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Churches have become a haven for the 'marriage-haves,' whereas the 'marriage-have-nots' gravitate toward the margins. This is a scandal. Instead of perpetuating divisions, churches should be breaking through them.

Divorce does represent a failure to keep a covenant. There may be times when the failure is due to the actions of one or both spouses. Other times, it might be the failure of the Church to support the couple as they need. But failure never speaks the final word to those who turn to Christ.

I also really felt compelled to shake the Church by its collective shoulders and say, 'There are women dying in your congregations, and you are just giving them the same freaking list that you give a couple in a funk. You can't tell her to go on a date night or have more sex or cook more.'

The best worship songs ache for God rather than repeatedly declare how awesome He is.

In Captive, we had to fight against every instinct to make it feel cool. Nothing should be glamorous about it. ...These things are not edifying to anyone, whether it be the perpetrators or the victims. For me, I don't mind showing those things as long as they are being shown for what they actually are.

I turn down a lot of movies because sometimes they glamorize violence or the darker side of sex or criminality. I don't shy away from the darkness, and anyone who has read the Bible knows that God does not shy away from the darkness, as well. ...But the Bible is undeniably a book of light. It does not hold up darkness as the path to follow but it shows darkness and shows how light overwhelms the darkness.

The thing that drew me to [Captive] is the realness of it. You have a murderer and a meth addict, but it's completely reframed. Those two kinds of characters in a lot of movies would be the heroes of the piece. It would be Bonnie and Clyde. It would be the guys who are really cool. But it was the opposite in this, and it was the truth. Not only was it the truth of what being a meth addict and a murderer means, but it was a true story.