationship, he made me touch him. Yes, in that way. I'm a minor, to start. And I told him after that that im asexual and I'm uncomfortable with him doing that. At that point it got a little better, hed ask for it but every time I would say no, he'd ask me why or tell me he wants it and that "itll be fun"... He constantly tried getting me to e̶a̶t̶ h̶i̶m̶ o̶u̶t̶ which made me extremely uncomfortable. After the first incident I had washed my hands until it hurt and he caused me to start self harming, him constantly being near me now has made me relapse too as he's purposely starting arguments in my friend group and is targeting my more vulnerable friend, he recently made me come home from school in the middle of a breakdown cos he was stressing me out that much. He has made me move on from my arms (which are full) to my hips/thighs..recently he called me childish too although im not the one who sexually harms other people only to act like the victim. Mind you I've been treating the situation calmly. But he hasn't been in the right at all, he claims he's hyper sexual but at the same time he says he's asexual. Polar opposites. He also believes that Im a horrible person for no reason other than him breaking up with ME beca use he wanted to guilt trip me. He has hurt me and my friends so much and still tries to be the victim, but he tries to self diagnose AGAIN with npd (narcissistic personality disorder) mind you my DAD has it so I understand how it looks. It doesnt look like targetting an autistic child for the simple fact of them not having as much sympathy as you do. He's an ass and I hope I never see him again past school
His messages
My reply (this was while I was still "under his spell" as I'd describe it)
