#romance-repulsed

(All of these songs can be found on Spotify, by the way. I listen to every song mentioned in the reblogs and if I think it fits I will add it to the end of the list, with credit to the user who suggested it, of course.)

“Here” by Alessia Cara (aromantic)

“I Do Not Hook Up” by Kelly Clarkson (some flavor of acespec)

“We’ll Never Have Sex” by Leith Ross (the sex-repulsed alloace anthem)

“Asexual Love” by Lily Summer (alloace, I think, or aroace with a QPR)

“ace song” by Izzie Burton (sex-repulsed alloace)

“Never Been In Love” by Will Jay (aroace)

“Turning Out” by AJR (quoiromantic, arospec in general)

“People Watching” by Conan Gray (cupioromantic and aromantic)

“Turning Out Pt. II” by AJR (aromantic, probably aroace)

“Turning Out Pt. III” by AJR (asexual, either grayromantic or romance-favorable aromantic)

“We Don’t Have to Take Our Clothes Off” by Ella Eyre (demisexual)

“Crash Culture” by Conan Gray (sex-repulsed and romance-repulsed aroace)

“I’d Do Anything for Love (But I Won’t Do That)” by Meatloaf (sex-repulsed alloace)

“Love Song” by Sara Bareilles (against amatonormativity)

“Zero Feelings” by Zoe Clark (aroace, possibly loveless aro)

“Like All My Friends” by Francis Karel (aromantic, cupioromantic)

“Don’t Tell Me” by Avril Lavigne (sex-averse alloace)

“Soulmate” by Lizzo (aroallo)

“Sit Still, Look Pretty” by Daya (aromantic, likely aroallo)

“Sex Yeah” by MARINA (against allonormativity)

“Oh No!” by MARINA (loveless aro, or else just aromantic and aplatonic)

“Something That We’re Not” by Demi Lovato (aroallo)

“No Friends” by CADMIUM (aplatonic)

“i think i wanna be alone” by mazie (loveless aro)

“Lemon Boy” by Cavetown (QPR love song)

“You’re My Best Friend” by Queen (QPR love song)

“Shape of You” by Ed Sheeran (aroallo, romance favorable)

“Fictional Men” by PEGGY (fictoromantic)

“Home” by Cavetown (aromantic)

“It’s Only Sex” by Car Seat Headrest (sex-repulsed ace), suggested by @taffylaffy

“Flowers” by Miley Cyrus (can be interpreted as aroacespec or just arospec or acespec), suggested by @cl0udypaws.

“Love Love Love” by Of Monster and Men (loveless aro; seems romance favorable to me) suggested by @a-genderless-frog

“Bite the Hand” by boygenius (the user suggested this was aromantic but I feel like it can be interpreted as any variety of aspec since the main thing that unites us is not feeling “love” the same way as other people; I think it’s most relevant for aro- and apl- spec folks though), again suggested by @a-genderless-frog.

“Squaring Up” by Sir Chloe (romance-repulsed aro, against amatonormativity), suggested by @a-genderless-frog.

“Sports” by Beach Bunny (romance-averse aromantic), suggested by @a-genderless-frog

”Don’t Fall In Love” by Danko Jones (romance-averse aromantic), suggested by @voidscape-the-oblivion.

“Romance Is Boring” by Los Campesinos! (definitely gives me an aroallo or sex-favorable aroace vibe personally), suggested by @voidscape-the-oblivion.

“Heart Heavy” by Mother Mother (romance-repulsed aro, against amatonormativity), suggested by @voidscape-the-oblivion

“Aromantic Moodboard” by Maxwell Anthony (aromantic), suggested by @chelowl

“Are They Actually Attractive?” by Boy Jr. (quoiromantic, quoisexual, etc.), suggested by @chelowl

“It’s Okay To Be Lonely” by Mothé (aromantic), suggested by @chelowl

“Only Over You” by Fleetwood Mac (grayromantic), suggested by @brain-salad-sovereign

“death wish” by Lyn Lapid (aromantic), suggested by @wishgirl101

“I’m Happy Just To Dance With You” by the Beatles (demiromantic), suggested by @wishgirl101

IDK if seeing something innocuous and getting reminded of something upsetting you'd completely forgot about and being unable to stop being upset about it until you make a piece of art about it to expunge the thoughts is an OCD thing or what

Those are all 3 different things.

I'm celibate, because I chose celibacy by deciding to never have sex nor a romantic relationship. I made this decision because I'm repulsed by sex and romance.

I'm aromantic, because I was born unable to experience romantic attraction towards anyone.

I'm asexual, because I was born unable to experience sexual attraction towards anyone.

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The Roaring Knight from Deltarune is a humankin trixic transmascneu gendervoid darkgender caeduerine being with NPD, BPD, ASPD, and PTSD who canonically uses they/them and it/its pronouns!

Pre-Knighting, they were in a situationship with Asriel Dreemurr (who has been trying out the name Flowey in college), an autistic romance-repulsed aromantic demisexual transneutral nonbinary flowergender being with AVPD, C-PTSD, and an anxiety disorder who uses any pronouns with a preference for they/them and it/its!

Before going off to college, Asriel was also in a situationship with Pizzapants, a polyamorous bisexual stealth trans guy who uses he/him and they/them pronouns!

Some people... really take offense to this, as they tend to do when it comes to any sexuality that isn't heterosexual. Unfortunate.

There is nothing wrong with being aspec. It's ok to be aspec because of trauma, or because that is simply who you are. I don't believe we are broken individuals who need to be fixed. I don't think it's appropriate to tell people they are abusive or heartless because of their lack of attraction. We can say we love someone as we wish and not be bound to the ideas of romance. But we should know that not everyone enjoys the idea of loving people, even if it isn't in a romantic context. Not enjoying or wanting sex does not mean you cannot enjoy sexual things, and it does not mean you are anti-sex. Aspec people, especially those romance and or/sex-repulsed should not be infantilized. We are not babies.