#response post

Jude: There was no way those pantaloons were staying still.

@ask-eden’s recent post made me laugh so hard that I felt like I had to make a quick picture showing Jude’s reaction to it as well lmao

(Do not harass this person. Literally just block her, it's what the button is for)

Hm. I've done a style of post before where I take one of these screenshots and give them a different perspective. Might as well do it again. Please note that my post *is not targeting transfems or trans women.* I have seen this kind of bullshit from *everyone*. Also, I am not intentionally ignoring a broader nonbinary perspective, but as someone who doesn't fully identify with those identities, I don't want to speak with confidence on other people's experiences.

(All uses of "you" are meant as a general "you" to transandrophobes)

I'm not going to say that I hate a group of people because that would (1) be disingenuous, and (2) would be extremely hurtful.

I wish that people wouldn't speak and act with confidence on transmasculinity when they clearly know nothing about us.

You don't know our culture (you claim we don't have any), you don't know our inside jokes.

You don't acknowledge the transmasculine caricatures that are just as harmful.

You talk about eggs as if they are a transfem-exclusive concept when they are a broader trans term in general. (I don't care about the "there's a chick inside" joke. Have you ever heard of snakes?) You don't want to consider that maybe some people were forced into femininity and girlhood. You don't understand what it's like to try so hard to express your gender just to be told that you're "such a feminist" or "such a tomboy" or that "women can wear pants now, that doesn't make you a man".

Going back to the caricatures thing, you describe us as either children or as ugly unlovable people. It's always either "these trans boys never plan on transitioning" or "testosterone makes you fat and ugly and a scary man that I can't trust". You probably know why this is offensive.

You talk down to us about queer history and culture like we haven't been faggots our whole lives. Many of us who were raised as girls have plenty of experiences with misogyny. That doesn't just go away when we transition "enough". (And testosterone doesn't suddenly make you transmisogynistic. Obviously.)

You tell us that we're transmisogyny "exempt" and vaguepost about us as "tmes" under the guise of technically including cis people. I don't know how many times I've said that transphobes do not care about your agab. They will not stop being transmisogynistic to you if you prove to them that you're "exempt" actually.

You know nothing about us because when transmasc people try to open up about their experiences (or are forced to open up), you don't take us seriously. You have done nothing to seek out our culture and perspectives and it is painfully obvious in posts you make about "birthday boys" and "transandrobros" and "theyfabs". You police our language and feelings to such an extent that many transmasc vent posts I've seen have to start with a disclaimer that they aren't targeting or even talking about transfem people.

You have made my brothers and siblings deprioritize their own wellbeing because you tell us we simply aren't as important. You have made many of my brothers and siblings go back into the closet. You have made us feel like traitors to our community. You claim we aren't part of "your" community. You claim that there isn't and will never be trans unity, because of us.

Originally I wasn’t going to respond to this as I have blocked the person who posted this and didn’t want to engage with them any more, but I was sent this post lying about me by a friend and felt I couldn’t ignore it. I am an adult on this platform and minors follow me, I have a responsibility to explain things.

For starters, I have not and never will defend the person mentioned in this post. @/fatsomcfadden1995 has asked minors for fetish art in dms among many other infractions that are well known by everyone in the Casper community. They are a predator, I have never denied that. I never will deny that. I have not defended them and the assumption that I have is severely reaching.

I did comment under this specific person’s post, but that was only because I did not agree with how the subject matter was handled in said post. Here’s what was said:

To be abundantly clear, the callout was not the problem. I said as much in my comment, I think it’s important that the actions of predators in any community be brought to light. My issue was the tone of the post, the lack of sufficient evidence provided, and the way in which this callout was approached. I didn’t find the post tasteful or professional, so I said as much. Just because I am skeptical of HOW someone did something or went about a topic doesn’t mean I side with the opposing viewpoint. I think it is rather misleading to claim so, especially since as I’ve stated previously I am an adult in the space. People will see this post and assume that I am a dangerous person, and I think that’s rather unfair given all I did was disagree with the execution rather than the point of the post itself.

Also I have no clue where the claim in the bottom portion of that post even came from, never once have I said that what @/fatsomcfadden1995 did was “just a kink” or used any similar argument to defend them. I have been vocal about being pro kink on my platform before yes, but not in relation to this issue.

To conclude this post, I will say this. I have blocked the original poster of the post I am responding to and would prefer if they and any associates of theirs respect that. I will not be responding to any further posts that are made about me or any messages/asks that may be sent my way because of all of this. Everything I have to say on this matter was said here. Also to my friends/followers, please do not go out of your way to harass this person or defend me under their posts. I cropped out their name and pfp from my screenshot for a reason, I wish them no ill will and just want to move on.

Sorry it's kinda buns, I just hope you feel better!!

That person made some serious accusations with no evidence.

What really hurts, the people who chose to believe those lies… I was genuinely and openly celebrating your talents: I sang praise to your art and recced your fics, I commented on your fics, I bookmarked your fics, I supported your comics and reblogged them to the community so that others can enjoy them, God I wrote a fic for one of you to make you happy on a very special day of your life… and you all stab me in the back like that.

To the person who made up those lies: I'm sorry but you gotta have some sick mind (and no life really) to hurt a real person with horrible accusations like that! And all of this because of some dumb argument we had about a cartoon character on Twitter. You chose to target and hurt a real person over a fictional character. Grow up! I NEVER talked about you behind your back and brought your name in such disgrace NEVER. I noticed the passive aggressive posts that are clearly about me and I'd bottle up the hurt and stay silent. I confronted you instead of going behind your back and talk ill about you to others – which you've been doing about me for months. I tried to reach out to you on discord and invited you to join the Maxley community I created. You don't want us to start fresh, that's fine. But, please, stop spreading lies about me. Forget my existence and move on.

@sonder-palms

*Missy was pleasantly suprised by Alyse’s ability to speak to Pokemon. It at least meant that she wouldn’t have to try and stumble her way through a conversation. She blinked and looked at the human, the lingering upset still clear upon her face.*

Missy: I-it’s fine. I’ve heard worse. It was just… something else about them that upset me. Nothing that they could’ve helped.

Me: ...

Me: Looks back at the times i had to watch MCBTPIAS for "Research"

Me: Bet.

Might've alr got that covered pretty well there @cordiwinkswinsagain .. Don't ask how many times exactly- but it is a lot, mostly for lore purposes don't wanna get my infos mixed up, thank you for the reblogs tho i appreciate them! 💛