#rosy posts.

A. You genuinely identify as a radfem, but you’re a TIRF or TRF.

OR

B. You’re technically opposed to radfems, but you still clearly carry radfem schools of thought with you. The only thing stopping you from identifying as one is that radfems are the ones actively causing harm right now. So you’re stuck in the pipeline like a damn spitball, constantly insisting you’re not going down a path you very clearly are.

Either way, this website needs to properly understand radical feminism in its entirety so you can recognize its rhetoric, reject it, and stop trying to reform an ideology that is transphobic, exorsexist, and intersexist, and at its core is also deeply conservative, racist, and rooted in white supremacy.

I get the fear of possible fetishization but also I know how people treat real people is what is far more indictive of their character than the fiction they write or read, and if this woman is treating the actual trans people around her whether they're deeply involved in her life or not with actual respect and not like sex objects, genuinely, why care about the AO3 smut?

Especially when there are real trans masculine being chased, fetishized and abused by cishetperisex men all the time by being slowly forced into detransitioning.

Bigots already have preconceived notions of us being rapists, pedophiles, zoophiles, and just sexual predators in general. They will not give a fuck that we vehemently reject these people as part of the community, that's what they already thought before but now there's something new for them to try to justify oppressing us.

Instead, focus on the fact "Radqueer" came from someone who was pro-contact for paraphilias and originated xenosatanism ( the belief that the age of consent should be abolished, that CSAM/CSEM should be legal, rape/sexual assault should be legalized, etc) and that it is majority vulnerable minors and some adults in these groups. We should be trying to help them get out of these circles and protect them from exploitation.

That's not how conservatives work, especially religious ones. Most of them are actively disgusted by the kinks that allo and non sex repulsed people have, even if it out of some internalized shame because they have it too or secretly do it behind closed doors. They want people to be having strictly married, vanilla, missionary sex with the lights off.