you said they're "literally echoing terf rhetoric". which is funny, considering you're the one pushing "male socialization" ("unlearning aspects of the patriarchy), which is... you guessed it... literally echoing terf rhetoric. trans women saying "men oppress women" are not calling for the mass exclusion of masculinity. you actually aren't allowed to be upset that people who are more marginalized than you are talking about being more marginalized than you. that's actually a pretty wild thing to get pissed about.
Unlearning aspects of the patriarchy is true for all of us, that's literally the point. "More marginalized than you" - firstly, way to play oppression Olympics. Secondly, who says that's true? Where's your proof that trans women are "more" oppressed than trans men? Thirdly, why does that mean that I'm not allowed to talk about my own oppression, and the way that others are perpetuating it? Am I not allowed to talk about biphobia when a lesbian is perpetuating it?
And this isn't about "men oppress women". I have been very clear that this is about excluding queer men, that this is about hatred of masculinity as a concept, about LITERALLY CALLING MEN EVIL. And that is besides the fact that *that's not true*. Men do not oppress women. The patriarchy oppresses all of us. I, a gay trans man, do not oppress women. A black man is not in a position of power over a white woman. These are all discussions that have been had and that I thought were settled, until suddenly this idea that trans women are the Only Oppressed Class took hold. It is upsetting to me because we are one community, and we're supposed to be united under one cause. This division hurts us all.
I will not apologize for being upset when trans women say all men are evil. Because I am proud to be a trans masc, and I find joy in my masculinity. And these are supposed to be my sisters, not my enemies.



















