This is the Romo Aro flag.

“A romantic aromantic, an opt in umbrella term for aros who are romance favorable, partnering, lovequeer, experience some amount of romantic attraction (ex greyros or arospecs), desire romantic attraction or relationships, or otherwise identify with the term. ; seems or feels “too romantic to be aromantic””

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RomoAro Culture is constantly feeling like an imposter for using the Aromantic label due to the constant "Love Loses", "Fuck Romance", "Romance is gross and weird", etc attitude being constantly spread throughout the Aro and AroAce community.

RomoAro Culture is constantly feeling like a faker because you consider yourself Aromantic and not Greyromantic even though you have romantic attraction to two systems and have never felt genuine romance outside of those two systems, and feel like "little to no romantic attraction" is applicable to you, but always see that "little" ignored and shoved out of the community.

RomoAro Culture is being in a romantic relationship with another Aro person and your relationship either being misunderstood or being shoved out for being romantic with each other.

RomoAro Culture is being invisible to the Aro and AroAce community because you're too fucking Allo for them, but being too Aro for Allos, and never, EVER feeling like you belong anywhere.

RomoAro Culture is looking for RomoAro content that feels applicable to your experience and either finding so little of it, or people insisting that Aros can't ever feel Romantic Attraction and that RomoAros only ever WANT to feel romantic attraction, but can't, and never EVER acknowledge that some RomoAros DO feel very little romantic attraction.

RomoAro Culture is seeing a post that supports RomoAros and then seeing "So we can't be loveless Aros anymore?" and justifying Romance Negativity and saying it's not real, Saying that Romance Repulsed people are the only valid forms of Aromantic out there, etc in the reblogs, and therefore pushing other Aros out of the community.

Do you folks have any suggestions what one could do to celebrate “anti-valentines”?

I might just treat myself to cake if I find nothing better

I don’t have friends who I could spend a “palentine’s day” with and while I’m sort of a romo aro (and certainly partnering aro), I’m in a mood to stick it to the system recently

(That last but feels so silly but no clue how to word it differently)

I will be wearing one of my aro pride hoodies, definitely, and I do have green hair 😁

And I might post some alterous/ queerplatonic pining on my writing sideblog but that’s not relevant

This is the Romo Aro flag.

Like I feel like a can't function and feel kinda weird

It's not that I don't want affection or a realtionship

I just don't know why I feel that way and idk what to do

I'm assuming it's something to do with me being aro but idkk ahhh