#risk taking

Ultimately, fear is born out of anxiety over some sort of distrust –whether it's grounded in logic, emotion, perception, past experiences, etc.

Fear arises from an unknown – any new experience, opportunity, failure, relationship, changes in habits/routines, etc. So, ultimately, this fear is your way of coping with not distrusting others to do what you expect or desire and/or not trusting yourself to be able to cope with a certain environment, habit, responsibilities, changes, interpersonal conflict, etc.

To depersonalize fear, recognize that it's an anxious/emotional response to either a reasonable or illogical unknown/uncertainty. Then, I see what my realistic options are on how to handle the situation and proceed with my following actions by answering these questions:

Looking back at this moment in a year's time, what do I wish I would've done?

What red or green flags are my anxieties discounting or telling me to overlook?

How many of my concerns are grounded in reality, and how many are based on assumptions or negative self-talk?

If a friend was handling this situation, how would I proceed?

Once you answer these questions, you're forcing yourself to take the emotions out of the situation and see all of the key players + moving parts more objectively to make a rational decision.

Thank you and remember to drink water!

“In a world of risk, love is the ultimate reward”

Tags: Aventurine x Reader, Mitsuri based Reader, Romance, Fluff, Established Relationship, Supportive Relationship, Playful Teasing, Adventure, Empathy, Emotional Depth, Headcanons.

Warnings: Mentions of Risk Taking (this is Aventurine we are talking about, ofc it's gonna be here), Playful Competition, Fluff, Mild Language (?).

A/N: I LOVE MITSURI BUT I PROBABLY FUCKED THIS UP!! 😭💔 Also thanks for the reminder, I haven't drink water for while lmaoo

You're incredibly caring and empathetic, always seeking to lift Aventurine's spirits when he’s feeling down. You often surprise him with small gifts or thoughtful gestures to show your affection.

You share a playful and light-hearted relationship with Aventurine, often teasing him about his flamboyant outfits and charming personality, which keeps your interactions filled with laughter.

With your warm and enthusiastic personality, you encourage Aventurine to take risks, whether in his career or personal life, assuring him that it's okay to embrace life’s uncertainties together.

You and Aventurine often embark on whimsical adventures, exploring new places, trying out fun activities, or even attending extravagant parties together, where you can showcase your charming personalities.

During stressful times at the IPC, you provide a calming presence for Aventurine, reminding him to take breaks and enjoy life rather than getting lost in his strategic mindset.

You both enjoy art and creativity, often spending time painting or crafting together. Your artistic talents complement Aventurine’s sophisticated tastes, leading to a collaborative and vibrant home life.

You have a fierce sense of justice and loyalty. You're always ready to defend those who cannot protect themselves, and Aventurine admires this trait, often joining you in your efforts.

You express your affection through gentle touches and sweet words, which endear you to Aventurine, who appreciates your sincerity and emotional depth.

Your relationship is characterized by a beautiful balance of Aventurine’s calculated charm and your emotional intelligence, allowing you to navigate challenges together seamlessly.

You challenge Aventurine to playful competitions, whether it’s games of strategy, cooking (I hc he can't cook at all and survived with cup noodles or something), or even friendly banter, which keeps your relationship lively and engaging.

Your home is a haven filled with soft colors and cozy spaces, decorated with elements that reflect both your personalities, creating an inviting atmosphere where you can share intimate moments.

You often talk about your dreams for the future, creating a shared vision that incorporates both your desires for adventure and stability, reinforcing your commitment to each other.

"How much difference will the No Kings Day protests, even as big as they were, make in the face of the administration’s attempt to get rid of our democratic political system and replace it with authoritarianism? What good is an inflatable frog against federal agents?

"Scholar of social movements Lisa Corrigan noted that large, fun marches full of art and music expand connections and make people more willing to take risks against growing state power. They build larger communities by creating new images that bring together recognizable images from the past in new ways, helping more people see themselves in such an opposition. The community and good feelings those gatherings develop help carry opposition through hard moments. Corrigan notes, too, that yesterday 'every single rally (including in the small towns) was bigger than the surrounding police force available. That kind of image event is VERY IMPORTANT if you’re…demonstrating social coherence AGAINST a fascist government and its makeshift gestapo.'