@staciijae with it’s so many choices to choose from. But the questions can’t seem like you are interviewing someone either. No one likes to feel like on a date someone is grilling them like a “job interview”. A first date is one of things that can make or break the opportunity for two people to make a connection and experience real chemistry. It definitely is the determining factor if another date will even happen at all. First impressions can tell sooo much about a person. After a first date you definitely know if the person is someone you should continue to get to know. My #questionoftheday is: What is one question you SHOULD ask on a date first date?!? 🤔. Ladies and men I would love to hear you responses. Let me know below 👇🏽👇🏽👇🏽👇🏽👇🏽👇🏽👇🏽👇🏽👇🏽👇🏽👇🏽👇🏽👇🏽👇🏽👇🏽 #staciijaeqotd #askstaciijae #relationshipquestion #qotd #datingquestion

#AskStaciiJae I use to be the type of single female that blamed everything about my relationships on EVERYTHING else but what it REALLY was. I was initially silently ashamed of the continued bad choices I made as it pertained to love in my life. I had gotten to the point I just said "f*%k men! I got so bad that I started to tell myself that I didn't want love in my life- no romantic love, that is. I was like relationships are too hard. And men are too disappointing. I would judge someone for just not being able to walk in my life, understand my needs and provide them. Which honestly I realized "hell I didn't really understand my needs my damn self- maybe the surface stuff." I wanted him to show up and give me adventure, but didn't know adventure on my own. All I did was work. I didn't spend any real time doing anything with myself outside movies and dinner. I didn't spend time cultivating a loving, adventurous, romantic relationship with myself. I didn't take responsibility to BECOME who I needed to be to attract what I wanted to attract. Any real sisters out there who can identify with this mindset? Then.... something life shattering happened in my life and I had to look at self. And shit, I realized it was ALL ME! My romantic relationships were a reflection of everything I WAS and CREATED. That was years ago! I am NONE of any of THAT ANYMORE. Being on this other side, being a real student of creating healthy romantic relationships... my life has changed and so has my romantic relationships. It's definitely been a journey. I'm so proud of who I am now as a woman. Now, I spread what is the truth.... We all can have the love we deserve and desire we might just have to do some SELF work to attract the right love that we want. TODAY.... I SALUTE ALL THE OTHER SINGLE LADIES WHO ARE DOING THE SELF WORK. #staciijae #dating #love #loveadvice #relationship #relationshipquestion

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A German foreign exchange student is in my history class (he is really cute) and Friday I invited him to sit with my friends and I. He came over and we chatted and made jokes. I think we really made a connection. We were both subtly flirting (at least I was). He kept leaning in really close to me and asking me personal questions (his German accent is to die for). My question is; how on earth do I hint to him (subtly) I am interested because I have been looking at German relationship traditions and apparently German can't get a hint without it spelled out.

Because we have specific mutual goals and purposes that only each one of us can fulfill thats why

Just wanted some peoples opinion?