In lieu of recent hate in shipping tags, I just feel the need to say that what you ship in a fictional universe does not determine whether or not you are a good person.
You can ship "problematic" things and still be an amazing person. You're not purposely hurting anyone. If someone does happen to ignore the tags and any warnings given, that is not the content creators/shippers fault. It is not what someone ships that dictates the kind of person they are but rather the actions they take.
People spreading hate and telling people to die over a ship will always be worse than someone who simply enjoys the chemistry between two people in a fictional universe.
And I may not be the most active in the fandom, but I'm sure you're all lovely.